Maturity Of Indian Males

[krish44]

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The indian male according to Dr Svenson matures physically only by the age of 44. and that too only in terms of his top half.

for emotional maturity ,the average age is even more ,at 57 years.

Dr Svenson based his research of over 2769 indian males, all of whose prostates he examined personally at least twice.

So advise males not to marry young.females beware you do not want kids as husbands, wait for them to become mature before tying the knot.lol

From HT of Nov 10 2014

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[renuka]

Wow great!

Now all Maamas can give young guys a run for their money!

 

[renuka]

Dear Krish ji,

I think a male is completely mature only when he is dead!LOL

No wonder men are ever young!

 

[krish44]

Dear Krish ji,

I think a male is completely mature only when he is dead!LOL

No wonder men are ever young!

!!!!!!!

 

[renuka]

!!!!!!!

????????

 

[SANDHYAV]

Maturity starts at birth

 

[CHANDRU1849]

The indian male according to Dr Svenson matures physically only by the age of 44. and that too only in terms of his top half.
for emotional maturity ,the average age is even more ,at 57 years.

The research finding is not clear. What does he mean by :

Physical maturity
Top Half
Bottom Half (naturally if there is top half)
Emotional maturity

Did he conduct any research on other country men and if so, what are the findings?

 

[SANDHYAV]

I can only second Mr. CHANDRU, for example in the Hand what does he mean by maturity, FLEXIBILITY/ STIFFNESS?

 

[krish44]

regards queries in posts no#7 Chandruji and 8# Sandhyavji, we have to ask Cyrus Brocha the author of the article in HT today.

I found the write up interesting ,

He was advising some youngsters wanting to get married in personal column and telling them to lay off until they were old enough for it

 

[sarang]

Share the link. Without studying the survey methodology, all discussions will be following the proverbial story of blind persons describing an elephant!

The indian male according to Dr Svenson matures physically only by the age of 44. and that too only in terms of his top half.

for emotional maturity ,the average age is even more ,at 57 years.

Dr Svenson based his research of over 2769 indian males, all of whose prostates he examined personally at least twice.

So advise males not to marry young.females beware you do not want kids as husbands, wait for them to become mature before tying the knot.lol

From HT of Nov 10 2014

Comments...

 

[JR]

The indian male according to Dr Svenson matures physically only by the age of 44. and that too only in terms of his top half.

for emotional maturity ,the average age is even more ,at 57 years.

Dr Svenson based his research of over 2769 indian males, all of whose prostates he examined personally at least twice.

So advise males not to marry young.females beware you do not want kids as husbands, wait for them to become mature before tying the knot.lol

From HT of Nov 10 2014

Comments...

Namaste Krish ji,

There are several facets to emotional maturity as much are there are to intelligence. In general, an emotionally mature person can be considered to be one who is having a balanced view on several pressing issues, both related to personal and societal causes, as well as sufficient tolerance levels when subjected to pressure. Both these types of emotional maturity develops in a person over a period of time. But I personally believe that those exposed to losses/strifes/difficulties when yougn and as they age can show a high level of tolerance than those who for example, have been pampered. So I would say, it is rather a very personal thing for emotional maturity to evolve and the age when a person starts manifesting mature behavior pattern varies from person to person.

 

[renuka]

Frankly speaking mature behavior can come across as down right boring at times.

Everyone needs to have a child in them..the inner child that does not mind shouldering responsibility and yet not forget playfulness of life.

The best partner is a Child-Man..a man who isnt afraid to be vulnerably playful and knows his strength at the same time.

Maturity is out dated in my opinion..its a sign of being brain dead.

 

[krish44]

Frankly speaking mature behavior can come across as down right boring at times.

Everyone needs to have a child in them..the inner child that does not mind shouldering responsibility and yet not forget playfulness of life.

The best partner is a Child-Man..a man who isnt afraid to be vulnerably playful and knows his strength at the same time.

Maturity is out dated in my opinion..its a sign of being brain dead.

I have a simple way of thinking.
If one loves behaviour of a child ,locate a child and play with him/her .

if the need is a man , find someone with muscles [physical and financial] with brains and date him if he is mature enough. mature and possibly Boring guys can indulge

and protect ladies,lol

 

[renuka]

I have a simple way of thinking.
If one loves behaviour of a child ,locate a child and play with him/her .

if the need is a man , find someone with muscles [physical and financial] with brains and date him if he is mature enough. mature and possibly Boring guys can indulge

and protect ladies,lol

I always believe that the a person needs to be interesting enough to keep protecting.

Flexing of muscles mean nothing if not accompanied by child like innocence.

 

[krish44]

Namaste Krish ji,

There are several facets to emotional maturity as much are there are to intelligence. In general, an emotionally mature person can be considered to be one who is having a balanced view on several pressing issues, both related to personal and societal causes, as well as sufficient tolerance levels when subjected to pressure. Both these types of emotional maturity develops in a person over a period of time. But I personally believe that those exposed to losses/strifes/difficulties when yougn and as they age can show a high level of tolerance than those who for example, have been pampered. So I would say, it is rather a very personal thing for emotional maturity to evolve and the age when a person starts manifesting mature behavior pattern varies from person to person.

JRji

You are very wise.

I tend to agree that emotional maturity has a correlation with those who are tolerant due to various reasons such as exposure to poverty,difficulties ,losses in life.

so if if you want emotonal maturity , wiser to put age aside and opt for someone who has become mature facing difficulties in life.

no harm in an older guy. they say old is gold.lol

 

[CHANDRU1849]

Growth is natural. While physical growth is automatic, even one doesn't not wish, he / she cannot avoid it. Mental growth is dependent on the environment in which a person is moving around. If he/she has good guidance from parents, peers, teachers, office etc., maturity level coupled with practical thinking will be of high order. Such people will come up very well in life.

Child ego may only be a temporary phenomenon or may come out at some specific instances. This may be present in all human beings. Matured people will decide and act according to situations, without bothering self and others.

 

[renuka]

But why does one need to be mature?

Doesnt anyone enjoy being immature?

 

[krish44]

renukaji

I do not know, Others definitely enjoy when one is immature in posting.lol

 

[renuka]

renukaji

I do not know, Others definitely enjoy when one is immature in posting.lol

Yes..now you get my point.

Serious threads and posts are seldom taken seriously.

Write some gibberish and it becomes a sensation!

People love immaturity becos it lets us relax and be what we really want to be.

Being mature is not my cup of tea or coffee.

Its plain boring and ages a person very fast.

Check out the faces of people who are mature..you will find a wrinkled face even at the age of 40!

 

[renuka]

Dear Krish ji,

If you have observed that children and oldies are very much alike...both are immature.

When one is young one throws tantrums and can be very sensitive..the same is seen at a very advanced age.

Reason? Both ..children and the elderly need love and attention in higher doses.

Meet a very young child and if he has a younger sibling and feels "jealous" he will cry "Waah Waah my mummy does not love me anymore...she has a new baby"


Now meet an oldie..he too will cry "Waah Waah..my son does not care for me anymore..I wasted my whole life looking after him..Waah Waah..my son now only loves his wife..aiyoo Kadavule!"


So you see its only in between childhood and old age humans seem a little "mature"

So even maturity is transient..when we all become oldies we are going to become immature again!LOL

 

[krish44]

perhaps thats why old age is called second childhood?

 

[renuka]

perhaps thats why old age is called second childhood?

Yes..that is why I am in no hurry to be mature!LOL

 

[krish44]

I can see that.renukaji

Still there is time for change to maturity status for young teenagers.

until then
"Row row row the boat gently down the stream

Merrily merrily merrily life is but a dream"

Making you remember your childhood poems.lol

 

[renuka]

I can see that.renukaji

Still there is time for change to maturity status for young teenagers.

until then
"Row row row the boat gently down the stream

Merrily merrily merrily life is but a dream"

Making you remember your childhood poems.lol

Ha Ha Ha..

My mum used to sing "Row row row your boat" for my younger brother when he was a child.

For my elder brother she used to sing "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star"

For me she used to sing some song called "Planting rice is no fun, bent from morn till set for sun..cannot stand..cannot sit..cannot rest a little bit"

I wonder why my song alone was weird!

 

[sravna]

Dear Renuka,

You have a cliched view of maturity. Maturity happens when you have the right balance of holistic and logical thinking. That's also when one can be genuinely humorous in my view. So contrary to what you think being mature is real fun.