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One persons view on why he became a Hindu

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How I Became a Hindu B Y P A R T H A J . M I L L E R.

MY FAMILY’S HISTORY IN America can be traced back to 1643. I am an American of British, German and Polish descent, with roots that delve deeply into Christian Anglo-America. Now, however, I am a Hindu.

As fate would have it, there in my own town was a Chinmaya Mission temple. Swami Siddhananda, our temple acharya, along with the temple members, welcomed me with great warmth. As I entered this new world with childlike ignorance, Swamiji patiently answered all my questions. He showed me the very basics, including participation in puja and arati. I held the philosophy of Hinduism close to my heart and felt it easy to assimilate, but I did have difficulty learning the most basic cultural acts and behaviors, those that the children at the temple performed so naturally.
After attending the temple for a year, I decided to make a more concrete commitment. I asked Swamiji if there was a formal ceremony that could be done to mark my conversion. He and Pandit Ekambaram Prasad, our temple priest, performed the initiation. During the ceremony, Swamiji gave me the name Partha.

A few Christians and others criticized me. They argued that one must draw on one’s own heritage. They said Hinduism is an ethnic religion for Indians only, and I would not be able to fully engage in an “alien” faith. I’d ask, to which heritage of mine should I turn? The Methodism of my grandmother’s family? Or perhaps the Mennonites they had previously been? Or the Lutheranism of my paternal grandfather? My ancestors were many things, converting from one religion to another in the face of change.
Hinduism is not as alien to Westerners as one might suppose. American conceptions of the Self and God have been evolving since the early nineteenth century. The writings of Ralph Waldo Emerson, Henry David Thoreau and other members of the Transcendentalist movement introduced Hindu concepts to the broad American public. Theosophists later popularized, however inaccurately, many Hindu concepts and paved the way for the arrival of Swami Vivekananda and Paramahansa Yogananda. Today increasing numbers of non-Hindu Americans accept reincarnation, some simplified version of the Advaita philosophy, the non-duality of Self and God, and the belief that there are countless paths to Truth.
What I needed from a religion was a context and worldview through which I could work towards a direct experience or perception of the Self, God, and the Supreme Truth. Hinduism offers the means to attain these goals. Although the temple I go to is suffused with an Indian culture distinct from my own, Hinduism allows me to pursue eternal principles, transcending the categories of Indian, Western or American.

In My Opinion: How I Became a Hindu - Magazine Web Edition > April/May/June 2013 - Publications - Hinduism Today Magazine
 
Hinduism Is Right Next Door


My journey toward Hinduism taught me that anyone who is sincere and open-minded can find a place in this most ancient faith


B Y P H I L L I P M I N E R
I STUMBLED UPON HINDUISM WHILE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT was missing from my life. I came from a tolerant religious background, having grown up in the Unitarian Universalist faith, which made me open to the validity of Hinduism. Still, until a few years ago it didn’t dawn on me that this would be the religion to give me peace of mind and psychological well-being. As with many Westerners, I struggled to find my path, taking the leap, learning more and planting the seeds of genuine belief and appreciation. It seemed like a daunting task. Too often, for Westerners, the necessary learning and participation in the culture seems alien. As a result, they never get started or even know how to start. Typically, they are filled with misinformation, with ideas like extreme forms of meditation (and self-mortification), with notions of making arduous journeys to plunge themselves in the Ganga.

I eventually discovered that Hinduism is a faith that anyone, regardless of race, social status or background, can embrace if they sincerely want to—and the key word here is sincerity. To be a Hindu, one has to believe in the culture, the practices and the philosophy with their hearts and minds.

Eventually, I had to ask what makes a Hindu a Hindu? How does an outsider, like me, come into the faith? In response, Uma Gupta told me a Hindu is “one who practices tolerance, who takes care of all living beings, sees the divine in everything and pursues righteousness and goodness against all odds.” That sounded good to me.

It was that realization which convinced me of Hinduism’s fit for me. I discovered that it doesn’t just teach tolerance for others—it teaches tolerance of oneself, a trait which I was sorely lacking at the time. I had problems with my self-image. Even though I was raised to be tolerant of others, it was Hinduism that finally taught me how to accept myself as well, thanks to its core concept of dharma, which essentially boils down to everyone and everything having a role and place in the universe. There is much more to Hinduism than dharma, of course, but this was the concept that finally convinced me to learn more about how Hinduism as a faith can benefit me.
My path has been immensely rewarding. I may have just started out investigating Hinduism, but then, in a short time, I found myself changing spiritually. As I dive deeper and deeper into my Hindu practices, I find myself happier and more spiritually confident than ever. And I’ve only been in this process for a little over a year!

Culture: Hinduism Is Right Next Door - Magazine Web Edition > January/February/March 2013 - Publications - Hinduism Today Magazine
 
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Iyer@Infosys,

Tread very carefully here. You did not divulge your background. So, without that identity known, seems to me that you are here to bash Hinduism. You are not allowed to post in this thread further. Thanks.

KRS
 
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I dont know but if you ask me I am not too happy with anyone leaving their religion in pursue of another.

Just say if it was a Hindu that declared "Why I became a Non Hindu" I am sure at least 90% of us here would blame "Bhestern Influenza" (Western Influence ...Punjabi Slang!) and start hoping for Kalki Avatar to descend fast and uplift Dharma again.

Just like we are not comfortable with Hindus converting to other religions...I am not going to jump in joy when I see a Non Hindu embracing Hinduism.

Can we blame Eastern Influence???

If a person was born a Non Hindu..he/she should be able to see through his/her own religion of birth and realize that Truth is indeed the same and hence no need to declare "Why I became a Hindu"

If he understood the concept of God and Humanity well...he would declare 'Why I realized God " and not singing a new tune of a new found religion.
 
Dear Srimathi Dr. Renuka Ji,

I don't see any problems with conversions; from any religion to any other, done with free will. Not every religion that folks are born in to can satisfy the frequency/vibration of a person's spirituality. So they search for alternatives. Nothing wrong. But this is a minority that chooses to change their mother faith.

Here is a eighteen year old Catholic girl on why she changed her religion:

Christian become hindu how a great girl - YouTube

Regards,
KRS
 
Dear KRS ji,


I somehow beg to differ.

Most people when they change their religion they abandon their previous belief.

Many Christians who had become Hindus very seldom acknowledge Jesus.

That is why I adore teachings of Sathya Sai Baba/Shiridi Baba...He makes you realize that each and every religion leads to the same path finally.

So conversion of any form is not advocated and people are advised to be a true Christian,a true Muslim and a true Hindu.

One can surely follow any teachings without proclaiming any new name.

For example I like the teachings of Lord Buddha..it appeals to me but I wont go proclaiming I am a Buddhist.
If I do that that means I did not understand Lord Buddha's teachings to start with.

We can just keep adding to our knowledge and experiences without calling it a new name.

Word of God is for everyone to know and understand but one does not have to abandon a religion and take on another to know God.
 
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Dear Srimathi Dr. Renuka Ji,

I am a firm believer in individual choices and freedom, as long as it does not impact others. To me, religion is a very personal affair. Who am I to judge others when they change their religions?

Yes, Gandhi Ji also said about each one practicing their own birth religion. But, for a few this does not work. When these folks change religions, and one should understand that they usually are 'turned off' from their birth religion for a reason, they usually are more gung-ho about their adopted religion. This is understandable.

But again, we all have different 'spiritual maturity' levels. If some don't find Jesus appealing, but is enamored with Lord Krishna, or Shiva, who are we to argue. They obviously are finding these divinities more appealing to their psyche than lJesus.

This is my opinion. But then you may disagree and that is okay.

Regards,
KRS


Dear KRS ji,


I somehow beg to differ.

Most people when they change their religion they abandon their previous belief.

Many Christians who had become Hindus very seldom acknowledge Jesus.

That is why I adore teachings of Sathya Sai Baba/Shiridi Baba...He makes you realize that each and every religion leads to the same path finally.

So conversion of any form is not advocated and people are advised to be a true Christian,a true Muslim and a true Hindu.

One can surely follow any teachings without proclaiming any new name.

For example I like the teachings of Lord Buddha..it appeals to me but I wont go proclaiming I am a Buddhist.
If I do that that means I did not understand Lord Buddha's teachings to start with.

We can just keep adding to our knowledge and experiences without calling it a new name.

Word of God is for everyone to know and understand but one does not have to abandon a religion and take on another to know God.
 
The problem is of assigning a varna or jAthi to such converts!!

If the history as commonly narrated is taken to be true, many of the Buddhists later rejoined Hinduism (by whatever name it was called then) In many cases the re-conversion to Hinduism would have taken place after many generation of the joinees being Buddhists or Jainas etc.

It is not commonly known what samskaras were performed for these returnees (if at all there were any) to take them into Hindu-fold and how they were fitted into the varNa structure.

For academic purpose the procedure adopted then, may be taken as starting point to get to know what is to be done now, if at all varNa and jAthi is so important to be assigned.
 
Renukaji,
In principle I do agree that no one need to change their religion. But I also agree with KRSji position of free will.
If it makes one happy and it is of their own choice, they should be allowed to call themselves what ever they want.

All Hare krishna convert get Gotram, and Poonal so I guess they call themselves Brahmins.
 
Dear Renu,

If I remember correct, you congratulated our Boston Sankara, when he became a Hindu! :confused:


Dear RR ji,


Boston wrote this:


Roman Hunt was laid aside and from that point Siddheshvara Aghoraganaha began to walk the earth and singing the holy name of god.

I wrote this:

Dear Boston,

I am so happy to read this.

Was wondering where you were all these while?

So happy..so happy to read this.

Please stay on here as share with us your experiences and your knowledge.

Congrats

Renu


If you see his post..he was talking about singing the name of God and I was congratulating him for that.

No where in my post I said Congrats on becoming a Hindu.
To me Boston is "singing the name of God" and the congrats is for that.

As I said earlier..the teachings of Lord Buddha appeal to me but I need not proclaim I am a Buddhist or a Hindu for that matter.

In fact I also prefer using the word a "A person who loves God" to describe myself instead of calling myself a Believer..cos to certain extent the word Believer implies as if God needed to convince us to believe in Him.

For me the love for God comes naturally like how I take my breath.


Just to add : when Boston newly joined forum I did ask him in Forum about his stance on Jesus too and if I remember clearly he said he respected Jesus.

So I already knew Boston's mindset before I said Congrats.
 
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Renukaji,
In principle I do agree that no one need to change their religion. But I also agree with KRSji position of free will.
If it makes one happy and it is of their own choice, they should be allowed to call themselves what ever they want.

All Hare krishna convert get Gotram, and Poonal so I guess they call themselves Brahmins.

Dear Prasad ji,


I get what you mean but what I am trying to say is this.

One can gain knowledge from all directions of the universe without abandoning the original religion of birth.

Since a child I had interest to read about Islam too.

Without fail I would read about Islam in the Fridays newspaper religious column and that used to send my fellow Hindu friends into panic mode as 'as why is she reading all these"

I can even recite the Azan by heart.

But that does not mean I have to embrace Islam isn't it?

Every teaching is the word of God..so we just assimilate what we read for our betterment.

Also I feel by declaring something new it does not go well with Ekam Advaitam Brahman concept..cos if we change that means we acknowledge the presence of more than one.

There is always only One and Two is nothing by One occurring twice.


I hope you get what I am trying to convey.


I know people formerly Hindus who convert to Christianity and just hate everything Hindu and even throw all idols and picture into the dustbin after converting.

This is what I am trying to say...if one loves the teachings of Jesus he/she does not have to discard anything Hindu at home but he/she can still go to church or even read bible daily and still view all forms of God as one.
 
Dear Prasad ji,


I get what you mean but what I am trying to say is this.

One can gain knowledge from all directions of the universe without abandoning the original religion of birth.

Since a child I had interest to read about Islam too.

Without fail I would read about Islam in the Fridays newspaper religious column and that used to send my fellow Hindu friends into panic mode as 'as why is she reading all these"

I can even recite the Azan by heart.

But that does not mean I have to embrace Islam isn't it?

Every teaching is the word of God..so we just assimilate what we read for our betterment.

Also I feel by declaring something new it does not go well with Ekam Advaitam Brahman concept..cos if we change that means we acknowledge the presence of more than one.

There is always only One and Two is nothing by One occurring twice.


I hope you get what I am trying to convey.


I know people formerly Hindus who convert to Christianity and just hate everything Hindu and even throw all idols and picture into the dustbin after converting.

This is what I am trying to say...if one loves the teachings of Jesus he/she does not have to discard anything Hindu at home but he/she can still go to church or even read bible daily and still view all forms of God as one.

I get your point, but you are coming from the point that you had free and clear choice of staying in one religion and learning other religions for knowledge. Nothing wrong with it.

But some of the religions you do not have the choice of learning from other religions. They are so strict that they will be ex-communicated. Here in USA there are some churches that will not let their congregation do YOGA, because it is Hindu. With that narrow mindedness people do not have chaise but to renounce their birth religion.
 
As far as I know there is no concept of conversion to Hinduism. It is an umbrella term to include all kinds of practices and belief systems. It includes worship at this temple by a few as well and the point of this example is to acknowledge the diversity of faith under the umbrellla of Hinduism

Rats Rule at Indian Temple

So a person can wear a Namam, sing songs of Rama and Krishna and may even go through ceremonies of Punya Jananam. It does not mean they are converted in my view since such a concept is an alien one in Hindu tradition.

In my view it is not an event to be happy or unhappy about.

I know many highly educated western scholars that have taken up the life style of a Sanyasi. Their knowledge of Upanishads and ability to read Sanskrit passages of many scriptures is admirable. They do not see contradictions with core practices of going to a Church or see the forms of Isvara in a cross.

They only gave up theologies that had issues and contradictions without picking up similar notions and belief systems that exist under the umbrella of Hinduism.

Not everyone that comes into contact with a Hindu 'faith' becomes a Sanyasi obviously :-).


The broad acceptance of all beings which goes beyond tolerating others is what appeals to many who choose to adopt lifestyles of a Hindu whatever that term may mean. If by adopting such practices they have a more peace of mind then we can be happy for them.
 
Here in USA there are some churches that will not let their congregation do YOGA, because it is Hindu. With that narrow mindedness people do not have chaise but to renounce their birth religion.

Dear Prasad ji,

The yoga thing brings back some memories..cos once I wrote a comment in the local newpapers recommending Pilates for those who have a problem with accepting Yoga since is it deemed Hindu as some Non Hindu council out here was not too happy with some Non Hindus practicing Yoga.

I had recommended Pilates which is just form of modification of Yoga sans the spiritual aspect cos you see I was not too happy with many Yoga practitioner trying to make Yoga sort of Non Spiritual to market it to Non Hindus.

Yoga after all means to yoke and keep senses under control and for full effect of Yoga benefits one need to admit its spiritual aspect.

So I said Pilates will be a good alternative for Non Hindus who have problem accepting Yoga and recommended that Non Hindus follow the tenets of their religions without fail so that they get the physical benefits of Pilates and the Spiritual benefits of their own religion.

Then I realized that what I wrote was taken well here by Islamic organizations and even in Indonesia where many Islamic sites recommended what I wrote and the best part is one company in USA even used what I wrote to promote Pilates online for everyone!

I was thinking Wow..what a company..they used my article quoting my name too as an advertisement without my permission!LOL
 
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The thing is when we are healthy, wealthy and not needing for anything we can say many many things. Only when we are in the position of some others who however much they loved their religion converted for reasons so basic, then we may realise. nothing is black and white, least of all life. To condemn all converts with a broad brush is naivety if I'm going to be polite and idiocy to be blunt. Unfortunately helping the community as Sangom Sir said about Brahmins and I will even stretch that to Hindus in general is not our strength. Christians have a strong ethos of helping, but there is no such thing as a free meal. Meal in one hand and Bible in the other. Like Kunjuppu Sir wrote about his poor cousin's daughter who had to convert.
 
Mr. TKS,
You said
As far as I know there is no concept of conversion to Hinduism.
That is not completely true.
Please google on this topic, I am giving you some additional sites.

How to Become a Hindu
A Guide for Seekers and Born Hindus
SATGURU SIVAYA SUBRAMUNIYASWAMI


Here are true histories of individuals and families who formally entered Hinduism over the years. The tales illustrate the six steps of ethical conversion which are detailed in the book: 1) joining a Hindu community; 2) creating a point-counterpoint of the beliefs of Hinduism and one’s previous religion; 3) severing from former mentors; 4) legally adopting a Hindu name; 5) having a namakarana samskara, the traditional Hindu name-giving ceremony and 6) publicly announcing the severance and name change. Each story is written from a delightfully different angle and describes one or more of the six steps. The second testimony tells the tale of how a born Hindu strayed from, then rediscovered his religion.

Himalayan Academy Publications - How to Become a Hindu

There is no formal process for converting to Hinduism, although in many traditions a ritual called dīkshā ("initiation") marks the beginning of spiritual life.[45] A ritual called shuddhi ("purification") sometimes marks the return to spiritual life after reconversion.[46] Many Hindu sects do not actively seek converts,[47][48][49][50] as they believe that the goals of spiritual life can be attained through any religion, as long as it is practiced sincerely.[47][51] However, the persons converting to Hinduism normally perform 'Yagna' or 'Homa'(i.e.' fire rituals) under guidance of local Hindu priests & after which the said person is considered to be Hindu & there are some Hindu sects and affiliates such as Arya Samaj, Saiva Siddhanta Church, BAPS, and the International Society for Krishna Consciousness accept those who have a desire to follow Hinduism.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_conversion
How to Convert to Hinduism

And there are many such organizations.
 
I will relate a true life incident.

I used to work in small town when I was newly married.

There used to be a patient ..an old Hindu Tamilian Widow who was very poor and lived alone.

Then one day she told me that she had started some small business of selling flower garlands and I was happy for her but at the same time curious how she got help to do so.

Then she told me that the Church Pastor had got to know that she was living in poverty and helped her by giving her money etc..

Then with all the money they gave her she saved and started this business and then when one fine day the Pastor turns up to her house telling her that she needed to convert to Christianity.

The old lady refused and the Pastor got mad with her and started coming daily to convince her and also stating that she is following the devil and needs to be saved.

That made the old lady very mad and she made a police report against the Pastor and the Pastor did not trouble her anymore.

The lady then told me.."when they were helping me I thought they were sincere..but when they asked me to convert I did not want to and they got mad with me and started calling my God devil..so I got angry and made a police report"
 
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............. No where in my post I said Congrats on becoming a Hindu.
To me Boston is "singing the name of God" and the congrats is for that.............
Dear Renu,

:cool: Renu. Sankara is very clever! He did not mention the God's name! :D
 
And there are many such organizations.

Sri Prasad - Thanks for the references.

The basis of Hindu religion namely the Vedas do not have a concept of 'conversion' since there is no reason to convert anyone from any belief system to another.

Universal truths apply to all regardless of whether a person accepts or not. Forms of worship is irrelevant since formless Isvara can be worshipped in any form.

Dharma is a key pursuit of true Hindus and all human beings are endowed with natural sense to understand the common Dharma of how to relate to other beings even if they are not born in a Hindu family. Various religious traditions within the umbrella of Hinduism may have varied practices but they do not go against the pursuit of Dharma.

A given tradition may define a process of conversion. Tomorrow I can start an organization and focus on an aspect of Hindu practice. I could start the idea of how one can convert to my way of life. No one can say it is illegitimate or legitimate. I will still be calling myself a Hindu including those I convert.

In other words anyone doing the conversion is not bestowed that authority since such an authority does not exist.

In this sense Hinduism is very different from other organized religions.
 
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