Or is it the one near the burning ghat, mentioned by J J ji!! :fear:... is the same PONDICHERY PROJECT OF SERNITY GROUP?.....as mentioned in the article...
The same page also says:Last year, in the southern city of Hyderabad, the well-off family of a 75-year-old cancer patient decided to burn her alive
at a crematorium because they did not want to pay for further treatment. She was saved when the crematorium staff
noticed her stir and called police.
Elderly parents being abused and abandoned is not just an urban phenomenon. In rural India, the family system
is eroding, with the younger generation increasingly heading off to cities with their spouses and their children to
start a new life – without their parents or grandparents.
It might be wiser to take it on rent for a year before buyout.
No sense in locking money in property purchase in this economic environment
This kind of plans are made in indias planning commission who plan for 2050 more than thirty years in advance.we will forward your suggestion to themIt is better to buy one as the children in due course will also become senior citizens and this house can be handy for them LOL .
Or is it the one near the burning ghat, mentioned by J J ji!! :fear:
hiருத்திரன் ஜி,
முதியவர் இல்லத்தில் சேர்ந்து விடுவது என்று நினைத்து விட்டால் அவர் 100%
மனைவியை இழந்தவராக இருக்க வேண்டும் என்பது எனது அபிப்பிராயம்.
இரண்டாவதாக நான் நினைத்துப் பார்க்கிறது எனது தந்தை/தாய்மை அன்புடன் மதிக்க தெரியாதவனுக்கு இருந்து இருக்கலாம் அல்லது ஒருவனுடைய விதி யாகவும் இருக்கலாம்
இன்னும் பிற ஆணித்தரமான காரணங்களும் மனதில் தோன்றுகின்றன .
hiTbs Garu
My upvote for the above post.
It is indeed an all india phenomenon now that parents are less likely to live with their children in changed modern circumstances where all want individual freedom.
More than distance limitation it is the mindset which has got changed.
We look at daughter in law , son in law as people we have to tolerate and suffer their company.
They in turn see parents in law as burdens.
Very few look at positive side of life.
All are excellent resources ..... Even if they have no fine feelings for each other , still they can be more tolerant of each other.
At instead of trusting strangers for baby sitting and other duties , they might as well depend on inlaws.
Grand children many times get abused by strangers.
They are the victims of modern marriages.
And this my parents and your parents fights among young couples.
Both young couples and parents need to be more wise.
ருத்திரன் ஜி,
முதியவர் இல்லத்தில் சேர்ந்து விடுவது என்று நினைத்து விட்டால் அவர் 100%
மனைவியை இழந்தவராக இருக்க வேண்டும் என்பது எனது அபிப்பிராயம்.
இரண்டாவதாக நான் நினைத்துப் பார்க்கிறது எனது தந்தை/தாய்மை அன்புடன் மதிக்க தெரியாதவனுக்கு இருந்து இருக்கலாம் அல்லது ஒருவனுடைய விதி யாகவும் இருக்கலாம்
இன்னும் பிற ஆணித்தரமான காரணங்களும் மனதில் தோன்றுகின்றன .
My observation:........ We look at daughter in law , son in law as people we have to tolerate and suffer their company.
They in turn see parents in law as burdens...........
:thumb:Most males under influence of wife are forced to accept her parents as she feels she can trust only them to look after her kids and not inlaws.
Males succumb and console themselves that these inlaws are after all resources to take care of his kids.
He thinks economics and buys domestic peace by doing what wife wants.lol
While going through the contents this thread, it just clicked to me that since most of here are interested in sort of a retirement home, why can't we try and form a co-operative group and built one for ourselves. Of course it may not be an easy job but not impossible either. I have a little cooperative background and am ready to share my experience for our own welfare. In case there are takers, we may start discussing about it. It will be purely a collective effort.