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sankara_sharmah
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Retirement villages have become the favorite topic of discussion among the older Tamil Brahmins. Some of these were called old age homes earlier. Coimbatore leads in having the maximum number. Vanaprastha is the oldest. Chennai also has many. Classic Kudumbam was one of the earliest.
These retirement villages are modeled after the retirement communities in Florida, U.S.
Generally the cost is between Rs. 5 lakhs (for a flat) to Rs.50 lakhs (for a luxury Villa).
These are aimed at older people living alone.
Living alone presents many problems. Some of them are
1. Maintaining your house. Running around getting plumbers, electricians etc.
2. Physical labour involved in cooking food. Getting good cooks has become very difficult now a days.
3. Security.
The retirement villages/communities offer
1. Guaranteed maintenance.
2. Food prepared by good cooks.
3. Security. Most of them are gated communities.
In addition many of them are located in nice surroundings. Some of them in Coimbatore boast of hill views. They also have community halls, recreation rooms and many other facilities.
In fact it is now a fashion or in thing among the Tamil Brahmins to move to a retirement village either permanently or for some months in a year. At least invest in one for the future.
The major occupants of these Retirement Communities are Tamil Brahmins who have all their children abroad. They are unable to live with their children because of various reasons. The children are also happy that the parents are well looked after. Many of them buy the Villas for them. The communities also offer facilities for temporary guests so that the children can come and stay for some time.
It looks all very Good.
But there are some problems.
1. Psychologically it is depressing for older people to live in a community surrounded by only older people. Older people have health problems and do talk about it. Then they talk about their children and grand children. Living in a group where some one or the other is always talking about illness could be depressing.
2. Tamil Nadu is not blessed with good weather. It is hot, hotter or hottest. Coimbatore is better. But even then I would prefer a place where you do not have to have a fan or ac throughout the year.
3. Since most of the occupants' children are abroad, it is difficult for people with their children in India to live there. Many of the others have no choice, but the people whose children are in India have a choice. They have chosen to stay there for a particular reason. But the general mentality of the people is to believe that the children have deserted them or they have fought with their children. This is not being fair to the children.
I stay with my wife separately though all my children are in India. We have chosen to do this in spite of strong objections from our children.
4. If you are religious person, these communities may not be suitable.
I would like other members to share their thoughts and experiences about retirement Villages/Communities.
These retirement villages are modeled after the retirement communities in Florida, U.S.
Generally the cost is between Rs. 5 lakhs (for a flat) to Rs.50 lakhs (for a luxury Villa).
These are aimed at older people living alone.
Living alone presents many problems. Some of them are
1. Maintaining your house. Running around getting plumbers, electricians etc.
2. Physical labour involved in cooking food. Getting good cooks has become very difficult now a days.
3. Security.
The retirement villages/communities offer
1. Guaranteed maintenance.
2. Food prepared by good cooks.
3. Security. Most of them are gated communities.
In addition many of them are located in nice surroundings. Some of them in Coimbatore boast of hill views. They also have community halls, recreation rooms and many other facilities.
In fact it is now a fashion or in thing among the Tamil Brahmins to move to a retirement village either permanently or for some months in a year. At least invest in one for the future.
The major occupants of these Retirement Communities are Tamil Brahmins who have all their children abroad. They are unable to live with their children because of various reasons. The children are also happy that the parents are well looked after. Many of them buy the Villas for them. The communities also offer facilities for temporary guests so that the children can come and stay for some time.
It looks all very Good.
But there are some problems.
1. Psychologically it is depressing for older people to live in a community surrounded by only older people. Older people have health problems and do talk about it. Then they talk about their children and grand children. Living in a group where some one or the other is always talking about illness could be depressing.
2. Tamil Nadu is not blessed with good weather. It is hot, hotter or hottest. Coimbatore is better. But even then I would prefer a place where you do not have to have a fan or ac throughout the year.
3. Since most of the occupants' children are abroad, it is difficult for people with their children in India to live there. Many of the others have no choice, but the people whose children are in India have a choice. They have chosen to stay there for a particular reason. But the general mentality of the people is to believe that the children have deserted them or they have fought with their children. This is not being fair to the children.
I stay with my wife separately though all my children are in India. We have chosen to do this in spite of strong objections from our children.
4. If you are religious person, these communities may not be suitable.
I would like other members to share their thoughts and experiences about retirement Villages/Communities.