Renuka,
You are right. But you cannot avoid interactions. For the right experience of self and for the overall good it is necessary that we seek a harmonious external world and hence any person with a responsible mind would try to accomplish that.
Honestly that never really works.
We can only change self.
Once we gain balance we get the ability to " read" another person's behavior and though we can not change them yet we can make changes to handle them.
I will give you a personal example, someone very close to me has occasional heart palpitations and not on medication but she never informs me though I call her daily and go to her house daily.
When I go there and then find out she has palpitations then i have to drive home around 20 mins to go get meds from my house.
But when I tell her " when I called before I came, why didnt you tell me you were unwell?"
She would then get angry and complain " OMG! Why is my luck so bad that no one cares for me that they want me to answer their questions"
For years she would do this..so I decided to set up a mini med supply kit at her house.
I stocked it up with all possible meds she might occasionally need and all emergency meds and equipments.
Reason is because I know she can never change and coperate with me.
So I made it easy for me and her by setting up a mini med kit.
She gets the meds and I dont have to run around.
Get what I mean...its futile to think others would be on the same page as us or we ourselves be on the same page as others.
Thats how harmony works...we choose to ease imbalance which ultimately is beneficial to everyone.