Think or sink!

[Visalakshi Ramani]

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Intimate space is less than or equal to 18" ( the length of a normal elbow!)

When one spouse does not allow the other into this space, naturally there can't be any intimacy. :hand:

Some couples are so intimate that they must have a pillow separating their portion of the bed. Otherwise they can't fall asleep!

Some others feel so loving that they have to be
in to different rooms in the house - unless they can manage to be
in two different houses in the same city or
two different cities in the same country or
two different countries in the same continent or
be lucky enough to live two different continents. :dance:

Very soon I will be to add this line also
"unless they can be in two different planets! " :wacko:

 

[Raji Ram]

We were talking about joint family which existed a few decades ago!

My cousin sister suddenly said, 'It is a joint family, if a husband and wife live in the same house!'.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

It is strange ! People who are not welded together by being wedded, live in peace and harmony as living in partners while those who are legally labelled as a couple, face the opposite direction with their backs put together!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Joint family : Where a man and his wife live under the same roof. :argue:

Co joint family : Where a man lives with more than one woman :grouphug:
(though not married to any one of them!)

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Distant relative:
A husband who lives far far away and rarely ever meets his wife! eace:

Close relative:
The man/ boy friend who meets the woman often! :roll:

P.S.

Yesterday I heard the colony's 'vaal pasangal'
speaking about a famous actor's "oNNu vitta magan" :wacko:

I am still trying to figure out whether they the phrase without knowing the meaning
or whether the grown up son of that actor actually "OnnU vittaanaa?" :decision:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

A word of warning to the bold actresses
daring to appear topless ( literally and figuratively) :der:

"Bare-dom will soon lead to Boredom." :yawn:

WHY would people want to see the same thing
all the time or over and over again ???

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

The next lot of Jasmin came today and it took me 150 minutes to string 250 grams!

The economics of the price of flower is baffling!

Usually the Red AraLi costs only one fourth as the Jasmin does.

Today the Jasmin costs less than the red AraLi or rather

the price of Red AraLi took went spiraling up over the Jasmin!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

It is nice to see that now 11 people like Sriman NArAyaneeyam.

Such works never go out of demand - just like RAmAyaNA and MahAbhAratA.

I thank the unknown thatha who insisted that I post all the dasakams.

It is not fair to leave loose ends hanging here and there! :nono:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

When the personal space keeps swelling up to the extent of excluding one's own spouse and kids, the selfishness, the intolerance and ego of the person involved keep swelling to the same extent! :boom:

Such person will never find happiness or peace. They will be depressed and also spread depression! They might end up like the strange cases we read/ hear where the neighbors complain of a foul smell from a house and then the police break open the door to find the person long since dead and rotting - unknown to anyone else in the family!

 

[Raji Ram]

It is strange ! People who are not welded together by being wedded, live in peace and harmony as living in partners while those who are legally labelled as a couple, face the opposite direction with their backs put together!

The legally labelled couple need NOT have love for each other where as 'live-in' starts with lovvu! :hug:

Please don't ask me where it ends!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

The legally labelled couple need NOT have love for each other where as 'live-in' starts with lovvu! :hug:

Please don't ask me where it ends!

It can only end in two manners...
the production of bastards or :bump2:
the lovvu becoming loL loL ! :argue:
Now that the concept of unwed mothers is also becoming popular
the child born to them will have NO stigma attached to him /her!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Man projects his qualities in everything he does
or thinks about or gives different names.
You will be duly surprised how the adjectives which do very well describe
real people are given here for the various types of numbers in Mathematics!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Natural numbers (

)The counting numbers {1, 2, 3, ...}, are called natural numbers. Some authors include 0, so that the natural numbers are {0, 1, 2, 3, ...}.

Whole numbersThe numbers {0, 1, 2, 3, ...}.

Integers (

)Positive and negative counting numbers, as well as zero:{..., -2, -1, 0, 1, 2,...}.

Rational numbers (

)Numbers that can be expressed as a ratio of an integer to a non-zero integer.[SUP][1][/SUP] All integers are rational, but the converse is not true.

Real numbers (

)Numbers that have decimal representations that have a finite or in infinite sequence of digits to the right of the decimal point. All rational numbers are real, but the converse is not true.

Irrational numbers (

)Real numbers that are not rational.

Imaginary numbersNumbers that equal the product of a real number and the square root of –1. The number 0 is both real and imaginary.

Complex numbers(

)Includes real numbers, imaginary numbers, and sums and differences of real and imaginary numbers.

Hypercomplex numbers include various number-system extensions

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_types_of_numbers

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Rational persons, irrational persons, complex personality, hyper complex behavior,

real and imaginary problems are as true in real life as they are in mathematics!

In addition to these we also have two more categories - the perfect numbers and

the Friendly numbers - just like a perfect gentleman and a friendly neighbor !

• 119. Perfect Numbers
• 120. Friendly Numbers

 

[Brahmanyan]

Think or sink

Bhagwad Gita on Anger ( Ch: 2 - Ver: 62 and 63)

While contemplating the objects of the senses, a person develops attachment for them, and from such attachment lust develops, and from lust anger arises.
From anger arises delusion, and from delusion, confusion of memory. When confusion of memory , reasoning is lost, and when reasoning is lost, one falls down again into the material pool.

Brahmanyan,
Bangalore.

 

[renuka]

It can only end in two manners...
the production of bastards or :bump2:
the lovvu becoming loL loL ! :argue:
Now that the concept of unwed mothers is also becoming popular
the child born to them will have NO stigma attached to him /her!

Dear VR ji,

It actually causes pain in my chest(really I am not kidding) to read the B word being used for children.
A child is like a flower ..sometimes the flower belongs to a garland where parents are married both ends tied..at times the flower belongs to a string where both ends are not tied(unmarried parents)..but nevertheless both types of flowers emit fragrance.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Bhagwad Gita on Anger ( Ch: 2 - Ver: 62 and 63)

While contemplating the objects of the senses, a person develops attachment for them, and from such attachment lust develops, and from lust anger arises.
From anger arises delusion, and from delusion, confusion of memory. When confusion of memory , reasoning is lost, and when reasoning is lost, one falls down again into the material pool.

Brahmanyan,
Bangalore.

The most vicious of all vicious cycles!!!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

It actually causes pain in my chest(really I am not kidding) to read the B word being used for children.
A child is like a flower ..sometimes the flower belongs to a garland where parents are married both ends tied..at times the flower belongs to a string where both ends are not tied(unmarried parents)..but nevertheless both types of flowers emit fragrance.

Dear Renu,
I am sorry I hurt your feelings unintentionally. I do not know any other word for that hideous word. I will never use it again in all my life. I have never uttered the word and I will cease and desist from putting it in black and white also hence forth.
After all it is not the mistake of the children to be born thus to such parents! :sorry:

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu,
I am sorry I hurt your feelings unintentionally. I do not know any other word for that hideous word. I will never use it again in all my life. I have never uttered the word and I will cease and desist from putting it in black and white also hence forth.
After all it is not the mistake of the children to be born thus to such parents! :sorry:

Dear VR ji,

Love you.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

Love you.

Me too dear! :hug:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Bhagwad Gita on Anger ( Ch: 2 - Ver: 62 and 63)

While contemplating the objects of the senses, a person develops attachment for them, and from such attachment lust develops, and from lust anger arises.
From anger arises delusion, and from delusion, confusion of memory. When confusion of memory , reasoning is lost, and when reasoning is lost, one falls down again into the material pool.

Brahmanyan,
Bangalore.

Dear Sir,
As long as we possess everything in our possession - nothing wrong can happen! As soon as the things we possess start possessing us there will be this endless chakra or cycle of birth and death called Samsaaraa.
Our yoga guru would tell us often. "If you have 100 saris wear them all without feeling proud or happy. If you have jewels put them on without any pride of ego. Using the things given to you by God's grace will not contaminate you . It is the mental record that we own so much that corrupts people and binds and seals them in Samsaaraa. "
He was always precise and point blank in his messages. :hail:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

To know what Sage Vyasa and Suka maharushi thought about samsaaraa please use these links!

• 1#16d. ஜனக ராஜன்
• 1#17a. மிதிலை அனுபவம்
• 1#17b. ராகியும், விராகியும்
• 1#17c. மிதிலை நகர்
• 1#18a. சுகரின் சந்தேகம்
• 1#18b. ஜனகரின் விளக்கம்
• 1#18c. சுக முனிவரின் ஐயம்
• 1#18d. ஜனகனின் பதில்
• 1#18e. சுகரின் கேள்வி
• 1#19a. சுகரின் வாதம்
• 1#19b. ஜனகரின் விளக்கம்

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

TO DEAR FATHER.

Homage to my father (on his death anniversary.)

Twenty one years have not caused any dilution!
Nor have they given us any permanent solution!

We used to follow his many a wise resolution;
Our life was just going around him in revolution.

He has contributed much to our evolution;
And guarded us from every possible pollution.

One day he had decided on his ablution;
And handed us down everything in devolution.

His complete and voluntary dissolution;
Still brings in on us a terrible convulsion.

Life is not just merely an illusion.
We will live up to his expectation.

Visalakshi Ramani

https://veenaavisal.wordpress.com/naughty-poems/037-homage-to-my-father/

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[Brahmanyan]

Dear Renu,
I am sorry I hurt your feelings unintentionally. I do not know any other word for that hideous word. I will never use it again in all my life. I have never uttered the word and I will cease and desist from putting it in black and white also hence forth.
After all it is not the mistake of the children to be born thus to such parents! :sorry:

Dear Mrs Visalakshi Ramani,
You are great. I was also a bit disturbed to read your earlier message, but
accepting the error has cleared the disturbance.
Warm Regards,
Brahmanyan,
Bangalore.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

dear Sir,
My sister wrote in a lighter vein and I replied in the same tone - without realizing the full impact of the statement. I never hesitate to say sorry when I have done something wrong.
Does it look like I must be saying :sorry: all my life. :decision:
Thank you and all the others for bearing with my shortfalls! ray2: