To help or not help? What would you do?

[Raji Ram]

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.... Life is very simple...

Never forget the good others do unto us and always forget the good we do unto others.

Dear Renu,

I try to follow this:
Never forget the good others do unto us and always forget the bad others do unto us! eace:

Not to forget the kuraL:

நன்றி மறப்பது நன்றன்று நன்றல்லது
அன்றே மறப்பது நன்று.

(nandRi maRappadhu nandRandRu nandRalladhu
andRE maRappadhu nandRu.)

 

[krish44]

Dear Krish ji,

Life is very simple...

Never forget the good others do unto us and always forget the good we do unto others.

OK OK you have a point.

I shall remember all the good things you have done for me.lol

 

[prasad1]

Romans 12:19 (King James Version) Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.

 

[krish44]

Dear JRji

I am responding after a long time.

Iyengar is a small community.

They are spread all over the country and the world.

it might be difficult to find suitable matches either in india or abroad if the girl is well educated.

foreign matches with unknown elements is risky. so wiser to stick to india and get a suitable match in india then go abroad with husband.

alternative , the girl can go abroad for higher studies/research in univ campus and after a year or so find a match after finding a job there if possible.



the person to be married belongs to next generation .

it is not wise to remember the hurts of your generation.

even your relatives would have got mellowed with age and with intercaste marriage in family.

it would be worthwhile to launch a local hunt for a person who is liberal and can accept intercaste marriage in relatives family.

Location of suitable boy abroad comes much later.

if the girl and prospective groom have enterprise and initiative , they will get out of the country on their own merit without anyones help.

by the way how young is the girl .Is She PG and working.

you can PM me.

If I come across someone suitable , shall tell you.

 

[JR]

Namaste Krish ji,

I have been very busy couple of days, couldn't call my mom, by Monday I will pass along the info that you might come in contact with prospective grooms, and get details of girl which I will PM you. I think the girl would be around 25, she has done M.Sc/MBA.

Thanks,

JR