What do you consider, are improper questions to ask?

[Raji Ram]

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........... If you see me in real life, you will agree that I am quiet, soft-spoken, not too bold, gentle type. ....

veettilE eli; forum-lE puli !!

 

[Raji Ram]

Now a days, many normal Qs are considered as 'intrusion of privacy', especially by the youngsters.
So, don't ask any special Qs to others; but listen to their bragging - if possible! eace:

 

[renuka]

Now a days, many normal Qs are considered as 'intrusion of privacy', especially by the youngsters.
So, don't ask any special Qs to others; but listen to their bragging - if possible! eace:

Dear RR ji,


Its not only nowadays but even before.

I will relate an incident which took place 23 years ago.

My mum had come to visit me in college in India and she happened to see one of my fellow classmates in the hostel..a girl from India.

Then my mum said Hi to her and asked her how she is and then my mum did the gravest mistake of telling her that she looks as good as ever and has gained a bit more weight from the time my mum saw her 2 years ago.

I did not know my mum had told her that she had gained some weight.

By evening that girl had told many others that my mum said she had gained weight a little and my fellow classmates ganged up and came knocking at my door.

The girl told me "how dare your mother say that I have gained weight a little? Her eye balls must be shrunken cos she has such a skinny daughter like you so anyone with some flesh on them would appear fat to your mother"


I was totally shocked and told her sorry..and will get back to her regarding this.

So I asked my mum what did you exactly tell her.
My mum said that she told her that she looks as good as ever and has gained slight weight.

I told my mum never to tell anyone if they are fat or thin and next time please do not tell any girl about her weight.

But the truth is that girl did actually gain a lot of weight but I guess no one likes being told that they had gained slight weight.

I keep reminding my mum never to say anything that is considered "negative"..just say only good stuff even if its a lie!LOL

 

[Vaagmi]

The best thing would be to tell very positive things like:

தேக்கு மரம் உடலைத் தந்தது
சின்ன யானை நடை தந்தது
குயிலல்லவோ குரலைத் தந்தது
பொன்னல்லவோ நிறத்தை தந்தது.......

and see the result. LOL.

 

[JR]

veettilE eli; forum-lE puli !!

When we write in a forum like this (on varied topics as opposed to purely spiritual ones), our true thoughts and our inner mind gets exposed. To be 'Leo-like' has been my aspiration, and maybe that is my true nature, as opposed to Scorpio! I do not know that!

 

[JR]

Now a days, many normal Qs are considered as 'intrusion of privacy', especially by the youngsters.
So, don't ask any special Qs to others; but listen to their bragging - if possible! eace:

I think women by nature like to talk about themselves, even in public forums! It is somewhere there in most womens' nature to give rise to conversation where they want to 'prove' themselves! I am also no exception to this rule.

So in a way, others' questioning of me is 'my own making'!!

 

[Raji Ram]

The best thing would be to tell very positive things like:

தேக்கு மரம் உடலைத் தந்தது
சின்ன யானை நடை தந்தது
குயிலல்லவோ குரலைத் தந்தது
பொன்னல்லவோ நிறத்தை தந்தது.......

and see the result. LOL.

These could also make one out: , Sir!

This is how it goes:

தேக்கு மரம் உடலைத் தந்தது .... nAn enna maramA, illai mara maNdaiyA?
சின்ன யானை நடை தந்தது .... eppadi ennai yAnaiyOdu oppiduvAy?
குயிலல்லவோ குரலைத் தந்தது .... OhO! nAn koovaREnA enna?
பொன்னல்லவோ நிறத்தை தந்தது ...... theeyilE ennaip pOda AsaiyA?

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

JR learn to give stupid answers..no one will bug you.So now when people ask me I give dumb illogical answers like "I only have one husband..so only one child"

Ok..that confuses people and they dont know how to react.

So give weird answers and confuse people..they wont bother you after a while.

Now what do you say for this?

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[Vaagmi]

These could also make one out: , Sir!

This is how it goes:

தேக்கு மரம் உடலைத் தந்தது ....nAn enna maramA, illai mara maNdaiyA?
சின்ன யானை நடை தந்தது .... eppadi ennai yAnaiyOdu oppiduvAy?
குயிலல்லவோ குரலைத் தந்தது .... OhO! nAn koovaREnA enna?
பொன்னல்லவோ நிறத்தை தந்தது ...... theeyilE ennaip pOda AsaiyA?

To that "ONE" I will say this:

nAn enna maramA, illai mara maNdaiyA? -- Illamma. Your body is as firm as a teak wood piece. Firm and yet eminently workable with/on.

eppadi ennai yAnaiyOdu oppiduvAy? -- Come let us have a look again at the Chinna yaanai as it walks. You will understand what I say. It is more beautiful than "the cat walk" on the ramp.

OhO! nAn koovaREnA enna? -- Please come with me. I will take you to my friend RRji. she will tell you the metre in which a cuckoo calls out and where it fits into the musical notes. You will find it revealing and will have no complaints.

theeyilE ennaip pOda AsaiyA? -- Come with me. Let us go to Mumbai. I will take you to the Zaveri Bazaar and get you a golden kasu malai of 8 sovereigns weight pure gold. You will understand the real color of gold and you will have no complaint after that.

Let me try this and get back. LOL.

 

[Raji Ram]

........... Let me try this and get back. LOL.

​OK, Sir! Shall wait for your post! :ranger: