renuka
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A thought came to me a few days ago when suddenly the Bhagavad Geeta stanza flashed in my head when I was thinking about a particular issue.
I have my own way of handling some issues which might not see that "normal" becos it differs from how others manage similar situations. So those who know me well feel my way of handling some issues is not so "normal"
Then I thought to myself..do I have to pressurize myself just to satisfy what the world sees as 'normal'?
What if my way of handling an issue is how I am wired to be and forcing myself to be like others might not be the answer?
My way of handling it might seem '"imperfect" to others but do I have to force myself to be "perfect" just to be "normal"?
Then all of a sudden the Bhagavad Geeta stanza flashed in my mind:
Don't ask me why and how this stanza flashed in my mind but it gave me a different perspective of the definition of Svadharma.
What is Svadharma?
Is it only righteousness,religious duty,varna duty?
But Sva means one's own..what exactly is "own"?
So far no religious text talks about Svadharma in the context of human behavior....that is our body/mind/mental make up/genetic make up without linking it with Varna/Religion/Righteousness.
Could Svadharma mean our behavior,nature and bodily function?
If Svadharma is mainly due to Varna duty,religious duty etc..then all siblings would display similar behavior/inclination which is not always the case cos even identical twins have different behavior.
So what is Svadharma?
Have we overlooked the fact that it could be individualized behavior which explains why different people handle situations differently.
One can even go one step further to say that bodily functions too have their Svadharma..twins might have different heart rates..different ability to handle stress etc.
Each person is individualized...that is why now these days we have Precision Medicine..that is each person reacts differently to treatment and even bodily functions like Blood Pressure which might seem slightly higher might actually be acceptably normal for one person but not for another.There is no one size fits all.
So why is the definition of Svadharma almost always linked in a one size fits all manner strictly confining it within the realms of varna/religion/righteousness?
Why isn't Svadharma ever individualized without the need to involve religion/varna/righteousness?
I now look at Svadharma as my basic nature/bodily function not related to Varna/Religion/Professional duty etc..
Therefore I will not force myself to be like what others think is "normal" cos its better to be myself though "imperfect" than to be "perfect" by trying to be someone else.
I have my own way of handling some issues which might not see that "normal" becos it differs from how others manage similar situations. So those who know me well feel my way of handling some issues is not so "normal"
Then I thought to myself..do I have to pressurize myself just to satisfy what the world sees as 'normal'?
What if my way of handling an issue is how I am wired to be and forcing myself to be like others might not be the answer?
My way of handling it might seem '"imperfect" to others but do I have to force myself to be "perfect" just to be "normal"?
Then all of a sudden the Bhagavad Geeta stanza flashed in my mind:
Sreyan svadharmo vigunah paradharmat svanusthitat;
Svadharme nidhanam sreyah paradharmo bhayavahah — (Chapter 3. Verse 35)
Meaning: It is better to follow one’s own dharma, though imperfect, than the dharma of someone else, even though well-performed.
Don't ask me why and how this stanza flashed in my mind but it gave me a different perspective of the definition of Svadharma.
What is Svadharma?
Is it only righteousness,religious duty,varna duty?
But Sva means one's own..what exactly is "own"?
So far no religious text talks about Svadharma in the context of human behavior....that is our body/mind/mental make up/genetic make up without linking it with Varna/Religion/Righteousness.
Could Svadharma mean our behavior,nature and bodily function?
If Svadharma is mainly due to Varna duty,religious duty etc..then all siblings would display similar behavior/inclination which is not always the case cos even identical twins have different behavior.
So what is Svadharma?
Have we overlooked the fact that it could be individualized behavior which explains why different people handle situations differently.
One can even go one step further to say that bodily functions too have their Svadharma..twins might have different heart rates..different ability to handle stress etc.
Each person is individualized...that is why now these days we have Precision Medicine..that is each person reacts differently to treatment and even bodily functions like Blood Pressure which might seem slightly higher might actually be acceptably normal for one person but not for another.There is no one size fits all.
So why is the definition of Svadharma almost always linked in a one size fits all manner strictly confining it within the realms of varna/religion/righteousness?
Why isn't Svadharma ever individualized without the need to involve religion/varna/righteousness?
I now look at Svadharma as my basic nature/bodily function not related to Varna/Religion/Professional duty etc..
Therefore I will not force myself to be like what others think is "normal" cos its better to be myself though "imperfect" than to be "perfect" by trying to be someone else.
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