Seemantham for intercaste marriage

[sri_1103]

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Hi. My wife is from other caste. She is not comfortable in wearing madisar during seemantham. Can we do seemantham by wearing normal saree?

 

[pvguruvadhyar]

Hi. My wife is from other caste. She is not comfortable in wearing madisar during seemantham. Can we do seemantham by wearing normal saree?

When you say she is from other caste then NO question of Madisar she can go with normal saree

 

[sri_1103]

When you say she is from other caste then NO question of Madisar she can go with normal saree

Can homam be done with normal saree. Will the priest accept?

 

[RSSARMA52]

Can homam be done with normal saree. Will the priest accept?

There are so many peoples do ready made madisar. I think even Nalli or Saradas or others may have it. It is in youtube and stitch one keep it. This is just like pyjama to out your legs and tied in the waist with extra pally to wrap around. Very simple. The problem with Vadhyar if they do mistakes they give super explanation. But any omission from our side ""appdiya"", avaathula kattikkave theriyala"" like loose talk. In our Navagraha homemam and puja they didn't bring Dhaniyam, colour cloths vessel. But done the names and tell this is ""Romba vishesham"". They money they took?? Why??

 

[R Jayaraman]

Hi
Wearing madisar way is for a very brief period of, say, an hour or two. Why make fuss. Wear and perform the ceremony. Otherwise, marriage itself is against tradition, then why follow now? Society is very much confused and become illogical.

 

[RSSARMA52]

Tradition is not something we take it lightly. We carry it forward and leave a mark in our society that is followed by generation. Just for a minutes is not at all acceptable. Salt goes just one teaspoon just one teaspoon are we ready to ignore or eliminate it from our food Tradition?
One madisar is very essential. Search for it and buy the ready-made one or buy a saree and give it to Mami who stitches it.
In your life this Madisar use is aplenty. Don't ignore this. A married woman when goes to the Guru or other auspicious occasion if they are in Madisar automatically it gets due value beyond who you are.
When children are getting dresses ready-made in Psnchagachcham, and also children are attair in Madisar why not a Married woman try to get one. Over the years you can get 2 or 3 if different colours. This is a must to stand with your husband on important occasions. Immediately search fir it and get it with a child's tantrum. Don't ignore it. May be not now but next time I know it should be your positive action in life.
You get it when you type in Google
Roopa Cloth Store(Readymade madisar/silk cotton sarees/Dhoti /kalyani 9yards/ 10yards madisar online)
13A/6, 24th St, Thillaiganga Nagar, Nanganallur, Chennai, Tamil Nadu 600061
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https://www.readytowearsaree.com/9-yards-saree-readymade-madisar-saree?srsltid=AfmBOopgNMuemMjLKRQletYHb98kOzvEpai5JptQzwqlaWZL13DtHdwq

 

[R Jayaraman]

Tradition is not something we take it lightly. We carry it forward and leave a mark in our society that is followed by generation. Just for a minutes is not at all acceptable. Salt goes just one teaspoon just one teaspoon are we ready to ignore or eliminate it from our food Tradition?
One madisar is very essential. Search for it and buy the ready-made one or buy a saree and give it to Mami who stitches it.
In your life this Madisar use is aplenty. Don't ignore this. A married woman when goes to the Guru or other auspicious occasion if they are in Madisar automatically it gets due value beyond who you are.
When children are getting dresses ready-made in Psnchagachcham, and also children are attair in Madisar why not a Married woman try to get one. Over the years you can get 2 or 3 if different colours. This is a must to stand with your husband on important occasions. Immediately search fir it and get it with a child's tantrum. Don't ignore it. May be not now but next time I know it should be your positive action in life.
You get it when you type in Google
Roopa Cloth Store(Readymade madisar/silk cotton sarees/Dhoti /kalyani 9yards/ 10yards madisar online)
13A/6, 24th St, Thillaiganga Nagar, Nanganallur, Chennai, Tamil Nadu 600061
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https://www.readytowearsaree.com/9-yards-saree-readymade-madisar-saree?srsltid=AfmBOopgNMuemMjLKRQletYHb98kOzvEpai5JptQzwqlaWZL13DtHdwq

Stitched madisar or panchakacham is not acceptable. My vadhyar told me when we were discussing this point.
When tradition is being talked about, what tradition is being followed when intercaste marriage was entered into, at the first place.
Are we not confused?

 

[R Jayaraman]

Stitched madisar or panchakacham is not acceptable. My vadhyar told me when we were discussing this point.
When tradition is being talked about, what tradition is being followed when intercaste marriage was entered into, at the first place.
Are we not confused?

As gents, we are expected to wear Vesti - dhoti, where both ends are stitched like Kaili.
Sari and vesti should be without stitching.

 

[RSSARMA52]

Stitched madisar or panchakacham is not acceptable. My vadhyar told me when we were discussing this point.
When tradition is being talked about, what tradition is being followed when intercaste marriage was entered into, at the first place.
Are we not confused?

I do not listen to vadhyar too much. Are you going to tell everything to him. His blunders have valid excuses but for family they creat issues. Don't tell him. Just come and do your duty. What we were how we wear and all not necessarily to be discussed. I think you are making one sided support.
Even to Mahaperiyava one time a person asked. I saw my Sastrigal enter a hotel to eat on the day of our house srardham. Mahaperiyava said you do your duty which is more important. Don't confuse yourself with such matters. If they don't value it is their account. Even today I saw my Sastrigal don't have kudumi which is a must as per Mahaperiyava. They are in our modern haircuts. I heard Shri.Ganesh Sharma telling how he started Mahaperiyava Satsangam.
Even today many don't wear Panchalacham for Amavasai tharpanam. They are seniors. So these are all important but ready-made or human wear is as per convenience. It is far better than the peoples asking of normal saree wearing. Today all Sastrigal are modern but talk rules.
I am not bothered about caste. Once married every one in this world doing karma for the peoples who passed away. Every religion has it. Brahmins are not superior. Non-brahmins are more superior and they do padayal on thar day. We become raw banana and rice with bargained dakshina. Recently during Mahalaya Paksham they committed for 5, and he himself a conducting and the 5. But two are different peoples not our community and don't know our language. The aseervadha vedam will be recited by the 5 but they don't know. Then what Aseervadham you get when you see them as the incarnation of our forefathers? Because cuts in dakshina is convenient. So don't discuss rules with him. I see all big video peoples give lectures but they don't come down to earth. Even we are unable to repeat mantras. In our house during a Suman galileo prarthanai my daughter saw video and tied madisar to my wife. My sister-in-law's daughter inlaw though other brahmin community love married to son also learned and wearing on her own madisar during srardham. Then my another co-brother celebrate his birthday with Rudhrabhisekam that day my daughter helped her periyamma to wear madisar. Actually sister-in-laws daughter inlaw was to do but got delayed. So my daughter present did it. When they arrived already the function was going on.
We peoples should do homework to learn. But don't open the mouth with Sastrigal.
That day as I was present I told my co-brother to keep his pooja lingam and all in the Abhishekam. After that the Sastrigal asking you have it at home? Then his son brought the entire set to do it.