prasad1
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This question has been asked about Indian men by Indian, UK, Australian, and US women of all ages.
I never had any answer and muddled through as if it was the first time I am being asked.
I have since observed it on my trips to India.
This article gives one possible answer.
Why do most Indian men have a habit of staring at women? To understand this national pastime at a more fundamental level, firstly we need to understand the concept of staring.
When does a person stare? Usually, this starts very early in life, whenever we don't understand something, we tend to stare, as if staring would make things clearer. Since boys tend to have more ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) than girls, it follows that the boys tend to spend more time not understanding things and thus, staring. The habit starts building up to such a point that when the normal Indian male reaches his teens and his blood has more hormones than hemoglobin, he starts staring at these mystifying wonders of his world -- Women.
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The reasons for staring may be numerous but the truth is that we, unfortunately, live in a sexually deprived and depraved society, largely helped along by stereotypes and to a certain extent Bollywood. I, for one, firmly believe that proper education, not just at school but also at home, on the TV, movies, etc. is the only way out of this stare-struck country of ours.
I never had any answer and muddled through as if it was the first time I am being asked.
I have since observed it on my trips to India.
This article gives one possible answer.
Why do most Indian men have a habit of staring at women? To understand this national pastime at a more fundamental level, firstly we need to understand the concept of staring.
When does a person stare? Usually, this starts very early in life, whenever we don't understand something, we tend to stare, as if staring would make things clearer. Since boys tend to have more ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) than girls, it follows that the boys tend to spend more time not understanding things and thus, staring. The habit starts building up to such a point that when the normal Indian male reaches his teens and his blood has more hormones than hemoglobin, he starts staring at these mystifying wonders of his world -- Women.
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The reasons for staring may be numerous but the truth is that we, unfortunately, live in a sexually deprived and depraved society, largely helped along by stereotypes and to a certain extent Bollywood. I, for one, firmly believe that proper education, not just at school but also at home, on the TV, movies, etc. is the only way out of this stare-struck country of ours.
Why Do Indian Men Stare At Women
The reasons for staring may be numerous but the truth is that we unfortunately live in a sexually deprived and depraved society, largely helped along by stereotypes and to a certain extent Bollywood.
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