in andhra marriages[ my daughter is married to andhra brahmin] , they have gowri pooja
wherein Old ladies will educate the young bride to be how to be like Gowri sacrificing everything for the welfare of husband.
Renukaji, you have escaped from getting trapped into going thru such rituals.
dumb songs one can put up with.
you would have got into such rituals after saying "no' first,and then you would have questioned whether husband would also offer to sacrifice for you in reciprocity .lol
wherein Old ladies will educate the young bride to be how to be like Gowri sacrificing everything for the welfare of husband.
Renukaji, you have escaped from getting trapped into going thru such rituals.
dumb songs one can put up with.
you would have got into such rituals after saying "no' first,and then you would have questioned whether husband would also offer to sacrifice for you in reciprocity .lol