Sri Sravna,
I agree with this.
External wordly behavior is absolutely like an illusion. We tend to behave, think and act depending on the environment we find in ourself from time to time. Many a times we tend to accept and get along to keep our friends happy (for example, dinning with them with our vegie stuff while others eating non.veg etc...etc..). Many of us tend to behave differently (not on negative side) to be part of the gathering and tend to speak something different that suits the occassion to keep our friends happy.
But reality in us is our inner self that remains intact and are trengthened with our personal values, priniciples and spiritual practices.
This is how I could relate your term "Positive Hypocrisy". A hypocratical approach that would neither hurt/decieve others nor would restrict onself from being pragmatic.
Sri Sravna, I believe the same as you do. The outside world is what and where we live, by what we learn and adopt to suit the outside word. Everything outside our innerself/coscious is an illusion, having spirituality inside us. IMO, thats the only reason that we can make an attempt towards geting rid of delusion and realize the highest consciousness through our innerself.
The search and efforts are inside us in real and can be kept intact with clear realization and firm belief in GOD and Spirituality.
The rest outside are illusion. The force of which can nover be down played in terms of its impact in distracting us and lead us to delusion.
Thus as you said, a person who is in synch with his/her spiritual inner self and external wordly illusion can enjoy the essence of inner and outer self and can help oneself from being self destructive.
If our inner self is different from what we project because if reasons of diplomacy et al and to still claim to be spiritual i think is doing a big disservice to the term spiritual. Positive hypocrisy is an oxymoron.