Let me share some more thoughts before moving on.
In the Karma model there are a few terms - one is Prarabdha Karma associated with the Sukshma Sharira (Subtle body is a term used sometimes) and the other relevant for discussion here is Samskaram (character and propensity for certain actions shaped by past experience prior to taking this birth)
Our true identity is not tied to any of these bodies (Gross body or subtle body). In that sense this gross body which will disintegrate upon death is not 'ours' since it is a temporary rental place for the subtle body and both are constantly under repair. We are just a witness to both
The disintegration of subtle body does not happen at death. It is held together by Karmic Glue in this model. If a person is engaged in Dharmic activities the person in the next human birth is likely to seize similar opportunities due to the initial Samskaram.
For example someone may follow this thread and suddenly find the need to dig deeper in a life changing manner
The study of Vedanta is all about becoming more mature. Like any serious study this requires preparations which includes some knowledge and more importantly practices for emotional growth.
In mid 1970s I was traveling in South India and became sick. My aunt took me to a Doctor and said this fellow is great with patients. He never studied to become a Doctor and started out as a compounder who on his own became a Doctor. He was known to give one injection and people always get cured whatever they have.
For some reason I did not visit this person. I hope we dont have such "Doctors" anymore ...Satisfying pre-requisites is key for any study .. The maturity continuum is one way to assess pre-requisites by an individual.
There are no Gurus here to evaluate anyone
The maturity model I wrote up is using new words to describe old / tested ideas. One can grow in maturity by learning Puranic stories with underlying significance, then graduate to studying the select verses from B.Gita before embarking on serious study of Vedanta.
In today's world people want quick fixes and there is this notion that this topic is something one can jump into much like anyone being able to become a Medical Doctor in the 70s ..
Even in 19th century the barbers used to become Medical Doctors in Europe ..
When one understands a topic of serious study that is well organized satisfied pre-requisites will help make the learning easier and also help one to be more precise even while being informal.
Many people just use all kinds of words like reflection and projection to name a few that makes the whole topic of Vedanta like a joke.
What I wrote under the banner of maturity continuum is just common sense. If someone is basically fooling themselves and others they cannot take up such a study.
All religions cater to our pursuits of Security and desires. Some are pursued by Dharmic means and others are not even with sanctions of religious traditions. I am not restricting these comments to only Hindu religion only.
Study of Vedanta is meaningful only when a person is ready to grow out of pursuits of security and desires with or without the sanction of religion. Much of Vedas cater to those pursuits and Security and Desires so Vedanta is not for someone steeped in desires and doing all kinds of rituals to achieve them.
A term used to describe this state when we do not care for these pursuits is Vairagya which is NOT about denial. I usually do not like to use terms if there is simple way to describe the thought.
There is another term used to describe for a person ready to undertake study of this kind and that is Jignasu... Pardon my typos .. I am traveling and doing the best with this device I have
Hopefully none of what I have written above is new to many people.
On to my next post when I find time ..