tksji,
We had such a long dialogue and you are now saying it is not possible to have a dialogue. I am open to discussion of the original sin even though personally my belief may be that the original sin is indeed a sin. I would still discuss with another person who thinks it is not at all a sin. The eternal condemnation to hell can also be discussed. You bring to the table your arguments as to why there can not be any condemnation. I will bring to the table my arguments as to why it is indeed a condemnation. We may agree or may not agree but go home with some idea of the opposite party's perception at least. I notice a certain irritability in your words. May be I am wrong. Instead of saying you are stuck I would prefer to say that it is your perception and I have not found anything new in it to change my perception. You have said ".....the other person may respond in circular logic and will not be able to see anything else being too committed to preserving & insisting on their belief & open mind". I would be polite and just say you have not understood me at all. You also said quite condescendingly "The root for this may be the scriptures or a person they may be believing in". I would prefer to leave that unresponded.
Sri Vaagmi - I am interested in hearing about your understanding of original sin, eternal condemnation etc.
There is no irritability that I intended to project. Just like there was no air of condescending attitude in my mind though I will take your statement as feedback so I am more careful and better at communicating.
The problem of open discussions here is that words get loaded with other emotions on the readers mind which is one reason I am reticent to get into being more direct and be more involved. But I appreciate your openness in sharing how you received as to what I said.
Coming to substantive part, if I have not understood anything then without any other meta descriptions please try another time. Also my point about "The root for this may be the scriptures or a person they may be believing in" is actually genuine if you for a moment lift the lens of judgement about this statement.
When we are born we have no idea of many things including the concept of what you call God (which to me has to be understood and not defined until it is understood). If someone is ready to run their life on a belief of an event ( Eve ate the forbidden fruit) and about a sin (replace with a blah1 - undefined) leading a person to eternal damnation (read as blah 2- undefined or possibly not definable from our observations, conclusions and reasoning) then such belief has origin in someone being told to swear by a scripture or swear by a person ( a parent figure or a religious figure). That is the point.
If you refer to any of my past posts there is a thought that I have unsuccessfully communicated and that is that a large part of learning in this area occurs when one has open mind to 'unlearn'. There is another way this thought is described by some teachers with a words 'neti, neti' ...
I have understood God. For you there is no God. It is just an undefined sdsdsdiosd. We have widely divergent views. Let us leave the God concept alone. When you have found the definition to sdsdsdiosd and understood God concept come back to me we can talk about saranagati then. Atleast the language, the axioms and the format of argument can be free of hassles then. Understanding self involves starting with the question "who am I". Great thinkers have started with that question in the past and have reached their own conclusions. You have trashed all that with a sweeping statement that "who will you ask?, ask the self? if self does not know what is the point etc.,".
Again I sense that you have provided judgement word 'trash' to describe a serious point. If you re-read your answer it is not an answer at all. What great thinkers did is not relevant unless we are able to describe it or clearly refer to the key aspects here. The point of self inquiry (with 'who am I') may be popular but one that cannot have an answer and that can be 'proved' (no, I am not going to do that since it will require major infrastructure which you may or may not have but I cannot do justice here regardless)
I do not like to quote scripture if there is a simpler way to make a point.Let me quote a verse from Kena Upanishad (Chapter 2, verses 2 and 3) to amplify the point which you call as 'trashing'.
The reference below applies equally to self and 'God' you have understood per your statement.
[h=2]नाहं मन्ये सुवेदेति नो न वेदेति वेद च |यो नस्तद्वेद तद्वेद नो न वेदेति वेद च ||२||
यस्यामतं तस्य मतं मतं यस्य न वेद सः |अविज्ञातं विजानतां विज्ञातमविजानताम् ||३||[/h]
Verse 2: I do not think 'I know it well' . But not that I do not know, I know too. Who among us comprehend It both as 'not known' and as 'known' - he comprehends it
Verse 3: He understands It who comprehends It not! and he understands It not who feels he has comprehended It. It is unknown to the Master of True Knowledge but to the ignorant It is known
Thanks for stating that experience is different from the "experiencer" for that is what I have been trying to get across all the while.
I think I may have an idea of what you think you are communicating, but do not agree
Let us leave it at that for now because too many assumptions are involved in what you tried to communicate in my view (based on your previous posts)
That was neither preaching nor teaching. It was just a reply to the original observation that good people when get bad things throw out saranagati-as if saranagati was an item for barter trade.
All religions that rely on (blind) faith run into this issue. Since aspirants think if they follow God will take care of them. When extraordinarily bad things happen (think of the plight of a parent of Nirbahaya) to 'good people' and if they were persons of faith who think they have surrendered to will of 'God' but are unable to explain why that 'God' did not protect their daughter from such violence. Many faith based actions do not stand the test of 'bad things happening to good people'. So if you have prescription I was asking in what way your prescription is different , how will a person know they have truly achieved Saranagati and why nothing will shake them (or they are better able to cope extraordinary injustice and violence). I was not able to sense an answer in your response in your previous post
Reaching not the undefined word. Reaching God, even according to you, requires knowledge maturing into bhakti. So you do understand what is reaching.
I never said knowledge mature into Bhakthi .. All I can say is they are description of one and the same.
I do not get clearly what you want to say.
You have your vintage of 'God' and Saranagati as prescription for the poor fisher women and butcher. The assumption is that you think you know what their issue is for which this is the prescription. But you say you cannot communicate with the fish and hence you do not have any prescription for those Jivas. My point is that your level of understanding of other human beings (be it a Muslim cleric or a poor fisher women) is not any more than what you know about a fish and hence a universal prescription cannot be deemed to be applicable. However if the prescription were to be applicable you have to be able to state a problem that applies to all human beings (but not applicable to fish and other Jivas) and then you can say why your Saranagati resolves the common problem
A few years ago I was in Chennai with my daughter for a very short time. My children, having born and raised in USA interact with everyone without being even remotely aware of social/caste/religion labels of anyone. A woman who comes to wash dishes became her friend and my daughter was shocked that this dishwashing woman took her husband to a Doctor who prescribed a medication upon looking at he husband (and charging Rs 20)!. We tried to Google to find out what he gave it was one tablet to address serious issue of pneumonia. My daughter wanted to sue that Doctor which is impractical ( it seems this 'Doctor' deals with large number of poor people standing in line and prescribes by looking at the person and spends no more than 30 seconds per person)!
I am sure no one wants to go to such a Doctor who prescribes without a diagnosis.
You can keep your understanding in tact. I do not intend to change it.
My understanding arising not out of any unreasonable 'faith' hopefully can take challenge
I am not intent on keeping anything
Dear tksji, I hope you enjoyed your Q4 time this far. You need not worry one bit about offending me. I do not get offended at all. I am beyond that. My search is a continuous one. I do not get troubled by clutter. I have a good filter circuit in place which gleans the signal well. Please do not worry.
You can do a summing up and list the challenges including those which have been left unanswered by me for my benefit and the benefit of the readers here.
Thanks. I enjoyed the conversation. We can meet again on some other issues again if you close this with this.
I have enjoyed the discussions. I am not making claims here but if someone does using words I do not know what they mean then they have to explain it in a way I can understand it. I am ready to unlearn if that is needed.
Not sure if it is summing up:
1. State what your God concept it
2. State what you think you understand by self
3. State what problem you think you are solving
4. State what Saranagathi is
5. Prove why Saranagathi per your understanding is a prescription to the problem you have identified
Regards
PS: I have typed and have not spent time revising , kindly pardon me for typos/mistakes ..