Film director Cheran villain to daughter’s love

[sravna]

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Dear Sravna,

You have to understand that sometimes we cannot react they way we really want becos of law and also position in society that we have to maintain or forced to abide according to professional rules of conduct.

A patient shouting at a doctor can get away with it but a doctor shouting back at the patient even though patient was in the wrong..the doctor has to be answerable to the medical council if there is a complain.

So you see one must still learn how to smile and cope with situations and after a while we get used to be playing Mr Nice Guy and anger eventually loses its footing in us.

So these days if anyone makes me angry..I just think in my mind "Narakam Gaccha Shunaka"(Go to Hell Dog) and just smile to myself thinking Ha Ha Ha..he has no idea what I am thinking of him.

I prefer thinking in Sanskrit cos just in case I blurt out those words it might still sound like a mantra!LOL

So you see those emotions are still there but I would not call it anger..but just momentary feeling of dissatisfaction which can be handled in a less violent manner.

I somehow do not buy all this Sattvik nature anymore..I just feel we change and adapt over time to handle situations thats all.

Dear Renuka,

There is no necessity to sell the term sattvic. It is nothing but in scientific terms a set of traits that one should have to fall in to a personality type. We do find such people in real life and I call such people sattvic. As you say some indeed learn to adapt to the situations but that is a different case.

And don't feel so cosy in blurting out the words in sanskrit. You never know who knows what

 

[renuka]

Dear Renuka,

And don't feel so cosy in blurting out the words in sanskrit. You never know who knows what

Dear Sravna,

I am aware of that...so I can just modify the grammar into Chathurti Vibhakti and add a Namah to it and Lo behold I can say I am reciting a prayer add a few words of other languages and create more confusion.

More next week.

BTW Sravna....so far I have only found 100% Sattva individuals in the Morgue!

They lie cool,calm and do not react to surroundings.

 

[Vaagmi]

May be, but I just can't understand Cheran advertising to the world she is one. She being of legal age does not mean she is more mature than her own father who wants to secure his "support love" credentials even at the cost of exposing his own daughter to the charge of being a dumb idiot from those who know her no more than the proverbial Adam. Please, don't blame the kid, she is driven by the love her own father eulogized in the silver screens, she didn't know her father is a rank hypocrite.

Thanks....

Poor fellow Cheran. He is not a brahmin. He could have declared in the beginning of every film that his love for his daughter is conditional on her choosing a good boy to love. It could have been even another girl. But certainly not Chandru. That would have solved the problem. No one would have called him a hypocrite.

 

[Vaagmi]

This is an overly general statement. If this means no Brahmin (upper case B) is capable of killing then it is demonstrably false. Many years ago there was a young Brahmin man who hacked his entire family to death in Villivakkam, Chennai. Of course one can claim he was not a real Brahmin, but there cannot be any denying he was born into a Brahmin family.

By this I am not saying Brahmins are murderous, how I wish I don't have to say this, it is just that a general statement like "Brahmins don't kill" is a little too much.....

Many years ago the same day some one from Kottivakkam had claimed that that man was not a brahmin and that that family was not a brahmin family.

 

[sravna]

Dear Sravna,

I am aware of that...so I can just modify the grammar into Chathurti Vibhakti and add a Namah to it and Lo behold I can say I am reciting a prayer add a few words of other languages and create more confusion.

See , it does require a lot of work if you are to not show your anger!

 

[renuka]

Poor fellow Cheran. He is not a brahmin. He could have declared in the beginning of every film that his love for his daughter is conditional on her choosing a good boy to love. It could have been even another girl..

Dear Vaagmi ji,

Nope..Cheran can't do that cos he could be charged for plagiarism!LOL

I know whose dialogue you are quoting here..be frank yaar.

 

[renuka]

See , it does require a lot of work if you are to not show your anger!

Ok..I have an easier method.

It does not even require a single word and it only involves extension of a single metacarpo-phalangeal joint.

Silence is the best killer.

 

[Vaagmi]

Not as easy as you think especially if the boy happens to be from a lower Caste / Dalit . I hope you are aware what happened to the fate of Illavarsan , the Dalit boy who married Divya .

Why is that Cheran's and Chandru's castes have been kept a secret? Normally it is rule in TN that the castes would have been mentioned first and a twist would have been given to this episode from the beginning. Is it because we have VIPs involved here? Or is it because Cheran belongs to a politically powerful caste in Tamilnadu? If any one here has the info they can provide it so that we know the truth. Thanks.

 

[Vaagmi]

Dear Vaagmi ji,

Nope..Cheran can't do that cos he could be charged for plagiarism!LOL

I know whose dialogue you are quoting here..be frank yaar.

The fact that you know it so quickly means your cerebral cortex is over working. Give it some well deserved rest. Narada kalakapriya!

 

[renuka]

May be, but I just can't understand Cheran advertising to the world she is one. She being of legal age does not mean she is more mature than her own father who wants to secure his "support love" credentials even at the cost of exposing his own daughter to the charge of being a dumb idiot from those who know her no more than the proverbial Adam. Please, don't blame the kid, she is driven by the love her own father eulogized in the silver screens, she didn't know her father is a rank hypocrite.

Thanks....

Dear Nara ji,

Let me explain my post better.

When anyone of us enters a relationship with anyone...we have to always keep options open in case it fails.

So how is this girl so sure that her marriage or relationship with this guy will survive?

So why spoil relationship with own family??

In this world we can not depend on anyone 100% not even our own family or our spouse or children or anyone for that matter..so it is better we keep good ties with everyone just in case we get the boot from anyone we have others to at least be there for us.

I know this sound a bit selfish for personal interest sorts but in the long run it is better to keep our emotions under check for our own safety.

Further more even though a parent might oppose to any relationship we just can not disown our parents cos we still owe the debt of giving us life and bringing us up..so sometimes we just have to make sure we please everybody and try to foster love among everyone by persuasion.

If not possible..it is better for the girl to drop the guy..cos I have seen cases where girl fights with family for guy and later she is at the mercy of the guys family..so better not to go ahead in such cases if you ask me.

Even though I might be unconventional in my thoughts but certain things I still think we need to think far ahead and not just momentary.

That is why I never advise anyone to be 100% in love with anyone..always keep options for change.

 

[renuka]

The fact that you know it so quickly means your cerebral cortex is over working. Give it some well deserved rest. Narada kalakapriya!

Dear Vaagmi Ji,

I will be leaving in a short while and will be only back to Forum next week..so I am just typing 1 weeks quota before I go..in fact I am already starting to miss you!

 

[Vaagmi]

Dear Nara ji,

Let me explain my post better.

When anyone of us enters a relationship with anyone...we have to always keep options open in case it fails.

So how is this girl so sure that her marriage or relationship with this guy will survive?

So why spoil relationship with own family??

In this world we can not depend on anyone 100% not even our own family or our spouse or children or anyone for that matter..so it is better we keep good ties with everyone just in case we get the boot from anyone we have others to at least be there for us.

I know this sound a bit selfish for personal interest sorts but in the long run it is better to keep our emotions under check for our own safety.

Further more even though a parent might oppose to any relationship we just can not disown our parents cos we still owe the debt of giving us life and bringing us up..so sometimes we just have to make sure we please everybody and try to foster love among everyone by persuasion.

If not possible..it is better for the girl to drop the guy..cos I have seen cases where girl fights with family for guy and later she is at the mercy of the guys family..so better not to go ahead in such cases if you ask me.

Even though I might be unconventional in my thoughts but certain things I still think we need to think far ahead and not just momentary.

That is why I never advise anyone to be 100% in love with anyone..always keep options for change.

Wow!! that is certainly a b gene speaking the universal truth. God's ways are strange indeed.

 

[Vaagmi]

Dear Vaagmi Ji,

I will be leaving in a short while and will be only back to Forum next week..so I am just typing 1 weeks quota before I go..in fact I am already starting to miss you!

I hope to be around here(unless I get into some serious problem with the forum owner here) and you can come back with your hooks and punches. No problem.

 

[renuka]

I hope to be around here(unless I get into some serious problem with the forum owner here) and you can come back with your hooks and punches. No problem.

Dear Vaagmi ji,

I don't think I am going to pick up and hooks and punches at Aprameya Swami and Ambegalu Krishna Temple.

Take Care

 

[vgane]

As per Daily Thanthi the girl has told the court that she would like to go with Chandru

We need to see what happens in Court today

Good drama...Did not know that Cheran has capability to entertain the masses through a daily thriller

 

[C RAVI]

Dear Nara ji,

1) Further more even though a parent might oppose to any relationship we just can not disown our parents cos we still owe the debt of giving us life and bringing us up..so sometimes we just have to make sure we please everybody and try to foster love among everyone by persuasion.

If not possible..it is better for the girl to drop the guy..cos I have seen cases where girl fights with family for guy and later she is at the mercy of the guys family..so better not to go ahead in such cases if you ask me.


2) That is why I never advise anyone to be 100% in love with anyone..always keep options for change.

Point 1 & 2 gives the following important message (very much to be adopted) to young guys before seriously & honestly committing into Love with a girl, after proposing her, such a way that the guy gets to know the truth about her parent's approval and be satisfied -

- Ask the girl to first get the "go ahead" approval from her parents before she herself could get into serious and honest love with the guy and start receiving his love, care, dining & shopping benefit etc..etc. Otherwise she may be a type of girl who have an agenda of fooling a guy and then escape, stating that she can't go against her parents.

Because, Boys also have not taken birth on Earth falling from the sky and have not been brought up all the years by Trees, stones, rivers, animals, sun, moon, air etc..etc provided by the nature.

Girls can also do the same and get the process done from the guy's side.


But, with the above message, what is making me feel confused now is - "What is the full definition of Love between a girl and a boy?"

 

[mkrishna100]

2) That is why I never advise anyone to be 100% in love with anyone..always keep options for change.

There is a confusion between love and infatuation .
Infatuation is just a superficial feeling that lacks depth and maturity . Love goes beyond feeling .Love is a verb and not just a feeling .
When I say I love X,Y,Z ( it need not be just in romantic terms ) , my love must be measured by not just the good feelings I have for that X,Y,Z but what actions ( sacrifices ) I am willing to make my relationship with X,Y,Z good and healthy for a long time .
Take another example : I may love cooking and watch lot of tv programs on cooking , read cookery recipes etc but unless I go to the kitchen daily and face the heat in the kitchen in order to learn cooking I will never be a good cook .
Same with friendship , family or other form of romantic relationships .Measure your love by to what extent you are willing to give your time ,energy , resources ( and not just by feelings ,huge no of sms / FB messages, long hours of chat in coffee shops /computer ) to make that relationship stable and healthy .

 

[auh]

There is a confusion between love and infatuation .Infatuation is just a superficial feeling that lacks depth and maturity . Love goes beyond feeling .Love is a verb and not just a feeling .

How do we differentiate between infatuation and love?

 

[sarang]

The boy and the girl must recite vivaha mantras to each other with full understanding, and then fall in love if they agree to abide by and live by the marriage mantras and share the good and the bad.

As per a recent news report, in bangaluru, failure of living in relationships have doubled in the last year. A downturn in IT and BPO employment will exacerbate the fragile relationship. In employed classes, more often the boy breaks the relationship and opts out, forcing some girls go to family court and police complaining desertion.

In the other case of students and staying with parents or hostel cases, the girl more often breaks the relationship suddenly, by disconnecting calls, not answering messages, and even changing the phone, and humiliating the boy by getting a new beau. sadly, this leads to the boy attacking the girl - acid throw, stabbing or even shooting. Without going into the merits of the case, the girl invites serious trouble if she leads a boy too much and then ditches him for better prospects or after knowing his character.

 

[mkrishna100]

How do we differentiate between infatuation and love?

If you read my full post you will get the answer to the same .