Hi Renuka,
The ability to connect across different experiences, events & similar situations is "intelligence". So you were/are very intelligent to connect all this together & provide the right solution to your patients.
Lets take an example. someone with high EQ but low intelligence. so he connects well with customers, raises in the corporate ladder & is successful.
Now the company gets into a crisis, competitors are even more "smart & intelligent" than our successful high EQ low IQ fellow. Now however successful one is (many maybachs in his garage), he does NOT have the intelligence to come with solutions for this crisis. so there ends his career.
so you have seen so many CEO's of companies getting kicked out. so EQ can take you far enough (no doubt), but eventually will have to fail without IQ.
for eg, if your son is very high IQ, solves the problems immediately then with some EQ learning he will go very high in life.
On the other hand you take another "mada makku" with excellent father's connection, high society network, gets all the support, he will eventually fail becos he is a "mada makku" !!
I once hired a 5 times gold medalist lady in my team, but very poor EQ, dressing sense was terrible, etc.. Infact my team members were surprised at this choice. She beat everyone in the team & got us "windfall profits". she got married & relocated to another place. Today she is the worldwide product director in an American MNC. So she & her team created the "most successful product ever" in this MNC company's history. so if you want your company to succeed & make you a "windfall profit", hire the best of the best !!. They will always deliver !!
I can quote many many many such instances.
In short, average or low intelligence but very high EQ, very successful people will get beaten finally by High IQ with good EQ People
Such is life. Only the Geniuses, Super IQ's create path breaking inventions, create new economies, reforms, great nations etc..
Lets celebrate & revere Intelligence !!
Cheers,
JK