Happy New Year
Dear all,
Happy new year to all and extend my best wishes to site .First I am happy to be a member of this site as I found so many details throgh our site and wish to be in touch always.I found the site while i was searching for the details of family deitiies(Kul Devatha) .
Let my first topic also be kuldevatha.From childhood itself even if i had deep belief in GOD,not intersted to follow our rituals strictly believing that GOD is one and common for all .No bifurcation like hindus ,Muslim,Christian etc are required(I studied in amissionary school and was very much interested in Bible classes.I was attending Geetha classes also in my childhood.We are followers of Sai Sathya Sai Baba and have so many miracles through out my life since we started believing him.I believe Amrithananthamai also.But not having any habit of going to temples strictly or offering prayers,sthrthas etc as daily routine
Venkitachalapathy (Thiruvenkatapuram)was Kuldevatha in my house and we were visiting family deity regularly . since my childhood and after marriage also i like very much to go there as i feel some kind of comfort whenever i visit there
After marriage , in my family(husbands house) ,there was no idea about the family deity and were going to nearby temple only.My inlaws told that nearby Siva,Devi and Satha are only known to them .They are blessing us always .
The story begine after 20-25 years after my marriage.When some unforseen events happened in my family ,one of my close relatives approached a priest and it was found throgh Prasnam that we r not seeing our Kuladevatha -the deity is somewhere in Tamilnadu . By assumption we thought it may be Beemanagari and started going there whenever possible and got blessings of Devi and Sastha there (Still continues as we were getting miracles after started visiting there).
Then again a turning point came.when v were searching for a suitable match for our daughter so many hurdles were there as per her horoscope due to Mars in 8th house(Now she is married and well settled).But at that time we were consulting so many astrologers as a chain refered by one to another and doing almost all Pariharas .At last by chance one of the priest strongly told that the family deity we believe is not the correct family deity.As per my husbands horoscope it can be Sadaudayar Sastha near Kalladaikurichi.We went there offered Poojas.But I am not sure whether that is correct or not because the marriage was finalised as per the predictuions of so many astrologers and after following their directions.So we are still in search.I am not getting a Dayathi who is having belief and following rituals from gernerations back.But we are sure that the deities at Beemanagari and Sadaudayar both bless us and visiting both temples whenever possible.
If someone can guide any more for in this subject we will be very happy
Once again With all best wishes for
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