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Is it some sort of bad sagunam (omen)

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Dear all,
I have a son 2 yrs old and recently confirmed my second pregnancy. Last 2-3 days had been little negative.
My husband is unwell last 3 days...
Yday I dropped a full pot of curd and wasted entire curd. Nothing broke
Then again yesterday my husband dropped a glass plate and it broke
Today my son dropped a glass mug and broke
And today before going to bed, I went to pray and noticed that two swami padam and one Krishna idol had falled down - within the shelf itself but nothing broke.
So, there has been series of drops and breakage. Nothing was intentional- all by mistake. But still am worried. Am afraid of it all as some bad omen showing that something bad is on its way.
Pls advise what to do...

Namaskaram
 
Dear all,
I have a son 2 yrs old and recently confirmed my second pregnancy. Last 2-3 days had been little negative.
My husband is unwell last 3 days...
Yday I dropped a full pot of curd and wasted entire curd. Nothing broke
Then again yesterday my husband dropped a glass plate and it broke
Today my son dropped a glass mug and broke
And today before going to bed, I went to pray and noticed that two swami padam and one Krishna idol had falled down - within the shelf itself but nothing broke.
So, there has been series of drops and breakage. Nothing was intentional- all by mistake. But still am worried. Am afraid of it all as some bad omen showing that something bad is on its way.
Pls advise what to do...

Namaskaram

Madam,

Such things have happened to me too. A series of unwelcome events and incidents one behind the other, in quick and close succession, within short intervals, gaps of time etc. Even I used to be perturbed about the events but eventually they will cease, sometimes sooner sometimes later but cease they will to repeat after a long (or even short) gap.

They are just incidental and accidental and never a shadow of any disaster to occur later. In all such circumstances of mine, rather they turned out for good in that I was careful not to commit the same error again. I was reminded of such instances whenever there was an occasion to err, I avoided committing the error and I was immensely benefitted. Much depends on your perception and attitude. If you perceive such incidents as good, to teach you some vital lesson to apply in future, then they are good. If you perceive them as bad, perhaps they would turn out to be bad indeed. I request you to be optimistic always and give no room for pessimism. Please always think Positive and never think Negative.

Please dispel such thoughts that it could be a bad omen. This is our Indian mentality. Please take them along the stride and march forward in life. Please do not let such things drag you and retard your progress.
 
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Dear all,
I have a son 2 yrs old and recently confirmed my second pregnancy. Last 2-3 days had been little negative.
My husband is unwell last 3 days...
Yday I dropped a full pot of curd and wasted entire curd. Nothing broke
Then again yesterday my husband dropped a glass plate and it broke
Today my son dropped a glass mug and broke
And today before going to bed, I went to pray and noticed that two swami padam and one Krishna idol had falled down - within the shelf itself but nothing broke.
So, there has been series of drops and breakage. Nothing was intentional- all by mistake. But still am worried. Am afraid of it all as some bad omen showing that something bad is on its way.
Pls advise what to do...

Namaskaram

All things work for good to them who Love God and who are called according to His purpose.
 
How is it possible for someone to be noted as Newbie (user: tambrahm) and yet have achievements of a Veteran (meanings someone that has posted for a while). Does anyone know how that happens? Just curious ...

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tambrahm - Our mind is capable of worrying non-stop with or without reasons..

Do whatever that normally helps you to relax - call a friend you have not in years, or go to the temple if you are theist, meditate, or take a walk and/or exercise, or watch a nature show in the TV or do all of the above.

All the best
 
Hi tambrahm,

1. If you have a body, you will occasionally get some problem related to your health.

2. Gravity is all pervasive on earth's surface. This means things may tumble, fall from a height, may fall slipping from hands of human beings etc., and break into pieces.

3. Space is such an entity that there can not be two objects in the same location(bearing the same coordinates). The moment one object enters the given space the other object occupying that particular space has to move or get destroyed. This is the law of nature. So when you trip and fall, it means your leg tried to be there in a space coordinate which was already occupied by some other object and it failed in its attempts. If you hit your head against something and get a bump it means the same thing that your head tried to replace something else in that space and failed.

4. There is no such thing called bad omen or good omen. It is all someone trying to get smart "after the event".

Just do not bother about these events. Live your life fully with faith in God.
Your fears may have something to do with your early stage pregnancy. Consult a physician and that may help you. All the best.
 
Yet another quote from, what else, the Bible. Could you not quote from the Hindu scriptures?

Wow, thanks for placing the quote. Of course only to be expected from the resident Christian missionary. I think KV will soon assure the original poster that nothing bad will happen to her and her family only if she accepts JC and converts to Christianity.
 
Hi Tambrahm,

Hope this has nothing to do with bringing your dear mother to Singapore after the demise of your father? Hope those issues are resolved

This is on account of tension or anxiety..

Think calmly..You will be able to find the real reason! The solution lies in your hands

You can do meditation or Pranayama to obtain inner peace!

You will be able to overcome this palpable tension
 
How is it possible for someone to be noted as Newbie (user: tambrahm) and yet have achievements of a Veteran (meanings someone that has posted for a while). Does anyone know how that happens? Just curious .............
Dear TKS Sir,

There are two ways to get the 'veteran' status!

1. Posts crossing 1000 mark!

2. Three years of registration.

The number 2 category has lot of newbies. :)
 
Dear all,
I have a son 2 yrs old and recently confirmed my second pregnancy. Last 2-3 days had been little negative.
My husband is unwell last 3 days...
Yday I dropped a full pot of curd and wasted entire curd. Nothing broke
Then again yesterday my husband dropped a glass plate and it broke
Today my son dropped a glass mug and broke
And today before going to bed, I went to pray and noticed that two swami padam and one Krishna idol had falled down - within the shelf itself but nothing broke.
So, there has been series of drops and breakage. Nothing was intentional- all by mistake. But still am worried. Am afraid of it all as some bad omen showing that something bad is on its way.
Pls advise what to do...

Namaskaram


Dear Madam,

Nothing to worry...sometimes things happen as a pure coincidence.

BTW to make you feel better..sometimes breaking of plates is also seen as a good sign and good luck.

So dont worry..be happy.
 
Dear Tambrahm,

You seem to get confused very easily! I checked your first post and felt 'Time just flies'! It is nearly two years since you posted your

first fear in our forum about seeing your mom after your father's demise, since you could not meet her before the 'tenth day' rituals.


Lack of sleep / ill health will make us drop things down and this has nothing to do with bad omen. Try to keep your mind cool and calm.

Prayer will surely help you. I can imagine how difficult it is to manage home and office, with a tiny tot at home.

Take care. :)
 
I propose that that you must do pariharm for all the sins you and your forefathers did.
You must donate 100oz of gold to choice of charities that each member of this forum suggests.
Let us see how gullible you are.
 
Breaking of glasses is considered good in the North. They are of course bad because you might get hurt. Similarly things do not fall on their own; they may not have been properly held or placed and people are less careful when they are preoccupied without realising it. The best thing is to be careful and continue to pray to god for well-being.
 
Dear Iyya Sir,

What you say is very true. I shall tell my experience. I am never scared of crossing busy main roads near our house. Once my friend

told me that people having my birth star will meet with accidents because of some planetary positions; fear cropped up in my mind.

I had to overcome that fear with great difficulty! :)
 
Dear Iyya Sir,

What you say is very true. I shall tell my experience. I am never scared of crossing busy main roads near our house. Once my friend

told me that people having my birth star will meet with accidents because of some planetary positions; fear cropped up in my mind.

I had to overcome that fear with great difficulty! :)
long time back my father in law 75yrs then tripped and fell on a busy road while crossing.while he analysing for sometime why he fell down

andunable to come to any conclusion. he went back to the same road and crossed it a few times himself with no aid from others to overcome his

. fears.it is good to rationally analyse and overcome irrational fears.
 
Dear Iyya Sir,

What you say is very true. I shall tell my experience. I am never scared of crossing busy main roads near our house. Once my friend

told me that people having my birth star will meet with accidents because of some planetary positions; fear cropped up in my mind.

I had to overcome that fear with great difficulty! :)

We can overcome fear of any kind with right knowledge.

In general if a person is more open minded to others without proper discrimination then they are likely to be affected by claims/spells of any kind including all kinds of made up superstitions. Belief in superstitions is about weakness and such unfounded beliefs (that is faith) makes a person a true atheist per Swami Vivekananda

Let me provide a couple of quotes from Swami Vivekananda's speeches. I had to memorize some of these passage in 8th grade for a competition (I am only providing part of it) . I did not win the competition but it stayed with me though !

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Strength, strength is what the Upanishads speak to me from every page.
This is the one great thing to remember, it has been the one great lesson. I have
been taught in my life, strength, it says, strength. O man, be not weak. Stand up
and be strong. Ay, it is the only literature in the world where you find the word
‘Abhih’, fearless, used again and again; in other scriptures in the world is the
adjective either to God or to man. Abhih, fearless ! strength, strength for us.
What we need is strength, who will give us strength ? Therefore, my friends as
one of your blood, as one that lives and dies with you, let me tell you that we
want strength, strength, and every time strength. And the Upanishads are the
great mine of strength.

Arise, awake and stop not till the desired end is reached. Be bold and fear
not. Arise, awake, for your country needs this tremendous sacrifice. It is the
young men that will do it “the young, the energetic, the strong, the well-built,
the intellectual.” Arise, awake the world is calling upon you. Think not that you
are poor, that you have no friends. The moment you fear you are nobody. It is
fear that is the great cause of misery in the world. It is fear that is the greatest
of all superstitions. It is fear that is the cause of our woes, and it is fearlessness
that brings heaven even in a moment.
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In another talk he said this


The Vedanta teaches men to have faith in themselves first. As certain religions of the world say that a man who does not believe in a Personal God outside of himself is an atheist, so the Vedanta says, a man who does not believe in himself is an atheist. Not believing in the glory of our own soul is what the Vedanta calls atheism.

He is an atheist who does not believe in himself. The old religions said that he was an atheist who did not believe in God. The new religion says that he is an atheist who does not believe in himself. But it is not selfish faith, beause the Vedanta, again, is the doctrine of Oneness. It means faith in all, because you are all.



 
I propose that that you must do pariharm for all the sins you and your forefathers did.
You must donate 100oz of gold to choice of charities that each member of this forum suggests.
Let us see how gullible you are.
too many these days are getting into pariharam cycles,running after astrologers,fake swamis and becoming compulsive temple goers performing pujas instead of rationally

reasoning their way out of situations. yesterday saw a HBO film a person male feeling guilty after a car accident killing his wife and a few others

ends up committing suicide as pariharam so that his organs [heart and eyes] are donated to relatives of persons whose death he feels he has caused by bad

driving. I did not know english films could be as bad as indian ones. your proposal of 100 oz gold could be moderated to make it

acceptable to the party under discussion.lol
 
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TKSji
I do not believe in God or temple worship

I have a lot of self belief and faith in goodness of all humanbeings

Do I qualify to be an Atheist or not?I would not mind getting classified as one though.
 
Thank you all for your responses and concerns for me. Really moved.
After the series of events, I hv been goi g to temple for 3 days daily... and the Varalakshmi Vratam... aftet doing some pious activities I feel more positive and those events have to the back of my mind.
About the gold coins, I dont mind donating if its for the needy... even then 100 gold coins is very tough... am not so rich u see...
 
TKSji
I do not believe in God or temple worship

I have a lot of self belief and faith in goodness of all humanbeings

Do I qualify to be an Atheist or not?I would not mind getting classified as one though.

Sri Krish

I am not a theist and I am not an atheist.. I am also not claiming to be an agnostic person.


You do not believe in whatver the term God means to you .. For you to not believe in anything or to believe in anything you will need a definition. If you provide a definition of the term then you may qualify to be an atheist :-)

One can take Vedic teaching to be a source of knowledge still .. if you do that then you will be aatheist Veidika !

Swami Vivekananda has said many times (and I can resonate with his statements) that it is better to be a rank atheists than a superstitious fool ! I am paraphrasing his quote ..

It is possible to be an atheist fool also since atheism is another belief system though some self proclaimed atheists will object because they will claim to not stand for anything but only oppose others.

Theist or athiests - it is better in my view to be a thinking person.

There is no reason to believe in the goodness of all human beings in my view. Both goodness and baddness in extreme are demonstrated by humans every day and in every part of the world.

Bottomline - based on what you have stated it is hard to classify you LoL ..
 
TKSji
I do not believe in God or temple worship

I have a lot of self belief and faith in goodness of all humanbeings

Do I qualify to be an Atheist or not?.............
Surely you qualify, Krish Sir!
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See this:

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One who disbelieves or denies the existence of God or gods.

Source: atheist - definition of atheist by The Free Dictionary

 
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