But real techniques are required to support our belief in spiritual knowledge if we are to master our emotions. There are different levels of spiritual responses that can be used to counter mental force. These are in the order of increasing spirituality:
1. Attacking back by humour
2. Pity or feel sorry for the person for his ignorance
3. Show positive feelings towards the person in spite of his negative actions
4. Be totally unaffected
Each of the above represents a particular level of spiritual development and will help us in reacting the appropriate way.
Well Sravna..I applied each step of what you wrote recently before that I am not too proud to say this but recently I made a preacher of another religion get angry with me in 5 mins!LOL
Ok..this person wanted to see me to give me some reading material for patients to overcome anger issues and depression etc and invited me to attend Church.
Well..I liked the material but it was a bit too much of Bible in there and also Homophobic cos it was suggesting Homosexuality is a sin...so I suggested to her to make new prints by removing the Bible quotes and anti homosexual lines to make it user friendly neutral for people of all religions.
Then I saw her temper rising..she started to say "You are entitled to your opinion but you have no right to ask me to remove word of God"
I asked her 'Is God judgmental?"
She said loudly "NO!"
I told her in that case this can't be word of God..it has to be word of man cos the article is judgmental.
That was it..she started raising her voice and scolding me.
Then I told her "hey why get angry...your articles are about anger management..I feel sad and sorry for you that you are losing control"
She started saying "Nothing can affect me....I am not losing control"
I told her extreme anger leads to denial and I smiled at her.
She left angrily and said "I have never been like this..I don't know why this is happening to me" and she stared at me angrily.
Then I handed her back her books...'Well may be you should read this..anger management"
Well to a great extent I was testing her limits..got to know most preachers are fake..they fake niceness..when challenged they start to shout and show that they only want you to believe them but you have no right to question them and we need to accept everything as the truth.
Before she left my place..she uttered to my staff that she felt I(Renuka) am the devil!LOL
Thats all one can say when they have no answers.
So Sravna...can you make out that I applied all steps you mentioned?
I guess you and I do have something in common after all!LOL