கன்னத்தில் முத்தமிட்டால்
கன்னத்தில் முத்தமிட்டால்
Oh dear, where am I to begin.
Let me start with the sri lankan conflict. I feel that we tambrams did not conduct ourselves honourably here. As a community, inspite of our internal disorganization, we could have done more. We are remembered today only for our uncompromising attacks on the tigers. I think it would have better, from both a political and moral standpoint, to have taken the high road, ie do good for the refugees, collect money and focus on the humanitarian tragedy. But then we have Neanderthals who blare the loudest, and who have control of the media.
Another topic: adoption. Madhavan, in a recent interview, recalled, how when he visited the refugee camps, about the difficulty in getting orphans adopted. Even there, he said, caste and creed played a role. Sad.
The movie is tops and I sat enthralled for 130 minutes or so, and saw it in one setting.
The courtship between maddy and simran was sweet and helped take the underlying angst and abandonment, which is the main theme of the movie. Of course, love, - between couples, within family and within friends ultimately wins and which is portrayed in a touching and subtle manner.
The film belongs to keerthana. As amudha, the abandoned daughter of a terrorist, who grows up in a caring and loving family. An ordinary well adjusted girl, till her 9th birthday, when her parents tell her of her adoption. If at all anything, this is the weakest link in the movie story, but then without this quirk there would have been no movie. So I will let it pass.
Simran is very adequate both as the mother & wife/lover. She looks young enough to carry herself convincingly in a dhavani, and her sharp but love filled retorts to madhavan, is indeed a welcomely different kind of courtship.
But it amudha whose adoption binds them together. It was touching to see the baby included in the wedding scene.
The second role, ie that of a mother, is more difficult. Again, one sees the bonding between mother daughter, which, this movie proves, is the strongest bond, between two humans, I think. Even though these are not related by blood, but by relationship.
It is an accurate portrayal, the mother unforgiving for the daughter’s transgressions, and the daughter’s endearing apologies. Made me cry.
Amudha’s quest for her mother is natural. I think it is the quest of every adopted child, there is a bittersweet process and muchly poignant. On the one hand, we have the adoptee parents, wondering if all the love and affection they have provided so far, will have come to nought.
Then, in most cases I think, is the overwhelming disappointment most adoptees face, when they realize that the real blood parent is a disappointment, far removed from the fantasy they have been building up so far.
The little girl here keeps a diary of her life which she wants to give to her birth mother. Apparently it is a common thing. Because, in a recent book, ‘the secret daughter’ by shilpi somayya gowda, there is the same feature – an adopted daughter maintaining a diary and searching for birth mother…
Prakash raj is convincing as the tamil speaking humane Sinhalese. Nandita bose has minimal role. All other support are adequate, and thankfully, no ‘comedy role’.
The music is in sync with the movie, but ARR did not provide any haunting hummable theme music, like he did for Guru, another serious movie.
Madhavan, is good. Understated acting, but rises up to the role, in really a support role, to amudha and in a way to simran. In a way, he shows, through the movie, no matter what, it is a man’s world and the woman suffers or has to work harder – the career, writing, courting, fatherhood. The traditionally talked about father/daughter bond, is somewhat subdued here, correctly so.
The portrayal of family bonding – through day to day activities and how much we interact, bump, murmur, complain and yet form the bonds – is very well done, in the granpa murmuring but overruled in his views, whether to tell amudha about her adoption or any other thing.
The parents are portrayed as an intelligent unit, who treat their 9 year old with a seriousness, which can be seen in the west, but not in india. As a rule. I guess there are exceptions. The norm for us would have been to ignore the insistence to go to a war torn sri lanka. Yet maddy/simran took upon this as a duty, and left the rest of the family behind, and ventured into the battle grounds with great danger to themselves and amudha.
I could go on, but will stop here.
WONDERFUL ENDING!!
A must see movie.
5