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all he wants is he wants a suitable match for himself and his brother

TB girls and parents can consider his earnest appeal to help and suggest suitable girls who will accept him unconditionally

there are many girls who can easily turn his life around.

he is waiting to be moulded as a good TB husband

Really!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
 
thanks all

Respected Sir,

First thanks ...
need more guidance and tips. when will develop in life?

we have both post graduate.

day by day we hve find it... all the matter failure.


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mani
 
we hve affected in poorva janma dosam.my brother & me life is most bad condition . my brother also married but this marry life continue 15days only . bcoz wife escape to her lover. after we hve try marry to him so many time but all matter failure. so we hve find the problems from JOSIYAR. he told us poorva janma dosam tell parikaram. we have finished the all prikaram especially suyamvara kalyana parikaram, although the partner is not set. he was worked in temporally. there is no give heavy salary.
No house (only rent house) Rasi : Kumbam Star : Avittam .
i m not married for brother marriage wait...plz help us.

i m waiting for Ur reply...



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mani



sorry any mistake typying this letter plz leave the mistakes

Shri Mani,

From what you say, it is clear that you have finished doing all the parihaarams suggested for your poorva janma dosham by the josyar whom you consulted. Hence we should take it that the poorva janma dosham chapter is closed.

The girl and her family will not normally go into your horoscope and find out poorva janma dosham etc.; rather, they will look at the present picture and like to assess somewhat about the medium-term future. When I consider your/your brother's case in this way, it appears to me that your brother has worked (but is not now working) temporarily and that he does not get any heavy salary (which means to me that your brother's earnings, if any, are very low.). In today's conditions, even the poorest of the Tamil Brahmin homes will not like to give their daughter in marriage to such a boy because our community (jaathi) is suffering from a great shortage of girls. Therefore, unless you/your brother try and succeed in getting a steady and good income, either from service or from business, etc., it is not easy to get a tamil brahmin girl.

I can mention two real cases which may tell you better about the marriage situation for boys in our tamil brahmin community; if you are not a brahmin, then please skip the rest of this post.

One boy with CA qualification and very good income from his (father's) hotel business, plus his own CA practice, had to marry a girl from an extremely poor family somewhere in TN. At the time of marriage this girl looked very rustic and she did not even know rudimentary English words. Now, some years after the marriage, she looks an entirely different, fashionable, woman and is enjoying the fleet of 3 cars and all the money, income and pelf of her husband's family. One good thing we hear is that she behaves with very good respect for her in-laws although her FIL has been a reputed cook (not well educated) and her MIL is equally of low education and all the old world notions, beliefs and superstitions.

One boy with SSLC pass after many attempts and not being able to even pick up cooking from his elder brothers (who are caterers) had to earn something by being a server of food in feasts, buffet parties etc., coming to his brothers' contract as also other well-known caterers. Since a brahmin girl of any kind could not be arranged for him despite vigorous efforts by his brothers, he had to finally marry (when he was 43 years old) a girl from goldsmith caste
— arranged marriage, of course.
 
Shri Mani,

From what you say, it is clear that you have finished doing all the parihaarams suggested for your poorva janma dosham by the josyar whom you consulted. Hence we should take it that the poorva janma dosham chapter is closed.

The girl and her family will not normally go into your horoscope and find out poorva janma dosham etc.; rather, they will look at the present picture and like to assess somewhat about the medium-term future. When I consider your/your brother's case in this way, it appears to me that your brother has worked (but is not now working) temporarily and that he does not get any heavy salary (which means to me that your brother's earnings, if any, are very low.). In today's conditions, even the poorest of the Tamil Brahmin homes will not like to give their daughter in marriage to such a boy because our community (jaathi) is suffering from a great shortage of girls. Therefore, unless you/your brother try and succeed in getting a steady and good income, either from service or from business, etc., it is not easy to get a tamil brahmin girl.

I can mention two real cases which may tell you better about the marriage situation for boys in our tamil brahmin community; if you are not a brahmin, then please skip the rest of this post.

One boy with CA qualification and very good income from his (father's) hotel business, plus his own CA practice, had to marry a girl from an extremely poor family somewhere in TN. At the time of marriage this girl looked very rustic and she did not even know rudimentary English words. Now, some years after the marriage, she looks an entirely different, fashionable, woman and is enjoying the fleet of 3 cars and all the money, income and pelf of her husband's family. One good thing we hear is that she behaves with very good respect for her in-laws although her FIL has been a reputed cook (not well educated) and her MIL is equally of low education and all the old world notions, beliefs and superstitions.

One boy with SSLC pass after many attempts and not being able to even pick up cooking from his elder brothers (who are caterers) had to earn something by being a server of food in feasts, buffet parties etc., coming to his brothers' contract as also other well-known caterers. Since a brahmin girl of any kind could not be arranged for him despite vigorous efforts by his brothers, he had to finally marry (when he was 43 years old) a girl from goldsmith caste
— arranged marriage, of course.
sangomji
manaivi amaivadalam deivam kodutha varam- acording to one tamil film song.lol
 
actually it is a catch 22 situation . specially for girls.

many would like to get married as they are unable to get jobs based on their academic records

they cannot get married if they do not have jobs .

most boys like marrying girls with jobs

My close relation -a brother whose daughters were not graduates faced this

They had remained at home doing nothing after school finals

my solution - first doctor biodata getting experience certificate for blank periods



collect job from a contact with own company to give an administrative job with a fancy title

get them married with these qual.

after marriage ,they became excellant housewives servicing husband and traditional in laws. they gave up their jobs promptly objective achieved,lol

one has to be pragmatic in living

the boy who has a similar issue can do the same thing . float a business and claim or get some income

marry a working girl with steady income

if he has enterprise ,expand his business with her income

his wife can be an angel investor in his business.lol
 
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Respected Sir,

First thanks ...
need more guidance and tips. when will develop in life?

we have both post graduate.

day by day we hve find it... all the matter failure.


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mani



Since both are Post Graduates, why don't you both take tuition for students for nominal tuition fees? More students will join. But you must be very serious in taking classes and show good results.

I have come across Chartered Accountants conducting tuition very successfully for CA students - beginners, Inter and Final.

But it seems rather surprising to note that two Post Graduates have more faith in Parigarams and other poojas and punaskarams, contacting astrologers, instead of looking at the problems practically.

You may try this option, if you don't find any permanent jobs, and inform the outcome. Definitely you will succeed.
 
I am resisting my temptation to start a venture employing many who are finding it difficult to cope with lifes" simple challenges to be called " Inabilities Incorporated" make a million;

these boys are post graduates. there was another - An IT professional experienced but unemployed for years who was posting disguised as a lady to beat his boredom in this forum

these require genuine help . they cannot turn their talent , experience into money thru productive work'

life is harsh to them .

senior citizens can definitely help them by employing them instead of going to temples and burying themself in religion'

why not?
 
I am resisting my temptation to start a venture employing many who are finding it difficult to cope with lifes" simple challenges to be called " Inabilities Incorporated" make a million;

these boys are post graduates. there was another - An IT professional experienced but unemployed for years who was posting disguised as a lady to beat his boredom in this forum

these require genuine help . they cannot turn their talent , experience into money thru productive work'

life is harsh to them .

senior citizens can definitely help them by employing them instead of going to temples and burying themself in religion'

why not?

Great Krishji..You have my blessings! Turning around idle men's brain is the best thing ever! We have to teach some entrepreneurship for our TB folks!
 
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