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Animals appear to have solved this problem well. In the animal Kingdom, perhaps one is considered, less than being a respectable animal if he remains loyal to one counterpart.

They have no worry about properties to be bequethed.(Even dogs set up their kingdoms by peeing on the four corners of a defined area only temporarily to be abandoned quickly).

They have no worries about the illegitimacy or legitimacy of their children.

They have thus no discipline load. They have only the hormone load. LOL.


True...well said.

That is why sometimes when I drive to work and if my gaze happens to fall upon any dog on the road..at times there is a slight tinge of envy in my gaze..thinking "dogs have the best life"..unlike us humans who are bound by so many rules and regulations.

That too a street dog is the best..cos he has no master..he/she is verily King/Queen.
 
Does emotion relate only to men and not women? Do women not engage in love affairs, in which emotion plays a major part.

It depends on the mode a person chooses to be when engaging in an affair.

One can choose to be in 'detached' mode and emotions do not come into play ..so there can be full concentration in action.
 
True...well said.

That is why sometimes when I drive to work and if my gaze happens to fall upon any dog on the road..at times there is a slight tinge of envy in my gaze..thinking "dogs have the best life"..unlike us humans who are bound by so many rules and regulations.

That too a street dog is the best..cos he has no master..he/she is verily King/Queen.
renukaji
what makes you think that street dogs have no rules and regulation. . there are groups of them protecting their own

territory from rival gangs. in my colony , I have a black group and a a brown group who fight each other.

any person who brings a dog on a leash for walk is fiercely greeted by these street dog gangs. if a dog litters , it

protects its children and it is impossiblre even for humans to walk on these bylanes where they roam around freely.

it is truly a life decided by stray dogs for those going for an early morning walk in delhi
 
it is truly a life decided by stray dogs for those going for an early morning walk in delhi

see what I mean..as a dog we get to decide who to bite and who not to bite.

As a human even if we want to bite..we have to flash a smile instead.

Dogs get to be themselves..we humans have to modify our actions according to our surroundings.

So DOGS rule!

I am born in the Chinese Zodiac The Year of the Dog..may be that is why I admire dogs.
 
I have a lady in my extended family who is a dog lover.

She has three of them at her home

She preferred to keep them instead of her inlaws who did not accept her initially due to religion issues .[she is a

syrian christian trying to be a hindu after marriage]

she picks up even stray dogs sometimes from roads and takes them home.

Over a period of time she has started even treating her husband like a pet dog so much so he has developed some

dog like qualities.He is totally devoted to her. Consults her on every small thing he does.

be a dog and enjoy all pleasures of life.lol
 
I have a lady in my extended family who is a dog lover.

She has three of them at her home

She preferred to keep them instead of her inlaws who did not accept her initially due to religion issues .[she is a

syrian christian trying to be a hindu after marriage]

she picks up even stray dogs sometimes from roads and takes them home.

Over a period of time she has started even treating her husband like a pet dog so much so he has developed some

dog like qualities.He is totally devoted to her. Consults her on every small thing he does.

be a dog and enjoy all pleasures of life.lol

I love dogs too..when I was teen I had two dogs and I gave them some happening exotic names.

One was Ugo Wooly Jingleberry and the other was Speedy Ramos Gonzales.

But now as an adult I do not have dogs cos I lead a busy working life and no time for dogs.

Dogs are like family..we need to pay them attention too.

So if one has no time to pay them attention..it is not fair to keep a dog.

Also the local council area I stay in has a weird rule that both side neighbours need to consent to a person keeping a dog.

If no consent from neighbours we cant keep a dog..anyway I do not have time for a dog..may be when I am retired and much older I might get a Pit Bull!
 
They are independant working women with some spare time looking for

Mr Right for a relationship. They have set very

high standards for men modelled after cine heros -SRK etc.

Women who set very high standads for getting Mr.Right and Men who set very high standards for getting Mrs.Right will always be searching ,flirting , dating but will never end up marrying LOL
 
Women who set very high standads for getting Mr.Right and Men who set very high standards for getting Mrs.Right will always be searching ,flirting , dating but will never end up marrying LOL
this is a huge misconception.

these types may end up marrying more than once continuing the search for the right person.

when right turns out to be wrong after marriage, the wrongs are righted in the next attempt
 
Lo! By calling me uncle, mama and mams you have made me feel older. And you have become quite young. LOL. Anyway I have to be careful. Age has thrust on me a responsibility. So tell me young girl. If you are not married I have a nephew who is looking for a suitable match for marrying. I can introduce.

and what is a spring chicken? I really do not know. LOL

I want to make you feel younger - so calling you Big Bro now!
That expression about spring chicken - only Google god can help you (not Vishnu).

And by the way, monkey is your avatar, so the expression I used about monkey may fit to convey a meaning. But no young girl will ever write what the expression could also mean Big Bro! Again google god can come to your rescue - you will blush and LOL when you get it!

Forget match making business, Big Bro. That you can do when you are called a Thatha
 
I want to make you feel younger - so calling you Big Bro now!
That expression about spring chicken - only Google god can help you (not Vishnu).

And by the way, monkey is your avatar, so the expression I used about monkey may fit to convey a meaning. But no young girl will ever write what the expression could also mean Big Bro! Again google god can come to your rescue - you will blush and LOL when you get it!

Forget match making business, Big Bro. That you can do when you are called a Thatha

Hello a-TB oldie maami!

I googled. I will ask my nephew whether he wants to have a paatti at home. LOL.
 
Hello a-TB oldie maami!

I googled. I will ask my nephew whether he wants to have a paatti at home. LOL.
dear vaagmiji
this kind of dialogs with youngsters are in poor taste.

equally bad are posts of the junior member.

I suggest both stop engaging with each other if they cannot have a civil debate.

I feel bad for both.

thanks. I hope I would not be misunderstood
 
dear vaagmiji
this kind of dialogs with youngsters are in poor taste.

equally bad are posts of the junior member.

I suggest both stop engaging with each other if they cannot have a civil debate.

I feel bad for both.

thanks. I hope I would not be misunderstood

Krishji,
I hope it is taken in the right spirit.

I do not understand Vagmiji, I had in run-in with him on another thread.
 
dear vaagmiji
this kind of dialogs with youngsters are in poor taste.

equally bad are posts of the junior member.

I suggest both stop engaging with each other if they cannot have a civil debate.

I feel bad for both.

thanks. I hope I would not be misunderstood

Mr Krish44

I hope you will stop posting condescending messages. You are not appointed for any role and you have not earned any special status by the kind of posts you do here.

In the small time I have been here you have been called out for anything but civil posts. Many times!! People know your inconsistency and questionable posts.

Mr Vaagmi has been actually a good sport. It was just a humorous exchange, that is all.

Your posts constantly gravitate towards topics of free sex, male-female relations and by your admission you are in your 70s! I am actually surprised with your posts.

Your posts were called out a few months ago (Mr KRN? - I may be wrong but it was long thread).

Your posts for your age are in very poor taste.
I can call attention to many more of your posts but I will refrain from doing it.

First start engaging in civil posts yourself, act your age in your posts and be an example.

In the future stop advising others.
 
Mr Krish44

I hope you will stop posting condescending messages. You are not appointed for any role and you have not earned any special status by the kind of posts you do here.

In the small time I have been here you have been called out for anything but civil posts. Many times!! People know your inconsistency and questionable posts.

Mr Vaagmi has been actually a good sport. It was just a humorous exchange, that is all.

Your posts constantly gravitate towards topics of free sex, male-female relations and by your admission you are in your 70s! I am actually surprised with your posts.

Your posts were called out a few months ago (Mr KRN? - I may be wrong but it was long thread).

Your posts for your age are in very poor taste.
I can call attention to many more of your posts but I will refrain from doing it.

First start engaging in civil posts yourself, act your age in your posts and be an example.

In the future stop advising others.
noted.
thanks for yr suggestions
with best wishes
 
dear vaagmiji
this kind of dialogs with youngsters are in poor taste.

equally bad are posts of the junior member.

I suggest both stop engaging with each other if they cannot have a civil debate.

I feel bad for both.

thanks. I hope I would not be misunderstood

Dear Mr. Krish 44,

People who are past 50(at least some of them) here perhaps come with an extremely poor sense of humor. It is okay. But when they exhibit that deficiency with elan and go further to advise others it becomes the story of "emperor without clothes". People do not come out and point out the poor taste because of respect and age. So your assessment of "poor taste", "bad posts", "uncivil debate" etc., are all really in poor taste. you have no reason to feel bad at all. It is just a question of your attitude. There is absolutely no misunderstanding of you. I have understood you pretty well and that is why this post. The proof of the pudding is in the eating. Your case is miserably lost because the other party to the conversation has herself told you plainly that it is just an exchange of humour. If I appear to be harsh at all it is unintentional. Let us continue to transact. And I firmly retain my right to continue with my style of posting because I am quick to see the funnier side of life and its episodes. LOL.
 
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Krishji,
I hope it is taken in the right spirit.

I do not understand Vagmiji, I had in run-in with him on another thread.

prasadji,

Don't take everything too seriously. If at the end of the day after a conversation with me you go to sleep laughing and telling yourself that "here is a kirukku whose posts entertain me no end" I will be the happiest soul on earth.
zara drishtikone ko bathalaayiye. fir aap samajenge zindagi kithna sundar hai aur firdous bi yaaheen hai-aur kaheen nahin.
 
dear a TB ,Good to find people who would like to engage and try changing others.

at least you have a basic desire that others around you should change.

whether your desire gets fulfilled will depend on the other persons need to change and engage further to carry

forward the relationship.

most older persons are happy with the way they are, even if you think their behaviour does not fit their age.

this is the nature of changing times we are living in.

the way our parents lived when they were seventy is different from 70 year old of today.

it is primarily because life expectancy has gone up.

older people still like to get more out of life.

once the responsibilities of settling youngsters is over they start doing what they genuinely like to do though it might

be inappropriate as per your perceptions.

similarly youngsters of today are different from young about fifty years back. they like to set their own goals, be

independant and challenging.

they would not like to be sermonised by others however elder he might be.

some of your hopes you have for me may not be fulfilled. I may not be able to raise to your expectations .

with best wishes
 
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Dear Mr. Krish 44,

People who are past 50(at least some of them) here perhaps come with an extremely poor sense of humor. It is okay. But when they exhibit that deficiency with elan and go further to advise others it becomes the story of "emperor without clothes". People do not come out and point out the poor taste because of respect and age. So your assessment of "poor taste", "bad posts", "uncivil debate" etc., are all really in poor taste. you have no reason to feel bad at all. It is just a question of your attitude. There is absolutely no misunderstanding of you. I have understood you pretty well and that is why this post. The proof of the pudding is in the eating. Your case is miserably lost because the other party to the conversation has herself told you plainly that it is just an exchange of humour. If I appear to be harsh at all it is unintentional. Let us continue to transact. And I firmly retain my right to continue with my style of posting because I am quick to see the funnier side of life and its episodes. LOL.
vaagmiji
both you and the youngster seem to be enjoying the banter and liking each others post.

so I think intervention was not called for.

I thought , the youngster was perhaps facing a formidable mind with high intellect and it was an unequal transaction.

wish you and the young member many more such transactions which both seem to enjoy
 
vaagmiji
both you and the youngster seem to be enjoying the banter and liking each others post.

so I think intervention was not called for.

I thought , the youngster was perhaps facing a formidable mind with high intellect and it was an unequal transaction.

wish you and the young member many more such transactions which both seem to enjoy

krishji,

There you go again. LOL. The conversation between me and aTB are not enjoyed by us alone, it is enjoyed by many others in this forum too. I intend to continue to have such transactions with many other members too. Thank you.
 
What the...

Hey I am enjoying the fun between Vaagmi Ji and a-TB..it is very entertaining.

Dont stop..carry on please.


I might want to join too!LOL

BTW its nice to see yet again and again Krish Ji and Vaagmi ji kiss and make up..so chweeeeeeeeeeeeeet.
 
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Mr Krish44

I hope you will stop posting condescending messages. You are not appointed for any role and you have not earned any special status by the kind of posts you do here.

In the small time I have been here you have been called out for anything but civil posts. Many times!! People know your inconsistency and questionable posts.

Mr Vaagmi has been actually a good sport. It was just a humorous exchange, that is all.

Your posts constantly gravitate towards topics of free sex, male-female relations and by your admission you are in your 70s! I am actually surprised with your posts.

Your posts were called out a few months ago (Mr KRN? - I may be wrong but it was long thread).

Your posts for your age are in very poor taste.
I can call attention to many more of your posts but I will refrain from doing it.

First start engaging in civil posts yourself, act your age in your posts and be an example.

In the future stop advising others.


Dear a-TB,

I know this post is not directed to me but some how I like your posts and also the posts of Krish ji.

Both of you are different yet entertaining.

Krish ji is one the most entertaining members here cos his topics range from fun to hard core controversy.

Age is hardly a matter here for anyone of us..even at the age of 80 one can be free to write like a teenager.

Recently I happened to know about 2 married people who are having an extra marital affair and both are in the early 60's.

Both of them are behaving like lovey dovey teens and it was actually nice to see a 60 plus couple fall in love again even though its an extra marital affair.

So life comes with lots of surprises and as some of us age we might actually be a strange case of Benjamin Button when it comes to our mind.

Keep up your good posts too..I enjoyed the lively exchange between you and Vaagmi ji.

Your wise posts reminds me a little of some member who hardly visits now.

I guess great minds think alike.
 
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