Personally, I find the ritual based brahminism, as practised by overwhelming tambrams, as bankrupt empty rituals, without meaning understood, half baked and at the most a socio economic set of [COLOR=#DA7911 !important][COLOR=#DA7911 !important]actions[/COLOR][/COLOR], intent to appease an uneasy guilty mind.
But that is a deliberate decision they came on their own, and not due to any hand me down, rituals, baptism or indoctrination. Such folks, I think, are the flowers of our society, for they not only should wake us up, to our own practises, but should serve as catalyst, for us believers to introspect our own practices, faith, and above all our sincerety.
These are the products of the failure of theism to satisfy. That fact alone should alert to us our faults and shortcomings. Let us not cover these with anger, arrogance and above all group lynching. It does not show us believers in good light. We become yet another intolerant and indiscriminate mob. I am sure we can present a better front and case than that.
the stain of varna and separation has been ingrained, in most of us tambrams since birth, and it takes more than an average effort and guts to walk away from it. ofcourse, for me, distance from india and especially tamil nadu, helps.
Personally, I have given up most rituals.That is my Hinduism, and I am content with it. Casteless. Simple. Something for my children to follow. If they wish.
We tambrams, the only Brahmin group in whole of india, to cast and group all other hindu folks into one whole mass and get away with it.
these harp on the same ideals, and will even agree with you here. come in practise, and verify if you get to drink in the same tumbler. i have seen it happen in the best of my friends. hence i parted company with them on many many matters, and now i dont hesitate to speak out. most times.
Just Classic!