:lol: I continued with 'the return of K - - - - which rhymes well!!With the Return of the Brahmin
will there be the
Return of the sikha,
the return of the beard,
the return of the kadukkan,
the return of the soman,
the return of the turban??? :noidea:
When the wife does all the work for free her husband must
start depositing some money in her name every month.
With the Return of the Brahmin
will there be the
Return of the sikha,
the return of the beard,
the return of the kadukkan,
the return of the soman,
the return of the turban??? :noidea:
Do you have a secret account for your special needs?My salary account has always been joint account. But my wife has her own salary account. Smooth so far.
:lol: I continued with 'the return of K - - - - which rhymes well!!
My salary account has always been joint account. But my wife has her own salary account. Smooth so far.
May be with fashion conscious brahmins;
Do you have a secret account for your special needs?
just curious
Do you have a secret account for your special needs?
just curious
With the Return of the Brahmin
will there be the
Return of the sikha,
the return of the beard,
the return of the kadukkan,
the return of the soman,
the return of the turban???
Real women's lib! :thumb:My salary account has always been joint account. But my wife has her own salary account. Smooth so far.
Sikha was not brahmin. In my village every goldsmith and carpenter had not only shikha but also poonool.
Beard was not brahmin. It was just a growth on the lower jaw for all males in my village. some meticulously fought with it in a losing battle and some ignored it so it grew.
Kadukkan was not brahmin as my teacher Easwaran Pillai s/o Manikkam pillai, a saivapillai was wearing kadukkan like many others in my village who were not brahmins.
Soman was common (rhyming not unintentional) among all males in my village. Nothing special about it with brahmins.
Turban was not brahmin. The photo of Pachayappa Mudaliyar in the Pachaiyappa's trust in Chennai shows him wearing turban. Many other rich men of that age wore turban to pack the tuft that they had.
And the unwritten k------n was not brahmin. It was a piece of cloth worn by all males irrespective of caste and age. In fact sastras say any man without a kadisutra (which holds the k.....n in place) is considered nagnan (naked) even if he wears clothes on himself to cover himself fully.
It is rightly said: aaL paadhi aadai paadhi!Kachcham, kudumi, kadukkan and kaupeen was a common code for all. Poonal was worn by carpenters, goldsmiths and many other than brahmin communities. Even now many communities wear poonal during shubha and ashuba occasions.
Most TB families are Meenakshi families . Very few are Nataraja families.Real women's lib! :thumb:
Dear RR ji and VR ji,
Why are you both supporting bearded images of males? Do you really want the beard to make a comeback?
I have nothing against anyone but beards are messy!
Once I attended a meeting where a Sardar ji doc was having his meals and talking to me and food was getting stuck on his beard.
It was not a nice sight and I really wanted to run and was trying to escape being at that table but he would not stop talking to me and I had to sit thru the meal.
Clean shaven is still the best.
Kachcham, kudumi, kadukkan and kaupeen was a common code for all. Poonal was worn by carpenters, goldsmiths and many other than brahmin communities. Even now many communities wear poonal during shubha and ashuba occasions.
It is rightly said: aaL paadhi aadai paadhi!
Proof:
In the following picture is a man with a beard, kachcham and probablya kaupeen too! :spy:
Can we ever say he is a brahmin, even if he sports a tuft or wears a kadukkan? :decision:
Picture courtesy: Google images
Most TB families are Meenakshi families . Very few are Nataraja families.
Have you heard of this terminology used in brahmin families?
I understand families where lady calls the shots are called meenakshi families and those where men rule are nataraja families.
Some TB educated me on this.lol
VRjiUsually they ask " Unga veedu Madhuraiyaa Chidmbaramaa"???
Well Meenakshi was born a princess and became a queen later.
Sundareswar became a king ONLY because he married Meenaakshi.
That should make a difference right???
She is in her own native place, in her own palace, with her parents
-just like some of the smart brahmin girls TRY to do nowadays.
This poor 'Seedhaa Saadha Somasundar' will eventually be made
to become a 'Saadhaa Sunder' or a 'Sodhaa Sundar.' :tsk:
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