I wonder why little girls always want to be Princesses and young woman always dream of marrying a Prince!
The truth is only a Royal should marry a Royal cos they lead such restrictive lives and how the heck will a commoner adjust with all that?
Imagine if one marries a Prince and becomes a Princess one can not sit simply sit at any simple shop or just walk on the road cos that would break protocol.
One has to wine and dine only in select areas.
Life would be so boring..its like losing freedom.
And frankly speaking there is nothing really extra special about a Royal.
True! women out there do not get killed since
they do NOT RESIST the inevitable rape!
So the issue boils down to
your virtue alone ??? OR
your virtue + your liffe??? :wacko:
Dear VR ji,
In such situations where one has no chance of escaping that is when one needs to use discretion.
The risk of being killed is higher if one fights back fiercely.
I am not saying that one should just not fight back but if the rapist is too strong to overpower or he has a weapon..one needs to think about not fighting back in order to live.
Virtue is never lost even if one is raped..cos Virtue is more than just out body..its a state of mind.
But out here many years ago in Msia there was a rape case where a man had entered a woman's car and forced her at knife point and raped her.
He told her that he would not kill her if she did not resists..fearing her life she did not resist but after raping her he stabbed her to death and burnt her body.
He told in court he changed his mind after raping her and killed her cos he feared he would get caught if she reported him.
So its really hard to say how a criminal's mind works.
Dear VR ji,
Some many years ago too there was a case where some men broke into a house to steal but when they saw the daughter of the house they wanted to rape her.
The girl was alone with her mother as her father had gone outstation..fearing her daughters safety the mother pleaded to leave the daughter alone.
The criminals agreed under one condition that they would rape the mother instead.
So the mother agreed to that condition and allowed herself to be raped by them and they spared her daughter.
The woman fortunately had a very understanding husband who felt that his wife had done the ultimate sacrifice to save her daughter.
Dear Renu,
I bet he wanted a warm and unresisting body for satisfying himself.
Dealing with a ferocious fighter will mar the fun.
Dealing with a dead body will be even worse.
So he enjoyed raping the live body,
put out the flame of her life and
put a live flame on her body!
In any case he wants to live on and on...
unreported, uncaught and unpunished!
I wonder what she had done to desrve this kind of cruel end!