Think or sink!

[Visalakshi Ramani]

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Recently Donald Trump apologized for the words he spoke.

Words must be under our control and not the other way.

Long long ago vaLLuvar has said this to the entire word! :hail:

குறள் 127:

யாகாவா ராயினும் நாகாக்க காவாக்கால்
சோகாப்பர் சொல்லிழுக்குப் பட்டு.
​

கலைஞர் உரை:

ஒருவர் எதைக் காத்திட முடியாவிட்டாலும் நாவையாவது அடக்கிக் காத்திட வேண்டும். இல்லையேல் அவர் சொன்ன சொல்லே அவர் துன்பத்துக்குக் காரணமாகி விடும்.
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மு.வ உரை:

காக்க வேண்டியவற்றுள் எவற்றைக் காக்கா விட்டாலும் நாவையாவது காக்க வேண்டு்ம்; காக்கத் தவறினால் சொற்குற்றத்தில் அகப்பட்டுத் துன்புறுவர்.
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சாலமன் பாப்பையா உரை:

எதைக் காக்க முடியாதவரானாலும் நா ஒன்றையாவது காத்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும். முடியாது போனால் சொல்குற்றத்தில் சிக்கித் துன்பப்படுவர்.​

பரிமேலழகர் உரை:

யாகாவாராயினும் நாகாக்க - தம்மால் காக்கப்படுவன எல்லாவற்றையும் காக்க மாட்டாராயினும் நாவொன்றனையும் காக்க, காவாக்கால் சொல் இழுக்குப்பட்டுச் சோகாப்பர் - அதனைக் காவாராயின் சொல் இழுக்குப்பட்டுச் சோகாப்பர் - அதனைக் காவாராயின் சொற்குற்றத்தின்கண் பட்டுத் தாமே துன்புறுவர். ('யா' என்பது அஃறிணைப் பன்மை வினாப்பெயர். அஃது ஈண்டு எஞ்சாமை உணர நின்றது. முற்று உம்மை விகாரத்தால் தொக்கது. சொற்குற்றம் - சொல்லின்கண் தோன்றும் குற்றம். 'அல்லாப்பர்செம்மாப்பர்' என்பன போலச் 'சோகாப்பர்' என்பது ஒரு சொல்.).​

மணக்குடவர் உரை:

எல்லாவற்றையும் அடக்கிலராயினும் நாவொன்றினையும் அடக்குக: அதனை அடக்காக்காற் சொற்சோர்வுபட்டுத் தாமே சோகிப்பா ராதலான். இது சோகத்தின்மாட்டே பிணிக்கப் படுவரென்பது.​

Translation:

Whate'er they fail to guard, o'er lips men guard should keep;
If not, through fault of tongue, they bitter tears shall weep.​

Explanation:

Whatever besides you leave unguarded, guard your tongue; otherwise errors of speech and the consequent misery will ensue.

http://www.thirukkural.com/2009/01/blog-post_3155.html


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[Janaki Jambunathan]

குறள் : 645
சொல்லுக சொல்லைப் பிறிதோர்சொல் அச்சொல்லை
வெல்லுஞ்சொல் இன்மை அறிந்து.
விளக்கவுரை

சாலமன் பாப்பையா உரை:
தாம் சொல்லும் சொல்லை வெல்ல, வேறொரு சொல் இல்லை என்பதை அறிந்து சொல்லுக.
மு.வரததாசனார் உரை :
வேறோரு சொல் அந்தச் சொல்லை வெல்லும் சொல்லாக இல்லாதிருந்தால் அறிந்த பிறகே சொல்லக்கருதியதைச் சொல்லவேண்டும்.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

காவிய நாயகி

காவிய நாயகி மிகவும் அழகி!
நாயகியின் தோழி அறிவாளி!!

அழகி நாயகியாகத் தான் இருக்கவேண்டும்.
அறிவாளி தோழியாகத் தான் இருக்க வேண்டும்.

அழகியை அனைவரும் தாங்குவார்.
அறிவாளி அனைவரையும் தாங்குவார்.

Handsome people get served.
Brainy people serve the others.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Man vs Woman

I guess it is easy to understand a man
but impossible to love him immensely.

On the other hand it is easy to love a woman
but impossible to understand her!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

A son and his father

Many sons do NOT get along well with their father. hwell:

I overheard a loving son talking to his mother :kev:


referring to his father as “your husband!” all the time. :wacko:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

laughter the best medicine...

https://youtu.be/rcfBAVolJkk

Attachments area

Preview YouTube video The Pink Panther in "Pink Pictures"

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

Very Interesting.

Can you give the post number please?
Just to make sure whether it is due for
அப்பப்பா? OR அச்சச்சாே !! OR அய்யையாே!!

Hope no one will dare to brand this also as மயிரிழை ஆராய்ச்சி!

4. அச்சோ => பதற்றம், இரக்கம்.

8. அப்பப்பா => வியப்பு, இரக்கம்.

அய்யையாே - அதிர்ச்சி - Interesting!

விரிவான ஆராய்ச்சி shows அப்பப்பா அச்சச்சாே mean same இரக்கம்

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

After watching this cartoon we can appreciate the captivating Nature's photos all the more! :clap2:

https://in.news.yahoo.com/the-spect...78/photo-piercing-headache-1471600184403.html

 

[renuka]

Man vs Woman

I guess it is easy to understand a man
but impossible to love him immensely.

On the other hand it is easy to love a woman
but impossible to understand her!

What is so hard to love a man?

They are quite straight forward isnt it?

Its we females who have a convoluted mind!LOL

 

[renuka]

Dear VR ji,

A female friend of mine from my college is a woman of substance kind.
Capable..does not play dumb on any occasion. Sees herself as an intellectual equal to any male and makes it known too.


Ok..she had some problem relating to health and wanted an opinion from another friend who is dealing with such cases.

She text him but did not get a response.

So she asked my help to text him too saying she needed to get in touch with him.

So I asked her..."What did you text"

She said 'Get back to me as soon as possible..need to discuss my case with you"


I told her..let me text him..see reply will come in 5 minutes.

He replied her asking what was the problem.

My friend asked me.."what did you text him that he called up in 5 mins"

I said I wrote "Hi..so and so needs your expert opinion regarding her health matter..please call her...we only have faith in your ability and not anyone else"


She said OMG!

I said..see its easy to get men to do jobs for you..just praise them!LOL

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

RENU

What is so hard to love a man?

They are quite straight forward isnt it?

Its we females who have a convoluted mind!LOL

Dear Renu,
You are right!
Men are logical and practical and perfectly understandable. :thumb:
But most men have some irritating habits from the infinite number
of irritating habits that make it difficult to love them immensely!
I myself prefer the intellectual, logical and unbiased company or men.
But they always lack some finesse in some aspect!
May be this is true of the limited circle of men I know!
Females are lovable since they become like pets to men.
Again all females are NOT loved by their men - as much they would like to be!

 

[renuka]

RENU


Again all females are NOT loved by their men - as much they would like to be!

Dear VR ji,

But who wants to be constantly loved by the same person too?

As long he does not get too suffocating its fine!LOL

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

A female friend of mine from my college is a woman of substance kind.
Capable..does not play dumb on any occasion. Sees herself as an intellectual equal to any male and makes it known too.


Ok..she had some problem relating to health and wanted an opinion from another friend who is dealing with such cases.

She text him but did not get a response.

So she asked my help to text him too saying she needed to get in touch with him.

So I asked her..."What did you text"

She said 'Get back to me as soon as possible..need to discuss my case with you"


I told her..let me text him..see reply will come in 5 minutes.

He replied her asking what was the problem.

My friend asked me.."what did you text him that he called up in 5 mins"

I said I wrote "Hi..so and so needs your expert opinion regarding her health matter..please call her...we only have faith in your ability and not anyone else"


She said OMG!

I said..see its easy to get men to do jobs for you..just praise them!LOL

Dear Renu,
So there are two subtle (and contradicting !) ways of making a man do difficult things.
1. By challenging him that the particular job is beyond his power!
2. By suggesting that he and NO ONE ELSE in the whole world is capable of doing that job!
Poor men... who think that they rule their women but are unaware
of the fact that they actually are the willing slaves of their women!

 

[renuka]

I myself prefer the intellectual, logical and unbiased company or men.

Dear VR ji,

Even though men are easy to understand and straight forward believe me its not as if they are intellectual,logical and unbiased all the time.

If they were... we females would not love them becos we would never understand them!LOL

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

But who wants to be constantly loved by the same person too?

As long he does not get too suffocating its fine!LOL

Dear Renu,

We too need elbow space and fresh whiffs of air

not to feel oppressed/ suppressed/ depressed!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,

Even though men are easy to understand and straight forward believe me its not as if they are intellectual,logical and unbiased all the time.

If they were... we females would not love them!

dear Renu,
In Devi Bhaagavatm Oorvasi tells Puruvars - the king madly in love with her - that
the affection a woman has for her man is similar to that a tiger has for a lamb! :wacko

 

[renuka]

dear Renu,
In Devi Bhaagavatm Oorvasi tells Puruvars - the king madly in love with her - that
the affection a woman has for her man is similar to that a tiger has for a lamb! :wacko

She was giving him a warning that he better behave himself otherwise he would be Biryani!LOL

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

She was giving him a warning that he better behave himself otherwise he would be Biryani!LOL

:rofl:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear Renu,
She actually warns him that she would leave him if ever she happens to see him stark naked.
She happens to see him naked in a streak of lightning due to the trick played by the gandharvas
and DOES leave him - reducing him to the state of a poor disturbed beggar from that of a ruler!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

laughter the best medicine...

https://youtu.be/W-qZA4FhHLs

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Preview YouTube video The Pink Panther in "Keep The Forests Pink"

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu,
She actually warns him that she would leave him if ever she happens to see him stark naked.
She happens to see him naked in a streak of lightning due to the trick played by the gandharvas
and DOES leave him - reducing him to the state of a poor disturbed beggar from that of a ruler!

Dear VR ji,

I read that before...may be size does matter after all..she left him after not being too happy with some dimensions that flashed in front of her eyes!LOL

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear Renu,
On the contrary nothing under the Sun is important by itself.
Things and people become IMPORTANT because we give them importance.
Left to themselves NOTHING is either important or unimportant to any of us!!
The rowdy son of a nice woman may mean NOTHING to the world but
he may mean the very world and in fact everything to her!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Vicious circle

வயிறு நிறைந்தால் தான் குழந்தை உறங்கும்!!!

உறங்கும்போது தான் feeding பாட்டில் பாலைக் குடிக்கும்!!!

“கல்யாணம் ஆனால் பைத்தியம் தெளியும்!

பைத்தியம் தெளிந்தால் கல்யாணம் ஆகும்!”

என்பதைப் போலவே இல்லை???

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

இது எப்படி இருக்கு?

(How to differentiate between these two cows?) :decision:

அவனுக்குக் கோபம் கோபமாக வந்தது! :mad2:

இப்படியா இரட்டைப் பிறவிகள் போல் இருக்கும்? :frusty:

ஒரே உயரம்! ஒரே மாதிரிக் கொம்புகள்!!

ஒரே மாதிரி வால்கள்! ஒரே மாதிரி திமில்கள்!!

நண்பன் கேட்டான் அவனிடம் கனிவுடன்,

“எதைப் பற்றி அலுத்துக் கொள்ளுகிறாய் நீ?”

அவன் சுட்டிக் காட்டியது என்ன தெரியுமா?

ஒரு காராம்பசு, ஒரு வெள்ளைப் பசு!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Happily married man!

Q: Who is a happily married man???

A : One whose behavior is the same

whether or not his wife is around!


Q: Who is a well bought up child???

A : One whose behavior is the same

whether or not its parents are around!