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Virginity Is Overrated

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renuka said:
Not really cos in prison one does not get to sleep in an AC room, cant have a personal gym at home like I do, Cant cook my gourmet meals..cant make various fruit/veg juices, cant use cosmetics,cant wear latest fashion. I cant stand the bright orange jumpsuit they give prisoners here.

So you see there is no way I will twist the neck of ethics...its almost impossible for prison to be like home.
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but what if they give you internet access with only tb.com website to browse...? I guess that would compensate for the lack, or, for the presence, of all the things you have mentioned above.
 
auh said:
but what if they give you internet access with only tb.com website to browse...? I guess that would compensate for the lack, or, for the presence, of all the things you have mentioned above.
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Come to think of it I only hang out in TB forum and no where else now!LOL
 
Virginity overrated - for people of both sexes who were virgins at marriage (and feel they missed all the fun).

Virginity is not overrated or underrated - for those who lost their virginity at an early age and truly believe in 'don't ask, don't tell, none of your business' policy

Virginity is important - for those who have slipped but later met their love of life and wish they had retained their vulnerable sense to this love - applies to both sexes. This is a very small group.

Virginity for wife is important - Males who are insecure and have double standards, want to make sure she is in the dark and his baby is indeed his baby.

Virginity is not good - for Females who are bold but stuck with a poor guy who is lost.
Accomplished artists, over-religious types, Professors and other knowledge workers could have used some school of learning. Most such females suffer in silence and proclaim 'Virginity is overrated' in forums - Lol
 
a-TB said:
Virginity overrated - for people of both sexes who were virgins at marriage (and feel they missed all the fun).

Virginity is not overrated or underrated - for those who lost their virginity at an early age and truly believe in 'don't ask, don't tell, none of your business' policy

Virginity is important - for those who have slipped but later met their love of life and wish they had retained their vulnerable sense to this love - applies to both sexes. This is a very small group.

Virginity for wife is important - Males who are insecure and have double standards, want to make sure she is in the dark and his baby is indeed his baby.

Virginity is not good - for Females who are bold but stuck with a poor guy who is lost.
Accomplished artists, over-religious types, Professors and other knowledge workers could have used some school of learning. Most such females suffer in silence and proclaim 'Virginity is overrated' in forums - Lol
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That's alright, but does virginity really exist?
 
a-TB said:
Virginity overrated - for people of both sexes who were virgins at marriage (and feel they missed all the fun).

Virginity is not overrated or underrated - for those who lost their virginity at an early age and truly believe in 'don't ask, don't tell, none of your business' policy

Virginity is important - for those who have slipped but later met their love of life and wish they had retained their vulnerable sense to this love - applies to both sexes. This is a very small group.

Virginity for wife is important - Males who are insecure and have double standards, want to make sure she is in the dark and his baby is indeed his baby.

Virginity is not good - for Females who are bold but stuck with a poor guy who is lost.
Accomplished artists, over-religious types, Professors and other knowledge workers could have used some school of learning. Most such females suffer in silence and proclaim 'Virginity is overrated' in forums - Lol
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Very well said!
 
auh said:
That's alright, but does virginity really exist?
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nope..it does not.

Its a perception.

  • Brahma satyam jagat mithya, jivo brahmaiva naparah
Translation: Brahman is the only truth, the world is unreal, and there is ultimately no difference between Brahman and individual self
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When only Brahman is real and the world in unreal...everything is just a perception..unreal..technically does not exists becos of its transient nature and the law of change.

Therefore virginity too is Mithya.
 
a-TB said:

Virginity is not good - for Females who are bold but stuck with a poor guy who is lost.
Accomplished artists, over-religious types, Professors and other knowledge workers could have used some school of learning. Most such females suffer in silence and proclaim 'Virginity is overrated' in forums - Lol
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That is they are bold and dumb hence stuck!

The truly "bold" are never stuck...others are hopelessly stuck on them.
 
A wrong notion that virginity is insisted only in India. I have very close American friends, not of India origin, who also prefer only virgin girls to marry. They date for a long time and physical intimacy of breaking virginity comes only when they finally decide to marry. We speak a lot but other developed country people silently follow without giving a great deal thought about it.
 
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ramjays2000 said:
A wrong notion that virginity is insisted only in India. I have very close American friends, not of India origin, who also prefer only virgin girls to marry. They date for a long time and physical intimacy of breaking virginity comes only when they finally decide to marry. We speak a lot but other developed country people silently follow without giving a great deal thought about it.
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Sir,
Your statement needs explanation with facts.
The Jihadi's are salivating at the prospect of getting 72 Virgins? Does it mean they are getting virgins?

This cultural emphasis on virginity hurts girls and women, placing undue emphasis on an existential state of "purity" rather than encouraging safe behavior. It's wrong that women and girls are treated as commodities of different values depending on their sexual experience. By continuing to prize virginity, Americans support a violent narrative about young women and sex, increasing the value of their sexual purity only to gain power by depriving them of it.

Read the post below to understand virginity.
http://women-virginity.blogspot.com/
 
Even in Oils Virginity seems to be overrated - Why Virgin Olive is preffered? Olive branch symbolic of Viginity? will cooking with non virgin Oil taste inferior?
 
In europe . women were made to wear chasity belts to protect their virginity and chastity centuries back.

women were made to feel they were property of men to be used for their own pleasure exclusively.

that mindset prevails even today in some men who lock their women home when they go to work in their offices.

I had a colleague ,a bengali who used to do that and boast about it in office.
 
krish44 said:
In europe . women were made to wear chasity belts to protect their virginity and chastity centuries back.

women were made to feel they were property of men to be used for their own pleasure exclusively.

that mindset prevails even today in some men who lock their women home when they go to work in their offices.

I had a colleague ,a bengali who used to do that and boast about it in office.
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A wife seldom cheats on her husband if her Mind,Body and Atma(MBA) is kept "satisfied" by him...same goes with a man..he seldom cheats if his MBA is satisfied.

So if a person suspects his/her spouse that only reflects guilt of not being up to the mark for their spouse.

So in yesteryears when men fought war in Europe..they were far away from home for months..so they feared their wives cheating on them...hence the chastity belt.

In the case of your Bengali colleague he was not fighting any war..but even for a few hours he was not confident of leaving his wife alone.

That just means the Bong did not measure up to keep the MBA of his wife satisfied.

Sometimes the lack of "dimensions" can make a man insecure.

BTW by locking his wife at home he forgot that a lover can always come in thru the roof!LOL
 
ramjays2000 said:
it is obvious; when oil is not virgin, it means it is adulterated. How can u expect an adulterated oil to be tasty?
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Virgin Oil means cold pressed oil.

Non Virgin oils(regular) means oil extracted not from the first press but after the olives are heated to express the residual oil.

Non Virgin(Regular) oil does not mean adulterated. Its just a difference in oil extraction.
 
renuka said:
A wife seldom cheats on her husband if her Mind,Body and Atma(MBA) is kept "satisfied" by him...same goes with a man..he seldom cheats if his MBA is satisfied.

So if a person suspects his/her spouse that only reflects guilt of not being up to the mark for their spouse.

So in yesteryears when men fought war in Europe..they were far away from home for months..so they feared their wives cheating on them...hence the chastity belt.

In the case of your Bengali colleague he was not fighting any war..but even for a few hours he was not confident of leaving his wife alone.

That just means the Bong did not measure up to keep the MBA of his wife satisfied.

Sometimes the lack of "dimensions" can make a man insecure.

BTW by locking his wife at home he forgot that a lover can always come in thru the roof!LOL
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BTW why wife cannot climb out thru the roof if given a helping hand from above.If the husband had been locking her up for years, she would have easily found a way out .

No one accepts such things unless there are some ways of circumventing it.

The mistakes people make is they think their wives are fools.

most of them manage better than husbands .

only they keep their talents hidden and make their men do everything as it suits them
 
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