Well there you go again too..again and again you choose to describe my opinions as sweeping statements when the truth is I might not be aware of some incidents where a Brahmana had stood up for a Dalit..so the onus is on you to "enlighten" me about such incidences which I might not be aware of and using words like "sweeping statements" is actually a sort of accusing tone.
You see if someone is saying something that is not correct..usually I try to guide the person to the right answer without making assumptions that the person is making a sweeping statement.
Elsewhere in Forum..someone was explaining a Mantra which was not correct according to Sanskrit rules of Grammar..I explained politely the correct answer without making the other person feel small in anyway..this is what is called Tact in dealing with others.
So its not really fair that you keep using the word Sweeping Statements on what I write.
Let me give you an example ..if it was me I would have worded my post like this:
Dear So and So..
I would like to kindly bring your attention that in the pasts there have been many Brahmanas who have stood up for Dalits..etc..I have provided the links for you to click on to read..may be you are under the impression that no one stood up for Dalits..so kindly read and share your opinion with me for further discussion.
You see that?? But you choose to keep saying Sweeping Statements non stop in a defensive manner as if I am moving around with a broom!LOL
Dr Renu
All forms of prejudices, discrimination and expression of such human weaknesses have their origin in generalizations.
Even the holocaust and genocide have roots in stereotyping and generalizations of Jews.
When the Hutus kill Tutsis and vice versa they do not see each other as people but representing a class with some prejudicial views about that class.
While the generalizations I may be pointing out in your posts are more benign compared to the examples above, they still form the basis for prejudice.
I like to be hard on the issues but not so on the people. Not withstanding what others feel about me - the poster with the nick tks - I have come to like people here even those that have called 'tks' names - I can only smile because it meant I must have written something to get a reaction.
In my professional life decades ago I took some courses which focused on human relations and prejudice. It was intense and ended up giving an insights into how we think thereby making us more mature hopefully.
You have a self image but your posts do not reflect that image consistently all the time. As a tit of tat you could say the same thing about me but that is not my point.
So let me continue being hard on the issue of generalization (aka prejudice you hold which may seem nonexistent to you).
In this post, you say the onus is on me to tell you about those few exception cases. I think that kind of thinking itself has serious issues.
Why should the onus is on me to correct your generalization? I am not representing any community here and I am not qualified to represent Brahmanas because I was born into a family of Brahmanas.
So by saying the onus is on me, you have in essence put me in a cage in your mind called "brahmanas" which means I have inherited various attributes from that generalization. You think therefore when I confront your posts I must have a narrow mind or changed or evolved etc
I grew up in Delhi and my parents provided tremendous flexibility during our childhood days. We were south indians at best and I was not aware of caste of most people I grew up with. During my IIT Kanpur days I knew people only as vegetarian and non veg students and nothing more.
I have been living for several decades in USA where people from all walks of life coexist and work together. I may be categorized as Asian American though I hardly know anything about the Japanese or Koreans though the system may lump me with Asians and Pacific Islanders.
Even within TB community here we hardly talk about caste. For example, I learnt that one of my close friend is actually born in an Iyengar family. It never came up in a discussion and it is actually just a trivia info at best.
My exposure to caste is only through the 'education' I received after I joined this forum. I was initially intrigued at the charges by the usual suspects then. I think many of these people who were spewing venom at any group including Brahmins have had personal issues.
So I am not representing Brahmanas to have the onus to inform and educate you anymore than any of the Brahmanas had the onus to change the caste related ignorance.
So my calling attention to your generalization is to ask you think about what you are writing and see if those are based on facts. You have complete freedom obviously to write anything like any of us provided they are within the forum rules. But if you care to live up to the self image you have about yourself, then research a bit whenever you make generalized statements in your posts. You are free to ignore this suggestion saying you have your own way of thinking.
I could have phrased the same message in a different manner like you suggested. I will try to do that in the future.