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Dear Kunjuppu,

1. My village home had a kollaipuram which was so vast that it covered a large area with many trees of the wild variety (it is a different story that I spent a lot of time observing the kappalchetty pakshi which used to beg of some imaginery kappalchetty to give it some thing. It used to cry out from a small body high decibel sounds which will sound like "kappalchetty, kudoo, kudoo". To this day I do not know what it was demanding/begging for. There are many such bits and pieces of ever green memories). So s*****ing was not a problem for us. There were no bhangis removing it either. It was the all pervading sun who used to take care of the waste in course of time. But I have observed manual scavenging in other agraharams where also I have lived for a short while. Moreover in our agraharam people used to go to the riverside in the evening and morning (some people) to attend to nature's call. They had trained their bowels to make a call only at the appointed time. So my agraharam house still carries only pleasant memories for me.

2. While my intention is not to enter into an argument on this , I would like to state just this: in rural tamilnadu the task of clearing the human waste is not assigned uniformly to one community though champions of human rights would like us to believe it that way. So generations of condemnation is just an invention by arm chair champions of underdogs. I do not subscribe to that as I know the villagers well.

3. Once that condemnation of a group is swept aside from our slate , it becomes clear that it was a feature of the history of a society. Like Europeans did not know how to take bath by getting into a river for long. At that very point of time Indian civilization was celebrating a bath in Ganga and Yamuna as holy experiences to be gone through. So dear friend, these are part of history. When I read the history I learn valuable lessons. I do not feel ashamed that my society has this as history. All societies , all civilizations in the world had such moments of condemnable practices-condemnable by today's standards, condemnable with all the developments that have happened in the interregnum. So I move on. I do not expect that kind of episodes to repeat themselves in today's world.


4. My village house did not have just a kollaipuram. It had a thinnai which was the refuge for itinerant families (food included), It had a nadai above which on the first floor a kudir existed which used to get filled up with paddy after every harvest. During the year whenever you want the paddy to be taken to the nearest ricemill for hulling, which was 2 miles way, you have to just open a small lid on the ceiling of this nadai and lo and behold, paddy will flow through the orifice due to gravity. So the nadai in the ground floor was always dark and there used to live my poochandi when I was a very young kid. Then Rezhy was the place where we used to have our unjal. It is lovely to have a unjal in your house. It is an experience for which there is no substitute. My mother used to sit on the unjal and used to sing கதி எனக்கு உன்னைத்தவிர வேறில்லை. பாலகோபாலா உன்னைத்தவிர வேறில்லை. பாற்கடல் சயனித்த பரமக்ருபாநிதியே, காக்க இது தருணம் கண்ணா நீ க்ருபை செய்வாய். உன்னை..... My grandma used to sit on it and recite the paasurams for me. Thaazhwaram was the place where cattle feed like punnaakku and paruththikottai used to get stored for the cows which were there in the kottil. Madappalli was the sAmrAjyam of my mother and her writ ran large inside that. She was an autocrat allowing no one any liberty to meddle with anything there. So friend, it was a wholesome experience. Please do not trivialize it by looking at the kollaipuram alone.

I can write more about this But I stop with this for the present as I have problems with my internet connection. Thank you.
thanks . I got more educated regarding indian rural life
I have stayed Tamil nadu rural homes in my native place near kumbakonam
1. open defecating in kollai with insects [ants etc]crawling up your legs is not a pleasant experience. there were no toilets of any sort
2i have enjoyed river bath in kaveri canals . that is a definitely great experience
3. house with kudir in side the house andlarge kitchens was a relief for the urban class . but we had only kerosene lights .rezhi and thinnai was best place for sitting and gossiping with neighbours. all the scandals were freely dissected and frequently if any measure of govt agencies hurt them ,they would blame it on kaliyug and destruction being not far off.
its ok to appreciate the rural life ifyou are there for a few days

In fact many travel fellows raking in a lot of moola selling rural tourism in kerala
 
thank you for your detailed explanation. looks like you come from a pretty rich family.

in my ancestral kalpathi kollai even though backing into bharatha pozhai, there was still this tin shed stuff. also in badagara where the madom had the same arrangment. twice a week cleaning if i remember right.

nowadays apparently everyone has flush toilets; but the septic tanks are so porous, that the ground water is ruined. also, the solid wastes from the septic tank is not processed, but dumped outside badagara, causing more problems for people. honestly i dont know what the thottis did with all the stuff they gathered. :)

Dear Kunjuppu,

In a country where Rs.1,76,000 crores (that is a whopping Rs.17,60,00,00,00,000- I counted the zeroes twice before posting) worth of intangible assets of a Govt is, just like that, given free to powerfull corporates by a minister for a certain percentage in return as bribe, our family was the poorest of the poor by those standards. We were contented with what we had and we were one of the happy families in the village.
 
Dear Kunjuppu,

In a country where Rs.1,76,000 crores (that is a whopping Rs.17,60,00,00,00,000- I counted the zeroes twice before posting) worth of intangible assets of a Govt is, just like that, given free to powerfull corporates by a minister for a certain percentage in return as bribe, our family was the poorest of the poor by those standards. We were contented with what we had and we were one of the happy families in the village.
I can understand the nostalgia for the simple rural life you had in yr earlier years. many of my parents generation liked the british rule where they had good law and order and they were happy with the meager salaries and felt contented.Times have changed Some good and bad
things will be in every society at any point of time. To count kollais and open toilets as a blessing in rural areas is not acceptable to me , Flush toilets prefarably western type pots with water wash facility appear to be best
 
Open toilet is not an exclusive brahmin proclivity; it was a universal practice all over the world. Look at the positive side worth reminiscing; draw water from the well and pour it on the head for bath; freedom to go anybody's house for gossip or a bite; neighbours offering namkins and sweets without asking; helping others in to go to the flour or rice mill or for taking out heavy items from the paran.

Even in the late seventies, many old houses in UK had only toilets (but no taps) and no bath. No choice but to be satisfied with toilet paper. One has to go to the public bath for the ritual. And, law and order situation was better before the british formulated the ipc and made everything a crime.

In USA, every week, at least one incident of parents coolly murdered by their children for monetary gain or just for fun. Shooting of kids and students in schools and universities is also happening regularly. Anyway, I have not seen any kolai in the agraharam in those days. Killing of watchman, archakar and temple officials is of recent origin.



I can understand the nostalgia for the simple rural life you had in yr earlier years. many of my parents generation liked the british rule where they had good law and order and they were happy with the meager salaries and felt contented.Times have changed Some good and bad
things will be in every society at any point of time. To count kollais and open toilets as a blessing in rural areas is not acceptable to me , Flush toilets prefarably western type pots with water wash facility appear to be best
 
I can understand the nostalgia for the simple rural life you had in yr earlier years. many of my parents generation liked the british rule where they had good law and order and they were happy with the meager salaries and felt contented.Times have changed Some good and bad
things will be in every society at any point of time. To count kollais and open toilets as a blessing in rural areas is not acceptable to me , Flush toilets prefarably western type pots with water wash facility appear to be best

Dear Krish,

1. My parents did n0t like the British rule They were sure that the law and order will remain what it was whether it was british rule or some other rule. Each family and each caste group has to take care of itself by making compromises, taking precautions, using power discreetly etc,-this they were aware of. My father was not salaried. He was an agriculturist. He knew the crops, the seasons, the pests and the pesticides well.

2. Dont think that I am a relic frozen in the distant past in time. I live in a modern house with the best of fittings (Roca and Koehler) and comforts. But my village home was certainly a good place to live in in those days. Any way water from the well and open space in a kollaipuram made a better combination to keep oneself clean and hygenic. It was certainly better than the toilet paper and an enclosed toilet. That was different time and a different place.
 
Dear Krish,

1. My parents did n0t like the British rule They were sure that the law and order will remain what it was whether it was british rule or some other rule. Each family and each caste group has to take care of itself by making compromises, taking precautions, using power discreetly etc,-this they were aware of. My father was not salaried. He was an agriculturist. He knew the crops, the seasons, the pests and the pesticides well.

2. Dont think that I am a relic frozen in the distant past in time. I live in a modern house with the best of fittings (Roca and Koehler) and comforts. But my village home was certainly a good place to live in in those days. Any way water from the well and open space in a kollaipuram made a better combination to keep oneself clean and hygenic. It was certainly better than the toilet paper and an enclosed toilet. That was different time and a different place.

1regading british rule ,my parents generation did not mind that. Brahmins from tamil nadu and bengal along with kayasths of UP,nairs and menons from kerala were the backbone of british admin . and these occupied higher slots in delhi after the british left. they could not adjust to indian politicians ruling over them . hence the nostalgia
2coping in modern style small flats even with modern facilities with nuclear type family is a burden for many senior citizens. they long for large homes,living with children who have deserted them for better career prospects to other cities in india and abroad.this is modern living
 
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