Dear Renu,
I was happy and sad after this episode. Happy because the girl escaped; sad because it was a last minute
cancellation. A new custom created in tambrams is that they give the gift dresses for the relatives along
with the invitation so that no one will miss the gift on the crowded wedding hall. One of Ram's sisters in law
went one step ahead by adding the bhakshaNam packets also! Most of the mandapams do not give refund
of the advance, which is the full payment for two days including cleaning, advance for electricity and cooking
gas cylinders! So the loss was very heavy for my friend's sister.
Human beings have a sense of selfishness in them and this shines through the use of cell phone.
Also a phone call that interrupts someone in the presence of others is seen by the person receiving the call as somehow important in front of others.
In one of the meditation class I attended a person received two calls and he was answering to whoever that he is meditating!
he interrupted everyone..
Occasionally an older person is given a smart phone and they do not know how to switch off the phone in places that requires complete silence - so all the rest of the people have to put up with the calls being received by that individual.
Unless there is a big fine involving money imposed on such people this practice will never stop
In Sripuram Golden Temple, there is a counter to collect cell phones for safe keeping @ Rs. 20/
The income by this idea should be in lakhs!
At least Devi Sri Lakshmi is not disturbed by the cell phone ring tones!!
Can the gift of mobile phone stop a wedding? Yes! It can!!
My friend's sister had only daughter and had not bought a mobile phone for her. The would-be-hubby was so generous
to present her with a costly mobile phone on the engagement day! Then...... he started chatting for long hours with her.
All the arrangements were done for the wedding. The day prior to 'Vratham' and reception, the groom told this bride that
his mom invites about 30 relatives each Sunday for a get together and lunch. He also told her that she has to cook for
all of them. This girl got annoyed and said she was NOT his cook lady to do so much work in the kitchen single handed.
Then what? Wedding stopped with a label that the girl is 'arrogant'! My friend and her husband had to stand in front of
the wedding hall to send all the relatives back home with an apology!
But this girl is lucky! She got a smarter guy who helps her in cooking food for both of them, in 'thani kudiththanam'!
There are many shops in Tirumala and each of the tour guides have one specific shop to collect our cell phones and footwearInstead of a fine, hire a watchman to collect the cell phones at the entrance and issue tokens ?
paNak kozhuppu? :drama:Invite 30 relatives each Sunday and feed them all? Year in and year out? What kind of snobbery should one categorise this as ?
Thanks to Shri A. Raja, Moun Mohansingh & co., cell phone is very affordable in India. But there is every chance that it will become as costly as in the western countries and thus may go out of reach of a good section.
Today one woman who was blissfully talking over cell phone and was crossing a railway line (on her way to her workplace) got run over by train.!!
Dear Renu,........... So not only humans but monkeys too like smartphones!
One of my music students showed her new smart phone to another student and...... Even if cost becomes a factor, the people are crazy enough to own a mobile phone!
One of my music students showed her new smart phone to another student and
she too bought one and brought to the next class!
P.S: They shelled out about 16 K + so easily!
My helper maid knows a new way to avoid paying mobile phone bills!
She will call the person she wants to talk to and cut it soon after the ring-tone is heard. When the other side calls
on seeing the missed call, she will say, 'I forgot to recharge my mobile! So I was unable to get the connection!'
Howzzzat?
RR Madam, The loss is quite bearable when compared to the life l.....o....n....g wedlock.
Dear RR ji,
The loss is not much cos now the grooms side will know that no bride will want to cook for 30 people on weekly basis.
So the grooms mother will now stop inviting 30 people home every Sunday..so just think how much money they can save??LOL
There are many shops in Tirumala and each of the tour guides have one specific shop to collect our cell phones and footwear
- of course separately - for a nominal charge. I take a carry bag to keep the footwear so that it will be easier to locate them
among the dozens of footwear thrown down from a huge gunny bag!
The reason why the cellphone is costly in the west is because of all the bundled features like phone,internet, wi-fi, camera, video etc. However there are lots of people who get by with bare essentials – just calling and texting., and going for pre-paid cards. The latter situation is not unlike what prevails currently in India. Even if cost becomes a factor, the people are crazy enough to own a mobile phone!
Dear Renu,
If this monkey happens to be a male, he can easily win over his girl friend, without fighting with stronger males!! :thumb:
One of my music students showed her new smart phone to another student and
she too bought one and brought to the next class!
P.S: They shelled out about 16 K + so easily!