Absolutely true. Once I faced the problem and my immediate boss stopped talking to me for nearly a month. Puram pesudhal is such a bad quality which settles a permanent dent in relationship.
I am getting too lazy these days..I do not like to converse much..so that means no gossiping!
Sometimes when I get phone calls from some friends or relatives I tell my staff to answer the phone saying 'doc is busy with patients or gone out for a while etc"
I try to avoid talking but I do not mind typing in forum cos you see typing does not require me to open my mouth.
"Sattiyil iruppadhu thaan agappail varum". What is in your mind is written. It is again a gossip in writing. Since the gossip is prudent and potential and does not harm any one it is a good gossip.
I have worked before with consultants who used listen to whatever people talk about other docs and treat them badly.
I find such behavior really dumb cos why form a judgement based on someone else's assessment?
"if someone gives a negative information
about some one, though it may not be true or an actual thing, it not only affects
the person's psyche and makes him look down in the society, as if he/she has done
a mistake, as against the actual truth. As a result of this, sometime, people who are having
friendship either in the office, or family, or in the school/college, etc for a long time get separated. " N_B.
Absolutely true. Once I faced the problem and my immediate boss stopped talking to me for nearly a month. Puram pesudhal is such a bad quality which settles a permanent dent in relationship.
The impact of gossip can be multifaceted. Suppose, if someone gives a negative information
about some one, though it may not be true or an actual thing, it not only affects
the person's psyche and makes him look down in the society, as if he/she has done
a mistake, as against the actual truth. As a result of this, sometime, people who are having
friendship either in the office, or family, or in the school/college, etc for a long time get separated.
Normally gossip starts either in the Temple premises or Market area or in Water collection,
Milk collection point, etc. Some make use of the gossip as a form of advertisement to their
business. Gossip can paint a picture of both good and bad. If it is negative it will have a bad
effect on one.
Gossip affects the productivity factor in the industry and studies in the School/Colleges
besides output in the office too.
Balasubramanian
Ambattur
we have advantage of editing while typing and while speaking ,the uttered words are final and can not be erased .only we can say sorry.
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guruvayurappan
Do the male doctors have that much time
and patience to listen to :evil: :gossip:???
They are the worst of the lot!
Once I heard with my own ears a senior doc(lets call him Doc A) speaking over the phone to the director general of health and cooking up stories about a new surgeon.
You see that new surgeon was the son of another senior doc who was not in good terms with Doc A.
Then when Doc A realized I heard the conversation he said "if you open your mouth about this I will make a call and make sure you are transferred to a remote village"
So this is what doctors do to each other and try to cause career damage.
dear VR !That is exactly why we should THINK before we TALK!!!
Imagination running riot!!!
The eternal war between the Good and Evil!
Imagination running riot!!!
You can ascend on anything!
Curiosity better not kill this cat!LOL