This issue is exercising the minds of many tamil brahmins all over india and abroad.
A simple issue of finding a match has made lives of many complicated
There has been a demographic shift with number of eligible girls reducing radically as against boys.
Some feel education and girls becoming economic entities with decent jobs has made the process of finding
mates difficult.
Added to this increasing mobilty and spread of eligible boys and girls to all parts of the country and a few
countries abroad mostly US and europe has made the job of finding matches more difficult.
exposure to higher education and MNC jobs for both boys and girls has changed the preferances of type of mates.
a class with high incomes and higher aspirations has come up expecting more from mates. both boys and
girls want a marriage with equitable relationship .
the old traditional lifestyle after marriage with parents [boys] staying with son and DIL are not increasingly
finding favour with most girls.
the old criterion for selection of mates such as horoscopes, subcaste family status etc do not seem to be counting for much
alll that matters is income and edu qual of both boys and girls.
under these circumstances , is it worth considering anything else to find a match
most do not know how to settle a match.
parents[mother and father separately] and boy/girl look for different things when they look for a match.
most are not able to agree on what type of mate is best for a boy or girl
we finds hundreds of boys[in thirtees] and girls in late twenties looking for that elusive right person.
.the process of selection often after a lot of effort ends up in broken engagements and broken marriages often
it is a very serious issue affecting every family.
what do you think?
A simple issue of finding a match has made lives of many complicated
There has been a demographic shift with number of eligible girls reducing radically as against boys.
Some feel education and girls becoming economic entities with decent jobs has made the process of finding
mates difficult.
Added to this increasing mobilty and spread of eligible boys and girls to all parts of the country and a few
countries abroad mostly US and europe has made the job of finding matches more difficult.
exposure to higher education and MNC jobs for both boys and girls has changed the preferances of type of mates.
a class with high incomes and higher aspirations has come up expecting more from mates. both boys and
girls want a marriage with equitable relationship .
the old traditional lifestyle after marriage with parents [boys] staying with son and DIL are not increasingly
finding favour with most girls.
the old criterion for selection of mates such as horoscopes, subcaste family status etc do not seem to be counting for much
alll that matters is income and edu qual of both boys and girls.
under these circumstances , is it worth considering anything else to find a match
most do not know how to settle a match.
parents[mother and father separately] and boy/girl look for different things when they look for a match.
most are not able to agree on what type of mate is best for a boy or girl
we finds hundreds of boys[in thirtees] and girls in late twenties looking for that elusive right person.
.the process of selection often after a lot of effort ends up in broken engagements and broken marriages often
it is a very serious issue affecting every family.
what do you think?
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