Dear Raju, once again I am in your debt for you have taken the time to respond to my comment in such a detailed manner. Let me make just two comments, one short and the second somewhat long.
... I have mentioned already that personal Gods are found necessary by theists for very valid reasons. As far as the claims of miracles/grace of God are concerned,
Yes, but finding something necessary does not mean you just make it up. This is putting the cart ahead of the horse.
But this is explained satisfactorily by Acharyas like Ramanuja. Freedom is real .
I am familiar with the argument that Ishwara is impartial and he has taken it upon himself on his own free will to enforce the effects of karma impartially. But, IMO, these are just arguments made up upon the assumption there is an Ishwara who cares about human beings.
All theistic doctrines, whether Hindu, Islam, or Christian holds that the jeevas are bound in samsara due to karma or sin and release is achieved via some sort of the theistic effort. Now, please permit me a moment of speculation. Even I, a mere human, when I see my children suffering want to immediately free them of their suffering forthwith, even if it is something they brought upon themselves by their own stupid action. I will never say it is their free will and let them be damned until they realize I am their dad and pay proper respect.
But then I am of limited power and I may not be able convince my children that I mean well. But, this Ishwara is not like me, he/she is an all powerful and supposedly loving compassionate Ishwara. Why on earth would this Ishwara insist on the free will of the jeevas to surrender to him before saving them? If I had such powers I will instantly make my children see what a loving father I am and make them accept my loving hand of redemption, I will not give them the free will to suffer. I just can't believe in an all powerful god who is also an ocean of compassion, who will let his suffering wards suffer until on their own free will they see his love.
I know VA holds that the purpose of all this from Ishwara's POV is leela rasam and bhogya rasam. They say Ishwara derives leela rasam with the jeevas in samsara and bhogya rasam with muktha jeevas and nithyasoories in Sri Vaikuntam. This, IMO, is abominable. Why would an all loving Ishwara derive any pleasure via the leela rasam route, when it has the power to release everyone all at once and bring them all to Sri Vaikuntam and enjoy bhogya rasam? If it was my children I will never expect to derive any rasam whatever from their suffering, I will only try to lift them up from their suffering without waiting for them to ask me. Just imagine what I will do if I am all powerful!! And how can I expect anything less from an all loving and all powerful Ishwara?
Well, the answer of course is, all this Ishwara, Sri Vainkuntam, leela rasam, bhogya rasam, etc., are bogus.
Advaitam, that is entirely a different cup of tea, they have to first decide whether they are theistic or not, at present they are a confused about it, IMO.
Theists strongly believe that atheists are souls who have suffered swaroopa naasam. This self-distruction or mutilation of self has come because they have unwittingly misused the free will granted by God. They are souls who have gone against themselves beyond redemption by any thing other than God himself.
This is just what the theists say and I think I can live with that, no problem.
Cheers!