It is not that hard. One does not have to 'look inside' either. One has to look at the other person as a 'human being' first. There is no need to even know the other person's caste or creed. It is not that hard; I am sure a majority of persons are doing it already in most instances. But the 'brahminical way of living' like maintaining a vegetarian diet, consuming only prasadams offered in pooja, following few rituals in one's private space etc. are harmless. One doesn't have to give up his/her rituals to see others as equal human beings. It is not hard at all.
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dear raghy,
Can you please explain, why the religiosity of living, is identified by, in this day and age, as ‘brahminical way of living’? perhaps you have been brought up to understand this, I can understand. But you have been in OZ for several years now, and do you still feel, that such religiosity as you defined, is ‘brahminical’ ie denoting as belonging to a particular caste?
Is it not possible, for all castes, including dalits, to practise such?
Recently I read in a blog, from a NB lady. She went to this temple, and as we all know, most of us, throw some coins into the archakar’s plate when we receive the prasadam (viboothi, kungumam & flowers or Perumal thoppi on head).
My attitude towards this, is I would rather give a little extra to the archakar than put it in the hundi.
This blogger had the opposite view of mine. she always avoids archakar donation, as she feels these are salaried by the HRCE (she is in tamil nadu) and she believes money in the hundi goes for temples upkeep. That is her prerogative. But her plaint, was the last time when she went to the temple, she did not donate to the archakar, and was bypassed the prasadam giving, which she has detailed here.
It makes painful reading and I am very embarrassed to belong to a priestly class which has inbuilt ‘brahministical’ feelings as expounded here. What do you say?
gurukkal
this is what I mean by brahminical practices as viewed by NBs. Almost every NB I know has some bad experience in their lifetime brahmins. Do you think they are all exaggerating? Or making much ado about nothing?
What would we have done in such circumstances? I know I have the brahmin kalai and always get respect in the temples. Sometimes to my own embarassment, when I am offered prasadams, out of line (it happened in pittsburgh perumal temple a few weeks ago).