Dear Nara Sir,
The caveats you state against religion are all very sensible and appeal to the thinking mind.
I too always felt religion is humbug.
But on closely examining myself i find this innate sense to venerate. I don't know how and why it comes and when it started, but its a comfort zone.
I accept atheist arguments very much. They do appeal to my mind when it is in the thinking mode.
But the moment i face some difficulty, the first thing that happens automatically is to pray and seek some solace, comfort in God, who i hope may help.
Atheism will appeal to strong minds. Unfortunately am not that strong yet. I have a family, things to take care of, and responsibilities to fulfil. Trying to live without God is a difficult task in itself, and upsets my source of strength. When this feeling of strength is gone, it upsets my confidence, and disrupts my sense of comfort.
I suppose this is how many people think and function also. Therefore while atheism is very valid, it may not suit some people.
I hope theists and atheists make peace and can live peacefully with one another, while accepting that each other's argument may make sense when seen from (either) each one's thinking zone or from their comfort zone.
They say our attitude is our fate, so maybe my attitude of seeking strength in God makes me feel i can have a better fate, i dunno. But some day in future hopefully i can be an atheist.
Regards.
Smt. HH,
For many people, and I will say, more so women, it is very, very difficult to admit to themselves without reservation, that their sufferings in life could be due to their past evil karmas (may be in this life itself or poorva janmas). This I think is because almost all such people consider themselves to have lived this present life blamelessly, that they are/have been always god-fearing, kind, not jealous and so on... epitome of virtues, in essence.
Hence when some trouble comes up in life, it is definitely a punishment meted out to a pure soul, a blameless person and hence basically unjust. So, it is usual to shift such punishment to the vagaries of god's decisions, some even describe it as god's leela and all that sort of thing. Mostly, no one is heard saying "god is punishing me (justly) for my actions or past evil deeds". I hope you will agree with this.
God thus becomes a very necessary, unavoidable and useful tool to shift blame from oneself on to someone else and such that that someone else will never come and contest your statement and file a case for defamation, damages, emotional trauma caused, etc.
Who else but God will suit this role best? God is not only to take the blame as aforesaid, but because there is an unjust punishment being inflicted upon an otherwise innocent person, God, in his aspect as ocean of mercy and protector of His devotees, is called upon to come to the affected person's succour.
On the contrary, if a person is willing to accept consciously and fully, without reservations, that he/she might not have been such a perfect specimen of blameless human, pure in all respects, etc., and to lament his own deeds - in this or earlier births - when troubles befall him/her, then he/she may not require the prop of god to assuage the ego. But such a person will also, most often, think of how best to ensure that he does not commit bad deeds or Karma in future at least, so that such sufferings do not increase. God-believers are thankfully, free of such a self-examination and attempt at one's own course-correction. Thus I feel the most important cause for god-belief, is not owning up responsibility for one's own actions, or, at the least, a psychological inability to do so.