Kadalikka Neramillai Kadalippar Yarumillai

[P.J.]

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Kadalikka Neramillai Kadalippar Yarumillai



Kadalikka Neramillai Kadalippar Yarumillai


Valibthil Kadalikka Jadagathil Vaziyum illai

Renukaji

Do not think that “why this Sai Devotee is singing like this?”

Many of us , had chances but we missed it due to fear; also in those days Pavadai Dhavani girls were not that much forward to even to talk with equal age or even below aged boys.

I had a chance, but her father was Police Inspector!!! He was fearsome looking.
I used to wonder how such a fear some guy got a beautiful girl as his daughter!!!

Members please share your Love life Experience with us!!

 

[kunjuppu]

Dear P.J.,

I had a very strict mother. Also I was an only son. Double whammies and I never have got over the hold that my mom had, even now, 13 years after her death.

My teen age was brutal in its suppression of even the warmest look at our neighbor girls – all iyers ofcourse. Mom would have a frown which would say it all.

When I came to Canada, every girl I met, even before a hello, at the background, would come the query, ‘how will this pass with mom’? it never did pass, and I never even went beyond the first hello to take a girl out to a movie or a coffee. Such was my adventure.

My room mate, all of a sudden, had get togethers and there was this female doctor, very friendly and Punjabi, who was there all the time, chatting up to me. By then I was so numbed out of romance, that my friend called me an idiot, for an apparently this was a match up between me and this girl.

I told him, my mother would never go for this girl – the least of it being she a hindu Punjabi. The major reason – her last name was kundi. Can any of with a mustering knowledge of tamil, ever go to our parents and say we want to marry into the kundi family?

On hearing the meaning of that word, my friend literally fell down laughing. And thus stopped the and only effort to matchmate me in Canada.

Ps. A few months after our first son was born, we received a wedding invitation of this girl. We went to the wedding and greeted her – me, my wife and infant son. Also found out, that she had now become a ‘respectable’ gupta

 

[Raji Ram]

OMG! What an experience Kunjuppu Sir! I nearly fell down laughing!! :lol:

 

[P.J.]

How come when a guy goes for a love marriage he sees her Dad and brothers very fearsome? In movies too they show them that way only. ( Tamil movie Run)
But in case of arranged marriage , beautiful girls have beautiful sisters too!! In real life and movies too!for example Roja Movie!!

 

[tbs]

hi p j sir,
i tried in my school days with my head master's daiughter.....in college i got a girl...for a short time....i really loved a girl in maturity

age too...i loved a girl for TEN years....my mother was very strict VADAMA....the girls was telugu....we tried our level best to

succcess in love....finaly due to my army service...we separated....SHE MARRIED HER UNCLE'S DAUGHTER BY FORCE....

finally i had to marry a vadama girl ...due to my mother's choice....in my case...may be failure in the love is success in life....

i did not miss the bus in my young age.....ஒரு மனிதன் கண்டிப்பாக காதல் செய்ய வேண்டும்......காதல் துயரம் உணர வேண்டும் .....வாழ்கையில் வெற்றி/தோல்வி சகஜம் ....அதுபோல்

காதலிலும் வெற்றி/தோல்வி சகஜம் தான்.....இது என்னுடைய சொந்த கருத்து .......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u2bjSWdEgpM


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83LBB5tWUIU


காதலில் தோல்வியுற்றவர்களுக்கு இந்த பாடல் சமர்ப்பணம் 

 

[kunjuppu]

....SHE MARRIED HER UNCLE'S DAUGHTER BY FORCE....


 [/B]

???

must have been thoroughly upset with you, that she switched her gender preference too?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[P.J.]

hi p j sir,
i tried in my school days with my head master's daiughter.....in college i got a girl...for a short time....i really loved a girl in maturity

age too...i loved a girl for TEN years....my mother was very strict VADAMA....the girls was telugu....we tried our level best to

succcess in love....finaly due to my army service...we separated....SHE MARRIED HER UNCLE'S DAUGHTER BY FORCE....

finally i had to marry a vadama girl ...due to my mother's choice....in my case...may be failure in the love is success in life....

i did not miss the bus in my young age.....ஒரு மனிதன் கண்டிப்பாக காதல் செய்ய வேண்டும்......காதல் துயரம் உணர வேண்டும் .....வாழ்கையில் வெற்றி/தோல்வி சகஜம் ....அதுபோல்

காதலிலும் வெற்றி/தோல்வி சகஜம் தான்.....இது என்னுடைய சொந்த கருத்து .......

துள்ளாத மனமும் துள்ளும் - Thulladha manamum thullum - YouTubeKaadhalile Tholviyuttraal (Kalyaana Parisu) - YouTube
காதலில் தோல்வியுற்றவர்களுக்கு இந்த பாடல் சமர்ப்பணம் 

tbs sir

don't worry, any unfulfilled wish will be fulfilled in subsequent birth if that wish was normal.
so you will get a chance in your future births also, only thing is that you should not face the same arm twisting by your future birth mother!!!

 

[sunkan]

dear PJ
wonderful thread i am sure many should come forward and share and here is mine as usual our parents are always right from the beginning even if they do mistake and my pop was no different he was a railway official with agreat connection and i still remember a guy telling him how he wanted his girl to be like hema malini's eyes and jaya bhadhuri's hair and so on so my dad just had to hurry in those days 21 was a danger line for girls and i had secured a 1st class in my pre university wanted to study further as my enthusiasm to study began then but my parents had other ideas they got me married to a CABF guy telling all kinds of lie a hotelier and so on, his own flats and hotel in kolkata as every women seek good security as their first step towards getting out of their home.. only to find CABF stood for cambridge applied but failed....he did not have an iota of what is hotel business except take money from kallapetti and spend on girls.... the cotrast of all is the horoscope matched at 35 on 36 only to find nothing there too later in life...to top it my dad said i would shoot u if u refuse this guy and i shot my fate itself and lived a life too pathetic for me to look back now...raw deals scrape away love and i never knew whether human has love at all.....

i enjoy this song though especially the line maamiyar kodumai illai maamanaar yarum illai hehehe

 

[Raji Ram]

......... must have been thoroughly upset with you, that she switched her gender preference too?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

No Sir! TBS got so much upset with his 'malarum ninaivugaL' that he typed wrong!!

 

[renuka]

Kadalikka Neramillai Kadalippar Yarumillai



Kadalikka Neramillai Kadalippar Yarumillai


Valibthil Kadalikka Jadagathil Vaziyum illai

Renukaji

Do not think that “why this Sai Devotee is singing like this?”

Many of us , had chances but we missed it due to fear; also in those days Pavadai Dhavani girls were not that much forward to even to talk with equal age or even below aged boys.

I had a chance, but her father was Police Inspector!!! He was fearsome looking.
I used to wonder how such a fear some guy got a beautiful girl as his daughter!!!

Members please share your Love life Experience with us!!

Dear PJ sir,

We girls have a different story..for us it is how to keep the guys away!LOL

It is easier for a girl to get a guy than for a guy to get a girl.

Anyway I feel in this world..there is no such thing as true love and we can keep falling in love and out of love as often as we feel.
When we are attracted to someone..everything feels like love.

So we have no idea what is love!LOL

Every love is conditional to a certain extent and after a while attraction will also decline then life just goes on in auto pilot mode cos responsibilities come in too.
When love declines we might ditch someone and go for the next one.

We actually never miss anything in life..life is destined to be the way it is.

But love is like a virus....it can strike anytime.

Marriage is not a vaccine that prevents us from falling in love again.

So there is no immunity when it comes to love!

Love is a just a feeling of attachment as a result of interplay of a cocktail of hormones.

No use thinking what anyone missed or not..just enjoy! after all its Kadalikka Neramillai..which means there is No Time for Love cos anytime is a Good Time.

For me my motto in live is simple..I was born here to live and to die..what comes in between is just experiences...so love is also is just an experience and nothing more.

 

[tbs]

???

must have been thoroughly upset with you, that she switched her gender preference too?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

hi
sorry...uncle's son...

 

[renuka]

tbs sir

don't worry, any unfulfilled wish will be fulfilled in subsequent birth if that wish was normal.
so you will get a chance in your future births also, only thing is that you should not face the same arm twisting by your future birth mother!!!

Dear Sir,

I feel it is better not to wish for anything for our next births..why bind ourselves when we have no idea how things will turn out to be?

So better die a blank slate and let God decide for us based on our Karma and actions.

 

[tbs]

tbs sir

don't worry, any unfulfilled wish will be fulfilled in subsequent birth if that wish was normal.
so you will get a chance in your future births also, only thing is that you should not face the same arm twisting by your future birth mother!!!

hi pj sir,

i heard that.....MARRIAGE IS MADE IN HEAVEN.....CONDUCTED ON EARTH.... so i dont know....the same mother and same

wife continue with me next 7 reincarnations(rebirth).....who knows? kaadhalikka jathagathill illayo?,,,,,ennavo?

காதலிக்க ஜாதகத்தில் யோகம் வேண்டும்....என்னோட காதல் இடத்தில் ராகு மற்றும் கேதுவும் சேர்த்திருக்குமோ என்னவோ?.....யாருக்கு தெரியும்?....
மொத்தத்தில் யோகமில்லை......அவ்வளவுதான்.................கட்டி சுட்ட்டதட.....கை விட்டதடா ......

 

[Raji Ram]

........என்னோட காதல் இடத்தில் ராகு மற்றும் கேதுவும் சேர்த்திருக்குமோ என்னவோ?.....யாருக்கு தெரியும்?.......

என்ன T B S சார்! பயங்கர குழப்பத்திலே இருக்கேளோ? முதலில் மாமா பொண்ணு!
இப்போ ராகுவும் கேதுவும் ஒரே இடத்திலா? இது ரெண்டும் எதிரும் புதிருமா இல்லையோ இருக்கும்? :decision:

 

[tbs]

என்ன T B S சார்! பயங்கர குழப்பத்திலே இருக்கேளோ? முதலில் மாமா பொண்ணு!
இப்போ ராகுவும் கேதுவும் ஒரே இடத்திலா? இது ரெண்டும் எதிரும் புதிருமா இல்லையோ இருக்கும்? :decision:

hi
i know rahu/ketu never together....always opposite sides....its just sattire....kind of joke....

 

[Raji Ram]

Usually I don't like 'dappankooththu' songs. But I found this one too funny!

Here it is, dedicated to PJ Sir and TBS Sir!

Venam Machan - Video Song

 

[tbs]

Usually I don't like 'dappankooththu' songs. But I found this one too funny!

Here it is, dedicated to PJ Sir and TBS Sir!

Venam Machan - Video Song

hi
even though dappangoothu...very nice meaning...beautiful song....aatha partha poonu kattukkitta kaichal ille...

 

[Raji Ram]

.. i know rahu/ketu never together....always opposite sides....its just sattire....kind of joke....

KalikAlam! RAgu KEthu kooda chErumO ennamO?? :hug:

 

[tbs]

KalikAlam! RAgu KEthu kooda chErumO ennamO?? :hug:

hi
may be cheralaam....like guy marry a guy....a gal marry a gal....ore inam cheralaya....orina sherkai inge....

 

[P.J.]

dear PJ
wonderful thread i am sure many should come forward and share and here is mine as usual our parents are always right from the beginning even if they do mistake and my pop was no different he was a railway official with agreat connection and i still remember a guy telling him how he wanted his girl to be like hema malini's eyes and jaya bhadhuri's hair and so on so my dad just had to hurry in those days 21 was a danger line for girls and i had secured a 1st class in my pre university wanted to study further as my enthusiasm to study began then but my parents had other ideas they got me married to a CABF guy telling all kinds of lie a hotelier and so on, his own flats and hotel in kolkata as every women seek good security as their first step towards getting out of their home.. only to find CABF stood for cambridge applied but failed....he did not have an iota of what is hotel business except take money from kallapetti and spend on girls.... the cotrast of all is the horoscope matched at 35 on 36 only to find nothing there too later in life...to top it my dad said i would shoot u if u refuse this guy and i shot my fate itself and lived a life too pathetic for me to look back now...raw deals scrape away love and i never knew whether human has love at all.....

i enjoy this song though especially the line maamiyar kodumai illai maamanaar yarum illai hehehe

sunkanji

Sorry about your story!
No one is coming up with an answer to my other questions about beautiful girls, fearsome dad or brother !!

 

[P.J.]

Interesting Life Lesson: Must Read!!

True Love:
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It was approximately 8.30 a.m. on a busy morning when an elderly gentleman in
his eighties arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He stated that
he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9.00 a.m.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat. I knew it would take more than
an hour before someone would to able to attend to him. I saw him check his
watch anxiously for the time and decided to evaluate his wound, since I was
not busy with another patient. On examination, the wound was well healed.
Hence, I talked to one of the doctors to get the supplies to remove his sutures
and redress his wound. We began to engage in a conversation, while I was taking
care of his wound. I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment later as
he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, and said that he needed to
go to the nursing home to have breakfast with his wife.

I inquired about her health. He told me that she had been in the nursing home
for a while as she was a victim of Alzheimer's disease. I probed further and
asked if she would be upset, if he was slightly late. He replied that she no longer
knew who he was, and that she had not been able to recognize him since five
years ago. I asked him in surprise, "And you still go every morning, even though
she doesn't know who you are?" [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Then he smiled as he patted my hand and said,
"She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is!" ;-)[/FONT][FONT=&quot]

I had to hold back my tears as he left. I had goose bumps on my arm, and I thought,
"That is the kind of love I want in my life." True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, was not, will be, and will not ever be…

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https://groups.google.com/forum/#!msg/what_buddha_said/R0dcsezAWcw/R_I1wnlvs_QJ

 

[renuka]

sunkanji

Sorry about your story!
No one is coming up with an answer to my other questions about beautiful girls, fearsome dad or brother !!

Dear Sir,

When I was in college..there was a beautiful girl who had a very nice understanding elder brother who was a senior in the nearby engineering college.

She was dating one guy who became best friends with her brother eventually.
So her brother and her boyfriend were inseparable buddies.

One day..don't know why this beautiful girl decided to double time and had another boyfriend too and both her brother and her original boyfriend found out and both of them gave her a slap each on her face in front of everyone outside the hostel.

The brother was scolding the sister for cheating on her boyfriend and the boyfriend was scolding her for cheating on him and when she shouted back at them for scolding her.. both brother and boyfriend slapped her on each cheek.

Poor girl we all felt sad for her..

 

[renuka]

." True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, was not, will be, and will not ever be…

Only divine love fits into this definition.
All other forms of love are conditional.

 

[P.J.]

Dear Sir,

When I was in college..there was a beautiful girl who had a very nice understanding elder brother who was a senior in the nearby engineering college.

She was dating one guy who became best friends with her brother eventually.
So her brother and her boyfriend were inseparable buddies.

One day..don't know why this beautiful girl decided to double time and had another boyfriend too and both her brother and her original boyfriend found out and both of them gave her a slap each on her face in front of everyone outside the hostel.

The brother was scolding the sister for cheating on her boyfriend and the boyfriend was scolding her for cheating on him and when she shouted back at them for scolding her.. both brother and boyfriend slapped her on each cheek.

Poor girl we all felt sad for her..

Renukaji

Why you all felt sorry for her? you all should have felt sorry for the guy who had been taken for ride!!

 

[renuka]

Renukaji

Why you all felt sorry for her? you all should have felt sorry for the guy who had been taken for ride!!

Dear Sir,

There is a time frame called transition zone where a person might want to test a new relationship before officially breaking off the old relationship.

If the new relationship has some plus points only then the old one is discarded..otherwise the old relationship is still maintained for good.

Even a caterpillar gets a firm grip on the next leaf before it leaves the old leaf to move on...if the new leaf is unstable..the caterpillar hangs on still to the old leaf.

So it was during that transition zone that she got caught.


Just like if we are in the transition period deciding to buy a new car or stick to the old car.

We will go to show room and test drive new car and then decide to buy or not.

Then we might go home..thinking that the old car is still in a good condition..so should we buy or not?

So that's why we felt sorry for her cos one should not be held guilty when the mind is in the Manas state and not yet made a decision.