Modern Parenting Challenges.

[B.Krishnamurthy]

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Recently,i had gone through a book titled "How To Live With Your Children And Like Them" by Author Clyde F.Boyle.
This book is recommended for Parents of Students who study in "Challenger School,Bay Area, California"
Though the book is written with 'western way of Living' it will be a good guide for Parents in bringing up their Children.

 

[tbs]

hi
every period of time....parenting was challenging.....in our grand parents time...........agraharam type parenting was tough.....

in our parents time...........city parenting was tough..............now our modern internet parenting is tough....now we are

in global village.....easy information through out world in seconds....now both parents are working......economically

well off for the children....BUT EMOTIONALLY VERY FAR AWAY WITH CHILDREN.... so we can't get both.....

 

[tbs]

see the latest trend in modern parenting.....even court supports some aspects....parents hands are tied up....

????????????????? ???? ??? ????? ?????:?????????????? - Dinamani - Tamil Daily News

 

[krish44]

A child indeed doesn't understand discipline at the earliest stage. It doesn't understand responsibility till a particular stage after that. The advice given above is very wise. Interestingly, there are adults who have not crossed the pampering stage and of those who do, there are some who never understand responsibility. So we need to do the above to some adults also.

sravna ji I like your remark about some adults not crossing the pampering stage and refusing to take responsibility. treating them as friends does not alter them. forcing them to take responsibility is a solution.I know many in specially joint families living out a lifetime without taking any responsibility and getting away with it

 

[krish44]

see the latest trend in modern parenting.....even court supports some aspects....parents hands are tied up....

????????????????? ???? ??? ????? ?????:?????????????? - Dinamani - Tamil Daily News

why should parents come in the way as far as marriage and religion is concerned. marriage has ceased to be a transaction between families and has become a matter of individual choiceBut in such marriages back up of families cease and suffering is a bit more. religion change is more tricky. co-religionists opposing/supporting the move get drawn in leading to chaos and sometimes violence

 

[krish44]

Dear Ash,

There are no such things as good parents and bad parents..there are only parents.. that all.

Ok take the process I mentioned earlier..no one is born via immaculate conception..so the act of passion is not doubt there unless the person had opted for artificial insemination..now when a child is born..it takes a few hours for the mother and child to bond..then the feeling of "this child is mine" comes in..what we call Mamaiva..the feeling of mine and thine.

Now with this feeling of Mine and Thine we humans spend our whole lives on this earth but prefer to deny that fact that our very existence is a selfish one.

We love the child becos we believe he/she is OURS.

A man will love a child which he feels is his till paternity DNA test prove otherwise and all hell will break lose..he ceases to feel for the child anymore cos the child is NOT his.

So going by all these reasons I do not feel we need to call anyone temple or scriptures etc..we can very well call ourselves creatures that live for ourselves and what we feel belongs to us.

We Humans.. Attachment is Our Name...We just need to admit it.

Rji I like the comment-we can call ourselves creatures that live for ourselves and what we feel belong to us. that is the cold blooded truth. is then feeling for others which we have is just a delusion.do we always choose our kith and kin ov er others all the time