Sinbad

[krish44]

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SINBAD-A new acronym for single women stalking our metro cities.

It stands for Single Income No Boyfriend women .

In these cities,there are many unattached women,having nothing to do,with being desperate,looking for

relationships.

They are independant working women with some spare time looking for

Mr Right for a relationship. They have set very

high standards for men modelled after cine heros -SRK etc.

These women tell themselves it is exciting to be this way. they flaunt their free status,openness and

receptiveness to new relationships with a lot of interest and curiousity

they say it is fun and awesome.

I read about a tamil brahmin girl in delhi who had set a target of 30 men for dating to find the Mr Right and had

described her experiences with a few she had dated.

these women say it is great to date without feeling guilty.

many envy their single indepndant status they say than feel bad for them

most of these say that society has made it easier for them accepting their life style.

courtesy-The HT of 8th feb 2014

 

[Naina_Marbus]

I would send the follwing comments to the writer of that Hindustan Times article:

You are such a SCUM (“Self-Centred Urban Male”) who is either a SITCOM ( “Single Income, Two Kids, Outrageous Mortgage”) or a SINK ( “Single, Independent, No Kids” ), that is waiting to become a DUMP ( “Destitute Unemployed Mature Professional”), later evolving into a HOPEFUL (“Hardened Older Person Ever”).

Incidentally SINBAD stands for Single Income, No Boyfriend, Absolutely Desperate.

 

[vgane]

Wow! Acronym fight starts! How about SCUM from a feminist angle-Society for cutting up male!

 

[krish44]

I would send the follwing comments to the writer of that Hindustan Times article:

You are such a SCUM (“Self-Centred Urban Male”) who is either a SITCOM ( “Single Income, Two Kids, Outrageous Mortgage”) or a SINK ( “Single, Independent, No Kids” ), that is waiting to become a DUMP ( “Destitute Unemployed Mature Professional”), later evolving into a HOPEFUL (“Hardened Older Person Ever”).

Incidentally SINBAD stands for Single Income, No Boyfriend, Absolutely Desperate.

thanks forgot to add absolutely Desperate in expansion of SINBAD.

in todays the hindu matrimonial ads, I found many TB males also in early and late thirties equally desperate for a relationship.they had also missed the matrimonial

bus.

these have become social outcastes looking desperately for women .

these are unusual situations to be in.

there are many TB women who have deserted their men if you can see ads of divorced men in thirties age group.most women value their independance and are unable

to put up with MCP men

We can keep coining titles such as SINBAD or SCUM or SINK

Our marriage institutions are under real threat and single working women are celebrating their independance and experimenting with men with new found freedom

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

SINBAD-A new acronym for single women stalking our metro cities.

It stands for Single Income No Boyfriend women .

In these cities,there are many unattached women,having nothing to do,with being desperate,looking for

relationships.

They are independant working women with some spare time looking for

Mr Right for a relationship. They have set very

high standards for men modelled after cine heros -SRK etc.

These women tell themselves it is exciting to be this way. they flaunt their free status,openness and

receptiveness to new relationships with a lot of interest and curiousity

they say it is fun and awesome.

I read about a tamil brahmin girl in delhi who had set a target of 30 men for dating to find the Mr Right and had

described her experiences with a few she had dated.

these women say it is great to date without feeling guilty.

many envy their single indepndant status they say than feel bad for them

most of these say that society has made it easier for them accepting their life style.

courtesy-The HT of 8th feb 2014

It looks like 30 times fun! and fun is no sin!!

 

[CHANDRU1849]

I would send the follwing comments to the writer of that Hindustan Times article:

You are such a SCUM (“Self-Centred Urban Male”) who is either a SITCOM ( “Single Income, Two Kids, Outrageous Mortgage”) or a SINK ( “Single, Independent, No Kids” ), that is waiting to become a DUMP ( “Destitute Unemployed Mature Professional”), later evolving into a HOPEFUL (“Hardened Older Person Ever”).

Incidentally SINBAD stands for Single Income, No Boyfriend, Absolutely Desperate.

What for SINBAD is 'Absolutely Desperate'?

 

[vs_ramki1950]

It looks like 30 times fun! and fun is no sin!!

but sin cannot be fun....

 

[prasad1]

thanks forgot to add absolutely Desperate in expansion of SINBAD.

in todays the hindu matrimonial ads, I found many TB males also in early and late thirties equally desperate for a relationship.they had also missed the matrimonial

bus.

these have become social outcastes looking desperately for women .

these are unusual situations to be in.

there are many TB women who have deserted their men if you can see ads of divorced men in thirties age group.most women value their independance and are unable

to put up with MCP men

We can keep coining titles such as SINBAD or SCUM or SINK

Our marriage institutions are under real threat and single working women are celebrating their independance and experimenting with men with new found freedom

Is it real? or a Joke? What about our "CULTURE", "HERITAGE" etc. Wait till the hammer is dropped by you know who.

 

[krish44]

prasadji
çulture and heritage is for the oldies.

even during valentine day next week , some political outfits are trying to thrust their ideas of our way of living on

the young

Govt of chattisgarh wants to make feb 14th as parents day and would like children to wash the feet of their parents

in schools.-our great indian values blah blah

our new indian single women will change the mindsets of MCP men and these men have to run to their mothers

for protection and finding themselves matches with their help if possible

 

[renuka]

SINBAD-A new acronym for single women stalking our metro cities.

It stands for Single Income No Boyfriend women .

Single Income No Boyfriend?

Sounds fine but they need to have some non committal liaisons to SIN really BAD!LOL

 

[renuka]

but sin cannot be fun....

Both fun and sin have desire as the substratum..technically fun and sin function with the same principles.

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

but sin cannot be fun....

But why Gun the Fun? Fun is not sin - Laughter is the The best medicine for Malignant Hypertenive and Hyper (re)active!!

 

[Vaagmi]

prasadji
çulture and heritage is for the oldies.even during valentine day next week , some political outfits are trying to thrust their ideas of our way of living on the youngGovt of chattisgarh wants to make feb 14th as parents day and would like children to wash the feet of their parentsin schools.-our great indian values blah blah
our new indian single women will change the mindsets of MCP men and these men have to run to their mothers
for protection and finding themselves matches with their help if possible

This is the problem with our in-house, far-away-from-TBs, lost-to-an-alien-culture oldy TBs coming here to blah blah. Their advise to others is always very liberal. If they are so much sold on the idea of anarchical freedom to the TB women and men, will they advise and bring up their own children in that kind of "anarchy-everywhere" atmosphere?

They should call and tell their daughter the moment she reaches puberty that now that she is ready to enjoy life as her glands and hormones are fully functional, she should pick up one boy every day new and go out for the night with him. She can return by midnight and the Dad will be waiting to receive her at the door. He will open the door for her. She should be advised to shun anyone who talks to her about culture, heritage etc., because they are equivalent to the four letter words. He should check up her personal bag every day and keep the stock of ....you know what.....replenished. Or better take away whatever stock is there if the girl herself is careful about getting pregnant, because not even the sheath should be allowed to stand between her and her pleasures. And same advise for the boys too. Once extra piece will be to take care not to commit money and wealth in any of these transactions(lest our oldie friend may be in the street begging for his next meal unless he has a pension account). Anyway the encounters are supposed to be with women who are supposed to be well to do so that the boy can bring home an occasional gift.

And these dads can throw a party at home in the night to celebrate whenever the daughter/son crosses a milestone. Of course these parties will be rave parties in which wine will flow and chicken 60 will come swimming in choicest liquor. The milestones can be, say, when the girl or boy reaches the 50th or 100th short term relationship and breaks it after enough exploration. Every valentine day celebration can be converted into a "key Club" like wild enjoyment opportunity. With enough SINBAD women and men around and enough oldies like our in-house vidwans around as organizers, the event can be managed with strict discipline without any poaching by a wild unsatisfied SINBAD member.

And if a veteran of such freedom and exploration, after reaching the end of it all, comes to the party venue he can be asked to sing "be roofu kamre mein khansi ki tan tan, .........jinhein naaz hai hind par woh kahan hai? kahan hai? kahan hai? and all can applaud and give him a thin peg of Gin (because his liver has already become a mosquito-net) and dismiss him.

Hi Oldies!! Do you have the guts to do this? Please do this and then come here to lecture to the unfortunate TBs who struggle to get a boy or a girl for having a family. And do not forget to bring your evolved children who followed your advice so that we get an opportunity to take a look and assess what kind of specimens they are. LOL

Prasadji wanted a tonne. This is just a kilo. LOL. And how many kilos make a tonne?

 

[Vaagmi]

Both fun and sin have desire as the substratum..technically fun and sin function with the same principles.

Dont waste time on fun and sin. Go and have a peg of Gin on lime cordial. you will reach nirvana quickly and merge with the UC. LOL

 

[renuka]

Dont waste time on fun and sin. Go and have a peg of Gin on lime cordial. you will reach nirvana quickly and merge with the UC. LOL

There is an easier way out..The Ajamila Syndrome.

That is do anything we want in life from fun to sin and do not forget to name a child a very specific name of a Divinity and when we are dying just call out our child's name and Lo Behold we are saved!LOL

 

[V.Balasubramani]

This is the problem with our in-house, far-away-from-TBs, lost-to-an-alien-culture oldy TBs coming here to blah blah. Their advise to others is always very liberal. If they are so much sold on the idea of anarchical freedom to the TB women and men, will they advise and bring up their own children in that kind of "anarchy-everywhere" atmosphere?

They should call and tell their daughter the moment she reaches puberty that now that she is ready to enjoy life as her glands and hormones are fully functional, she should pick up one boy every day new and go out for the night with him. She can return by midnight and the Dad will be waiting to receive her at the door. He will open the door for her. She should be advised to shun anyone who talks to her about culture, heritage etc., because they are equivalent to the four letter words. He should check up her personal bag every day and keep the stock of ....you know what.....replenished. Or better take away whatever stock is there if the girl herself is careful about getting pregnant, because not even the sheath should be allowed to stand between her and her pleasures. And same advise for the boys too. Once extra piece will be to take care not to commit money and wealth in any of these transactions(lest our oldie friend may be in the street begging for his next meal unless he has a pension account). Anyway the encounters are supposed to be with women who are supposed to be well to do so that the boy can bring home an occasional gift.

And these dads can throw a party at home in the night to celebrate whenever the daughter/son crosses a milestone. Of course these parties will be rave parties in which wine will flow and chicken 60 will come swimming in choicest liquor. The milestones can be, say, when the girl or boy reaches the 50th or 100th short term relationship and breaks it after enough exploration. Every valentine day celebration can be converted into a "key Club" like wild enjoyment opportunity. With enough SINBAD women and men around and enough oldies like our in-house vidwans around as organizers, the event can be managed with strict discipline without any poaching by a wild unsatisfied SINBAD member.

And if a veteran of such freedom and exploration, after reaching the end of it all, comes to the party venue he can be asked to sing "be roofu kamre mein khansi ki tan tan, .........jinhein naaz hai hind par woh kahan hai? kahan hai? kahan hai? and all can applaud and give him a thin peg of Gin (because his liver has already become a mosquito-net) and dismiss him.

Hi Oldies!! Do you have the guts to do this? Please do this and then come here to lecture to the unfortunate TBs who struggle to get a boy or a girl for having a family. And do not forget to bring your evolved children who followed your advice so that we get an opportunity to take a look and assess what kind of specimens they are. LOL

Prasadji wanted a tonne. This is just a kilo. LOL. And how many kilos make a tonne?

:clap2:

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

Dont waste time on fun and sin. Go and have a peg of Gin on lime cordial. you will reach nirvana quickly and merge with the UC. LOL

Fun is contagious!! See Burning alcohol and and Biting Bocardi addicts go for smooth Gin and Cordial to stay in fun rhyming with Sin. Fun is never Sin!!

 

[renuka]

There are those who preach that they are in perfect control of their senses but in reality they sing: "Daily Goli Nikle Automatic Tan Tan"!LOL

 

[krish44]

This is the problem with our in-house, far-away-from-TBs, lost-to-an-alien-culture oldy TBs coming here to blah blah. Their advise to others is always very liberal. If they are so much sold on the idea of anarchical freedom to the TB women and men, will they advise and bring up their own children in that kind of "anarchy-everywhere" atmosphere?

They should call and tell their daughter the moment she reaches puberty that now that she is ready to enjoy life as her glands and hormones are fully functional, she should pick up one boy every day new and go out for the night with him. She can return by midnight and the Dad will be waiting to receive her at the door. He will open the door for her. She should be advised to shun anyone who talks to her about culture, heritage etc., because they are equivalent to the four letter words. He should check up her personal bag every day and keep the stock of ....you know what.....replenished. Or better take away whatever stock is there if the girl herself is careful about getting pregnant, because not even the sheath should be allowed to stand between her and her pleasures. And same advise for the boys too. Once extra piece will be to take care not to commit money and wealth in any of these transactions(lest our oldie friend may be in the street begging for his next meal unless he has a pension account). Anyway the encounters are supposed to be with women who are supposed to be well to do so that the boy can bring home an occasional gift.

And these dads can throw a party at home in the night to celebrate whenever the daughter/son crosses a milestone. Of course these parties will be rave parties in which wine will flow and chicken 60 will come swimming in choicest liquor. The milestones can be, say, when the girl or boy reaches the 50th or 100th short term relationship and breaks it after enough exploration. Every valentine day celebration can be converted into a "key Club" like wild enjoyment opportunity. With enough SINBAD women and men around and enough oldies like our in-house vidwans around as organizers, the event can be managed with strict discipline without any poaching by a wild unsatisfied SINBAD member.

And if a veteran of such freedom and exploration, after reaching the end of it all, comes to the party venue he can be asked to sing "be roofu kamre mein khansi ki tan tan, .........jinhein naaz hai hind par woh kahan hai? kahan hai? kahan hai? and all can applaud and give him a thin peg of Gin (because his liver has already become a mosquito-net) and dismiss him.

Hi Oldies!! Do you have the guts to do this? Please do this and then come here to lecture to the unfortunate TBs who struggle to get a boy or a girl for having a family. And do not forget to bring your evolved children who followed your advice so that we get an opportunity to take a look and assess what kind of specimens they are. LOL

Prasadji wanted a tonne. This is just a kilo. LOL. And how many kilos make a tonne?

there is a song 'poonai kannai mudikondal bhulogam irundu pohuma miyaon miyaon
it is social reality that that educated , career oriented working women have become free and are ready to explore

and experiment and decide on the choice of the appropriate partner.

if someone make the grade and the terms they have set, they will go further.

otherwise they will drop him like a hot potato.

it does not matter whose son or daughter is getting what treatment.

parental approval or frowning hardly matters as these children are full blown adults in late twenties or even early

thirtees.

parents would only be making fools of themselves if they consider they have a hold over them by virtue of being their

parents

parents caneither face these realities and come to terms with it or face the prospect of living in remote agraharams or old

age homes oblivious of happening around them.

eve ki beti does not require madad of vaagmiji , hamey naaz hein in betiyon mey jo naye hind ko bana rahe hain.

 

[Vaagmi]

1.there is a song 'poonai kannai mudikondal bhulogam irundu pohuma miyaon miyaon
it is social reality that that educated , career oriented working women have become free and are ready to explore
and experiment and decide on the choice of the appropriate partner. if someone make the grade and the terms they have set, they will go further. otherwise they will drop him like a hot potato. it does not matter whose son or daughter is getting what treatment.
2. parental approval or frowning hardly matters as these children are full blown adults in late twenties or even early
thirtees.
3. parents would only be making fools of themselves if they consider they have a hold over them by virtue of being their parents parents can either face these realities and come to terms with it or face the prospect of living in remote agraharams or old age homes oblivious of happening around them.
4. eve ki beti does not require madad of vaagmiji , hamey naaz hein in betiyon mey jo naye hind ko bana rahe hain.

Dear Krishji,

I have numbered your response for convenience of replying.

1. My point is completely missed. The general lecturing blah blah about women becoming bold and experimenting etc may be left alone. They are known to everyone here. Come to the point quickly. If you are so impressed by the good of such "becoming bold, experimenting with men, discarding if he is just a pull and not a kall etc., " then my question is very simple and straight. Will you actively encourage your daughter to experiment like any other SINBAD? Will you start quite early in the game, when she is just entering college, and tell her to experiment so that she is ready for a serious relationship when she is a graduate? Giving in to the demand or a fait accompli or helplessness due to an unwanted pregnancy is a different thing. The question is not about it. That will happen we all know because there is no option and then we also know that people will come here to sing the song "யாம் பெற்ற இன்பம் பெருக இவ்வையகம்". It is not about that. Will you tell your children to go for dangerous experimenting with their body and emotions because that is good for them as you appear to think? Please do not divert. Answer please.

2. After surrendering the parental control people tell these children are beyond parental control. Do they ever wonder when or why they lost that control? and for heaven's sake please do not equate parental control with male chauvinism towards girl child. The problem is many parents think a frowning should send the child scurrying into the safe arms of the parents. They never bother to observe and grow with the child as it evolves. They never care to know what is happening to that individual deep inside her/his mind. They do not know how that individual is struggling to come to terms with her/his surroundings, peers, friends and enemies, enticements and dangers. And then they claim they frowned and the child did not bother. Frowning is duty done to crow about while getting deeply involved and investing time is molding an individual. We are, as parents, too lazy to get involved. That is the fact.

3. Living in a remote agrahAram or oldies home far away is far far better than living with children and watching them breaking down into eventual complete destruction and chaos. And it is certainly better than living with values and culture which are alien to the very kernel with which I am made.

When "khansi ki tan tan" comes and hits because of Aquired Immune Deficiency, there will be no mind or time to think of any naaz - booth or bhavya. LOL.

And that will be the moment of final denouement. Devil is very tempting and sin is always very sweet indeed.

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

there is a song 'poonai kannai mudikondal bhulogam irundu pohuma miyaon miyaon
it is social reality that that educated , career oriented working women have become free and are ready to explore

and experiment and decide on the choice of the appropriate partner.

if someone make the grade and the terms they have set, they will go further.

otherwise they will drop him like a hot potato.

it does not matter whose son or daughter is getting what treatment.

parental approval or frowning hardly matters as these children are full blown adults in late twenties or even early

thirtees.

parents would only be making fools of themselves if they consider they have a hold over them by virtue of being their

parents

parents caneither face these realities and come to terms with it or face the prospect of living in remote agraharams or old

age homes oblivious of happening around them.

eve ki beti does not require madad of vaagmiji , hamey naaz hein in betiyon mey jo naye hind ko bana rahe hain.

You are visualizing Aaj Ka Nari! They are dreaming about Madisar Maami!!

 

[V.Balasubramani]

Let this full blown adult girls go for a free dating after fixing an achievable target every day and the sitting duck Members who are only making fool of themselves by arguing anxiously in their favour , can watch such developments with all anxiety and are also free to follow these girls closely, cover their activities in detail, I mean dating firsthand experiences with different boys, age wise, caste wise, etc and learn lot through them their multiple health outcomes too at least at the fag end of their life, before getting admitted as an inpatient in Dr.Ram Manohar Lohia Hospital, Lok Naayak Jayaprakash Hospital, etc LOL

"Sarve Jana Sukhino Bhavantu"

 

[renuka]

I think many people still think that dating more than one person involves emotional attachment.

It does not have to be so.

Females are capable of multi tasking..so its ain't too hard for them to handle multiple relationships.

The problem is males still do not want to imagine that a female can be capable of being emotionally detached.

Many males still hold on to the belief that a female does not forget her first love or first kiss or first whatever...but if you ask a female sometimes she might not even remember the name of her first guy!LOL

Males want to believe that a female does not forget them thinking that they(the male) left an impact on a female's life..the truth is females can be brutally detached even though they might portray emotional needs to a male.

Most of the while a female who wants to play the game of non-attached love lures the male to make him believe that she needs him but in reality she just needs to feed on him like a black widow.

Once she has drained him dry..she goes on to her next victim.

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

Let this full blown adult girls go for a free dating after fixing an achievable target every day and the sitting duck Members who are only making fool of themselves by arguing anxiously in their favour , can watch such developments with all anxiety and are also free to follow these girls closely, cover their activities in detail, I mean dating firsthand experiences with different boys, age wise, caste wise, etc and learn lot through them their multiple health outcomes too at least at the fag end of their life, before getting admitted as an inpatient in Dr.Ram Manohar Lohia Hospital, Lok Naayak Jayaprakash Hospital, etc LOL

"Sarve Jana Sukhino Bhavantu"

Aaj Ka Nari are intelligent and are fully aware of their Health and well beiong ! If you are suggesting sexually transmitted diseases they have enough knowledge about Safe Sex

 

[renuka]

Aaj Ka Nari are intelligent and are fully aware of their Health and well beiong ! If you are suggesting sexually transmitted diseases they have enough knowledge about Safe Sex

you are right!

The Onnum Theriyadu Papa hardly exists anymore.