Enakku therinthatai potten. You are absolutely correct. After all you
are a Poetess, where I am!!
Balasubramanian
Ambattur
Actually the ideal name will be
Bottle brush crested crane.
Enakku therinthatai potten. You are absolutely correct. After all you
are a Poetess, where I am!!
Balasubramanian
Ambattur
I am not too fond of using garlic and onions in my cooking not becos I do not like the taste but becos I am too lazy to peel onions and garlic.But if someone else peels it for me..I will use it in my cooking.
Ginger is easy to cut,just crush it in the pestle.
cookery - NO Please
Good Tamil Food (without Garlic) is the food to die for. Not all cooking is better than kissing. From some people I have the kiss than their food. Actually I want nothing from some people (no Kiss no cooking).
The produce is mouthwatering.
I was just reading the about Dasa Danam (10 items for donation)
It was listed as:
1)Cow
2)Land
3)Til seeds
4)Gold
5)Ghee/butter
6)Garments
7)Grains
8)Sugar
9)Silver
10)Salt.
I was just thinking that these are basically for sustenance in this world.
Lots of such donations are also done during funerals(but I wonder who gives land and cows these days) ..so technically speaking do any rites and rituals of the funerals have to be as complicated as they are right now?
I was just thinking...that many tribals too have simple funeral rights and they are happy with it.
Other religions too have quite simple rites and no problems are faced too.
Do we really need all complicated rites and rituals??
I don't know about funeral rites; so I am not getting in that.
Yes, cow danam is done presently too. In most places, instead of a cow, cash is accepted to certain extend to the value of the cow. Don't know about land though.
Cheers!
Dear Renu,............. Do we really need all complicated rites and rituals??
Dear Renu,
The ten 'danam's are given during a man's 60th and 80th birthday celebrations. There are six more 'danam'
items added to these ten, during the rituals following a person's demise. I remember four of them - umbrella,
'maNai palagai' (now plastic maNais are demanded), slippers, lamp.
Real 'gO danam' and land danam are given only by very rich persons. It is replaced by money kept over a 'mattai thEngai'.
In Sing. Chennai, there are packages for these rituals costing between Rs. 60,000 to 1.5 lakhs. A lady from our close circle of
relatives, opted to go for Arya samAj type funeral ceremony, when she got fed up with these demands!! opcorn:
Tell me when you are dropping in Brisbane. Mostly I don't use garlic or onion in my cooking. Mostly iyengar style cooking including satramadhu. ( But I do cook non-vegitarian food like an expert too).
Cheers!
I was just discussing this with my mother and she said that it all depends on the mind set of the individual.
Those who feel and think that all complicated rites and rituals are necessary will surely desire it upon death and it will help them go across in their "eyes"
But for those of us who can see the logic behind it as it is not 100% essential and accept death as a transition can do away with any complicated rites and rituals and just focus of trying to keep God in our mind all the while with the hope that God will be our very last thought too.
My mother is a very practical person..I feel she has a very valid point here.
I guess when the awesome couple gifted the land, they passed on their sin as a free attachment / bonus.