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[renuka]

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For good looking and easy going people there is only one way of earning easy and big money.
Certainly I will not advise that!

Dear VR Ji,

That profession is not really too easy.Needs lots of discipline and perseverance too.
They have no leave, no sick leave, no maternity leave, no retirement fund.
They have to make hay while the sun shines cos competition is stiff!

Many think its easy to venture into this field but in reality that's not true.
So in this world nothing really comes easy.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

We need a lot of strength to refuse
to yield to temptations and refrain
from possessing unclaimed properties!

ref post 666
dearVR!
nice !!add this also
Q:who is ekapathni man?

Ane who is not having relation with other,, lady when opportunity avilable,not because of not getting that opportunity
Q: who is honest person?
A: who is not taking anything which are lieing unclaimed or following rules even when no oneis toenforce it

with regards,
guruvayurappan

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

If a Kovalan is caught hold of, Madhavi stays

well provided for a long long time!

Dear VR Ji,

That profession is not really too easy.Needs lots of discipline and perseverance too.
They have no leave, no sick leave, no maternity leave, no retirement fund.
They have to make hay while the sun shines cos competition is stiff!

Many think its easy to venture into this field but in reality that's not true.
So in this world nothing really comes easy.

 

[renuka]

If a Kovalan is caught hold of, Madhavi stays

well provided for a long long time!

As long we have a Kannagi to carry him over to Madhavi!

 

[nannilam_balasubramanian]

Dear VR Ji,

That profession is not really too easy.Needs lots of discipline and perseverance too.
They have no leave, no sick leave, no maternity leave, no retirement fund.
They have to make hay while the sun shines cos competition is stiff!

Many think its easy to venture into this field but in reality that's not true.
So in this world nothing really comes easy.

I think that something has just been discovered in life and art which
is not a practical one.

Balasubramanian
Ambattur

 

[renuka]

ref post 666
dearVR!
nice !!add this also
Q:who is ekapathni man?

Ane who is not having relation with other,, lady when opportunity avilable,not because of not getting that opportunity

guruvayurappan

dear sir,

If anyone made use of the opportunity and got caught he can always claim innocence and still say he is Eka Patni cos he never married the other woman!!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Proves that often enough

Parenting IS ...

feeding the mouths that bite you :hungry:

and eating the words that slight you! :ear:

 

[guruvayurappan]

post 672
dear Ravi !
it is all because of thinging money alone will happiness.
the real happiness is not in earning money and how we spent.
everybody will be happy when they do the work they like.
most of are unhappy because of compultion (due to society,tradition.capability and situation)
even the queen of UK may not be happy since she could not get daughter-in-law of her choice
the man earned money in foreign country, but was he able to give pleasure of a husband to his wife.
it is like buying a bed for sleepless man(padukai vankalam tookanthai vangamudiuma)
best of luck,
guruvayurappan

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Technically correct madam Renu!:yo:
You would have become a world class lawyer :moony:

if you had NOT become a doctor first!

dear sir,

If anyone made use of the opportunity and got caught he can always claim innocence and still say he is Eka Patni cos he never married the other woman!!

 

[guruvayurappan]

dear VR ji and renukaji !
yeh he will be saying ekapathni vrathan to every lady he is having contact. he is not ekapathni ,but ekapatta patnivrathan.
katinavunukku oru veedu, kattathavanukku pala veedu.namku yen entha vambu. koonthal ulla seemati alli mutiyattum ellai avathi patatum
cheers,
guruvayurappan

 

[renuka]

Technically correct madam Renu!:yo:
You would have become a world class lawyer :moony:

if you had NOT become a doctor first!

Dear VR Ji,

Once when I was in the government service one medical assistant forged my signature to get Pethidine for himself cos he was addicted to it.
So when I checked the records the next day I got angry and reported it to the director saying that my signature was forged.

Ok then I think the medical assistant took "revenge" by writing a complain letter to the director by making it sound that a patient was writing it and wrote that this doctor was very rude to the patient etc.
The letter had no date and no name of the patient but some address given.
I got the address checked and that house was not even occupied.

So I suspected some foul play here.
But the person who wrote the letter whom I presume was that Medical Assistant misspelled my name as Dr Renuga instead of Dr Renuka.

My director didn't want to listen to my story that such a incident didn't take place.
He asked me to write an official letter to explain why I was rude to a patient.

So I wrote in that explanation that this letter is not addressed to me cos my name is Renuka and not Renuga and further more there was no date in the letter and so we have no idea when the alleged incident took place.
So for all technical purposes I do not need to explain something which is not addressed to me.

My director yelled at me when he saw my explanation but he had no choice but to accept it.

 

[guruvayurappan]

dear renukaji !
yes. we have to be really pity for them because somebody earning lot of money f& luxuriousr life while someone else
is strugglingto make both ends meet even though their proffessionis same .one MNCtype and another is like our platform shop.any proffession needs good PRO and pubilicity!!
good luck,
guruvayurappan

 

[guruvayurappan]

post686
dear renuka ji!
as Mrs.VR told first you are doctor and became perfect lawyer also co of situation
nice to read that incident.
bestof luck
guruvayurappan

 

[Raghy]

Sorry friend! I have to BE honest with myself rather than utter sweet lies!

What a sad day! More disappointing reply, of all the persons, from V R! I am not expecting sweet lies. I am quite surprised you even considered that! Well, I analyse the subject. Father's obligation is not only earning money; he is also obligated to make efforts to get his children educated. From what you say,his daughter is not exactly educated or qualified to seek an employment.. this father may have gone for few years; but he had an obligation to seek the welfare of the children, to my knowledge, education is one of them.

This man failed his obligation to encourage and persuade his children to get proper education. This man has failed to be with his children to share their growing up process.

You think he must be respected? That sounds like a sweet lie to me!

Thanks for the conversation. You are welcome to the last word.

Cheers!

 

[C RAVI]

OK, now I think, the husband and the girl story is over..

Let me share one more real life incident..


A MAN have 2 daughters from his first wife.

His wife died, while delivering the second daughter.

The most loving family members of the wife, requested the MAN to let the second baby been brought up by them.

He accepted their request and the girl was with the relatives/grandma of her departed mother, in a small township in south of Tamil Nadu.

Upon every ones request, including his departed wife's in-laws, the MAN married an another lady.

He got a girl baby from his second wife.

So his first daughter from the first wife and the only daughter from his second wife were been brought up in Chennai, by him and his second wife.

When the second daughter in south of TN completed her High School, he brought her to Chennai to be with his family, for higher education.

This girl, may be being away from his father and step mother, until her age of 17, did not agree to call her step mother as "AMMA"

She totally refused very firmly to her dad's request of calling her step mother as "AMMA"

The Man got too upset with her and seem to have lost any interest in her.

Just after completing his duty of marrying her off to a guy, he totally discarded his relationship with this girl. Ironically, not only with this daughter BUT with his first daughter as well, as she was supporting her younger sister a lot, though she used to call her step mother "AMMA", unlike her younger sister.

He refused to consider her as his daughter and still now remained cut off from her. Remains cut off from both his married daughters.

If this MAN would have not been adamant or if the girl would have been more courageous, she could have at least married a guy whom she liked. A guy who is her aunt's son.

Fortunately, she could win over the love of her husband and in-laws after lots and lots of struggle against oppositions and insult. She is now very much happy and healthy in her married life with 2 kids.

But have no child-parents relationship.



Is this because of the wrath of this Man/Dad OR his second wife OR both??!??

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

# 686.

Your cool thinking, observation and alertness saved you dear! :clap2: :thumb:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

That man is working hard, saving money and sending it to his family.

It is the duty of the mother to guide and help the children to study well.

If she just watches T.V, gossips and naps all the time, what can the man living so far away do?

My husband was away from home for over 10 years (1982 to 1992).

My sons were aged 11 and 8 then. We three stayed in our company quarters.

I used to sit with my sons when they studied. I would read/ write/ copy music or dance lessons or do some other useful work.

If they get up early in the morning I will be up before them. In fact 4-30 A.M. had been my rising time for many years. Now it is 5-15. A.M.

My husband would visit us for three days in a year but he will spend a
fortnight with his mother. That helped me and my sons to bond well since we were on our own.

When my sons did very well in the X, XII and IIT JEE, people were praising me more than them.

I was credited with the name tapasvini (whose sole aim was to bring up her sons well).

My neighbor's son would tell me often,

"Aunty! mee abbayile kaadu. evaru mee kaduppulo putttinaa vaaru great avuthaaru!

(Whoever is fortunate to born as your son will surely achieve greatness)

The mother of the episode quoted WILL never impress me. Sorry friend!

What a sad day! More disappointing reply, of all the persons, from V R! I am not expecting sweet lies. I am quite surprised you even considered that! Well, I analyse the subject. Father's obligation is not only earning money; he is also obligated to make efforts to get his children educated. From what you say,his daughter is not exactly educated or qualified to seek an employment.. this father may have gone for few years; but he had an obligation to seek the welfare of the children, to my knowledge, education is one of them.

This man failed his obligation to encourage and persuade his children to get proper education. This man has failed to be with his children to share their growing up process.

You think he must be respected? That sounds like a sweet lie to me!

Thanks for the conversation. You are welcome to the last word.

Cheers!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Many men do not know how to treat

one of these three women in his life...

his mother, his daughter or his wife! out:

 

[C RAVI]

My neighbor's son would tell me often,

"Aunty! mee abbayilue kaathu. evaru mee kaduppulo putttinaa vaaru great avuthaaru!

(Whoever is fortunate to born as your son will surely achieve greatness)

The mother of the episode quoted WILL never impress me. Sorry friend!

Shmt. Visalakshi Ramani,

I would like to add one more honest appreciation, in all your praise...

Whoever is fortunate to have a lady like you as his wife will surely achieve true meaning in his life, will ever be happy, will ever be in peace and will ever be having a great degree of love,respect, admiration, obligation and a great sense of gratitude towards his wife. As well, would have a honest realization of impossibility in suitably rewarding his wife in return.

 

[nannilam_balasubramanian]

Renuka Mam

I do not blame the men, it is the women who make the men to make the mistakes.

Balasubramanian
Ambattur

 

[biswa]

Ha, ha ha. This is a good one. Now let me wait for the deluge which is going to come your way.

 

[renuka]

Renuka Mam

I do not blame the men, it is the women who make the men to make the mistakes.

Balasubramanian
Ambattur

Wow!! this is really not fair...it takes two to Tango!!!
Men always blame their lack of will power on women.

Ok I will give you a simple example..just say a gay man tries to seduce a straight man..he will never suceed isnt it?
Cos a straight man will never want to Tango with a gay man.
Have you seen or heard of any man saying "OMG he seduced me...its not my fault"

So dont blame women alone..men are also at fault.BTW just say a woman whom a man really doesnt fancy tries to seduce him..it just won't work.
There has to be interest too from the male side.

 

[biswa]

Ok, Renuka ma'am has opened the account. Anybody else?

 

[biswa]

Ok Renuka, somebody has to defend. In the famous biblical story, who do you think was to blame? Adam or Eve?

 

[renuka]

Ok Renuka, somebody has to defend. In the famous biblical story, who do you think was to blame? Adam or Eve?

Adam's serpent...sorry I meant the Serpent that tempted Eve to eat the forbidden fruit.