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Think it over!
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The husband will be making MONEY and 
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his wife will me making him a MONKEY!
opcorn:his wife will me making him a MONKEY!
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Smt.Visalakshi Ramani,
The problem here is "MONEY" and different mind set of "MOTHER/WIFE" and "FATHER/HUSBAND", in bringing up the children.
Thus all ganged up and confronted him. Asking him to leave the house. BUT for sure, keep sending money..LOL!!!
What a terrible mental agony, the husband must be going through???
How can he even feel like going out of home and out of country, back to the same place to work, after having decided to settle in peace in his home/home country AND with the realization that, the family members need his money for their lavish life style BUT not to head to his request, not to head to his wishes and just to be a money making machine.
Why should he go to hell back and suffer when no one is willing to accept him in his home by his own family members, just because his ideologies are different??
Else, he has to stay back in his home and close his eyes towards all happening in his home, conducted by his family members.
We hear many such stories here in Dubai, in our social circle.
Husband remain frugal here in Dubai and send all the money to India, hoping, the family members will be responsible, save money for the better use, during constraints etc..etc. Thinking, they will be revered and honored by their family members for the sacrifices the father is doing, remaining away from the comfort of home and working with lots of pains and complications in their work, under most restricted and even cruel sponsors.
guruvayurappan
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dear renukaji !
it may be true to some extent since dogs are intelligent and obdient animal to it master.
but its inborn quality make it to bite it master oneday. puli valarthavanukku puliyal savu-neechal therinthavanukku
thaneeril savu
cheers,
guruvayurappan
it may be true to some extent since dogs are intelligent and obdient animal to it master.
but its inborn quality make it to bite it master oneday. puli valarthavanukku puliyal savu-neechal therinthavanukku
thaneeril savu
cheers,
guruvayurappan
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# 639 by Mr. C.Ravi.
The girl will go on loving him.
She will go on receiving his gifts.
She will go on getting his attention.
When she comes across someone interested in her
earning 6 K or more she will quietly marry that guy
leaving this poor chap heart broken.
If money is the criteria, why does she love an impossible candidate?
If love is the criteria, she can build her love nest straightaway by
continuing to work.
The mother may mean well but she certainly is kilarufying the matters
instead of clarifying them. :doh:
The girl will go on loving him.
She will go on receiving his gifts.
She will go on getting his attention.
When she comes across someone interested in her
earning 6 K or more she will quietly marry that guy
leaving this poor chap heart broken.
If money is the criteria, why does she love an impossible candidate?
If love is the criteria, she can build her love nest straightaway by
continuing to work.
The mother may mean well but she certainly is kilarufying the matters
instead of clarifying them. :doh:
Words of Sober and Consolation are not easy to spell but it has its own effect
in the long run.
Balasubramanian
Ambattur
in the long run.
Balasubramanian
Ambattur
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# 653 by Mr. C.Ravi.
The father will make money.
His family will make him
either a monkey or a monk!!!
Monk??? :decision: Monkey???
The father will make money.
His family will make him
either a monkey or a monk!!!
Monk??? :decision: Monkey???
Dear Ravi
I was in UAE recently on some work - going by today's prevailing costs I wonder what quality of life
one can have as an individual [or as a family] if the monthly income is less than AED 15000/- ??? !!!
Yay yem
I was in UAE recently on some work - going by today's prevailing costs I wonder what quality of life
one can have as an individual [or as a family] if the monthly income is less than AED 15000/- ??? !!!
Yay yem
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# 641 by Renu.
The woman wants to become Queen Ant/ Queen termite.
She should be fed by her servants.
She must be protected and pampered by her husband.
She will put on a lot of weight, produce a few children and
become a matriarch for the rest of her life.
The woman wants to become Queen Ant/ Queen termite.
She should be fed by her servants.
She must be protected and pampered by her husband.
She will put on a lot of weight, produce a few children and
become a matriarch for the rest of her life.
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Queen ant and her soldier servants!!!
Sowbagyavathy V R, Gretings.
தும்பை விட்டு வாலைப் பிடிப்பவன் புத்திசாலியா? He must have been visting them every year or as often as that. He must have known the way his wife and children were living. Why didn't he do something in the very beginning? Girls will draw male attention; that is their nature. If that girl is old enough, why can't he arrange a marriage for her? If she is not old enough, if she is very young, why can't he draw the line on the sand? He may have meant well; that's why I said he should have been more tactful. I know most others don't even read my messages in full. Kindly look for the words I use. I am a father; i shall never say I must be obeyed and should be respected. He should earn his respect. Rspect can't be earned by his sending big money working from overseas. Did the children ask for that? Did they ask him to leave the family to earn money? What did he earn? கனவுகளை விற்ற காசு! Children don't desire their father to go overseas to earn lots and lots of money; they just need their father to be around to comfort them when they have a tooth-ache; to take them to the exhibition; to take them to the temple festival and buy them glass bangles. Money will not earn him respect.
His wife and his children will get used to his absence. They will find their own way to setle in life. Of course, they will find it hard in the initial stages; but I don't think they will cease to survive.
On the other hand, he would demand respect from his new wife and she would tell him where to go!
Cheers!
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With neither discipline nor education, how will they settle down in the new life, minus the money sent by their father ???
For good looking and easy going people there is only one way of earning easy and big money.
Certainly I will not advise that!
For good looking and easy going people there is only one way of earning easy and big money.
Certainly I will not advise that!
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Sorry friend! I have to BE honest with myself rather than utter sweet lies!
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guruvayurappan
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dee ear VR !
i am conveying my sorrow very late since i was not visted the forum because of holidaying.
i loved LIFE IS LIKE THAT very much and never thought it will come to an end abruptly like this.
tendulkar matter (retirement) might have played a part in this case(This thread has become very huge and is likely to crash anytime. So instead of waiting till it crashes, I decided to [COLOR=#da7911 !important][COLOR=#da7911 !important]round[/COLOR][/COLOR] it off now.)
any how your new think it over is having the essence of ponderingandwondering
guruvayurappan
i am conveying my sorrow very late since i was not visted the forum because of holidaying.
i loved LIFE IS LIKE THAT very much and never thought it will come to an end abruptly like this.
tendulkar matter (retirement) might have played a part in this case(This thread has become very huge and is likely to crash anytime. So instead of waiting till it crashes, I decided to [COLOR=#da7911 !important][COLOR=#da7911 !important]round[/COLOR][/COLOR] it off now.)
any how your new think it over is having the essence of ponderingandwondering
guruvayurappan
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Q: Who is a happily married man???
A : One whose behavior is the same
whether or not his wife is around!
Q: Who is a well bought up child???
A : One whose behavior is the same
whether or not his father is around!
A : One whose behavior is the same
whether or not his wife is around!
Q: Who is a well bought up child???
A : One whose behavior is the same
whether or not his father is around!
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dear Sir,
No need to feel sorry.
The two threads Points to Ponder and Life is Like that became very huge.
I was not able to blog any posts.
now they have been made into sticky threads.
They will remain right on top of the list in general discussions.
The same two threads are now being continued in "Think It Over."
The thread Quotable Quotes has also been merged into it
making it a Triveni Sangamam.
You won't miss anything if you just visit the new thread
"Think it over!"
We will continue to ponder, wonder and quote in the same thread.ray2:
No need to feel sorry.
The two threads Points to Ponder and Life is Like that became very huge.
I was not able to blog any posts.
now they have been made into sticky threads.
They will remain right on top of the list in general discussions.
The same two threads are now being continued in "Think It Over."
The thread Quotable Quotes has also been merged into it
making it a Triveni Sangamam.
You won't miss anything if you just visit the new thread
"Think it over!"
We will continue to ponder, wonder and quote in the same thread.
ray2:
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Shri Anand Manohar,
The need and the possibilities to tackle with the possible quality of life does differs from people to people.
Many are living as a family irrespective of their different earnings. Families with AED.15000/10000/7500 and even with AED.5000 are living here in UAE. If not in Dubai, in Sharjah that is not too far. Plenty of couples with varying income are staying in Sharjah and come to work in Dubai. In sharjah family accommodations are very very cheap and as well the cost of other products needed to run the family.
Neither this girl nor that guy belong to well to do family. Both belong to the families that got up from the scratch and now just having a descent survival.
They can well live in a sharing family accommodation, in Dubai itself with AED.7500 a month. Still they need not to starve any day and can have reasonable outing every weekend. And can save some money too.
If they both belong to very well to do family and had experienced lavish life style with the help of their parents, may be such people would not make up their mind to live a bit frugal life of their own, not keeping the hope and the drive to put efforts towards progress, though they are qualified with only High School.
What ever the case may be, if the girl is not ready to have a specific quality of life after marriage with this guy, she should not allow him to spend for her now, in the name of Love and Lover.
Is she too young, at this age of 25, that she could not understand her responsibility towards the other? OR she knows BUT just justifying herself to server her interest with the notion that - "I am not asking anything from that Guy!! He is mad on me and spending his time and money for me"? And may just agree at the drop of a hat to the proposal from any other guy with high salary?
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odu meen oda uru meen varumvarai
kaaththirukkumaam kokku! :fish2:
kaaththirukkumaam kokku! :fish2:
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Dinaar??? :decision: Dill ka raajaa???
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We have just moved into a bigger and better house (thread)
since the size of the family (posts) has increased!
since the size of the family (posts) has increased!
dear Sir,
No need to feel sorry.
The two threads Points to Ponder and Life is Like that became very huge.
I was not able to blog any posts.
now they have been made into sticky threads.
They will remain right on top of the list in general discussions.
The same two threads are now being continued in "Think It Over."
The thread Quotable Quotes has also been merged into it
making it a Triveni Sangamam.
You won't miss anything if you just visit the new thread
"Think it over!"
We will continue to ponder, wonder and quote in the same thread.
C RAVI
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Very well said Shmt.Visalakshi Ramani...
A Man living along with his wife, sons, daughters from the beginning and continuing still, with his Wife Working as well MAY have a different mind set, due one or many reasons beyond personal ideologies, having himself accepted the way his family members dress, acts and reacts. Its like - "I join you all and develop the mind set to justify all, for, I need to be in peace and pleasure and in good books of you all"
The man in your story has different ideologies and different circumstances. He was confident that he has value in his home and would be respected for his ideologies that all are for the betterment of the family.
He neither wants people to frown upon him nor wants his daughter to get into trouble and ruin her life.
Unfortunately, his wife is not willing to value his ideologies.
And when children find the support of their Mother, Father is nothing but a dummy piece.
Some MEN could over come this realization of being one self as dummy piece by changing themselves and moving perfectly along the flow. Some MEN are pained. Especially those who have lost their comfort, peace and happiness for years together, working hard in a foreign land with troubles in work place and in their bachelors accommodation.
guruvayurappan
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ref post 666
dearVR!
nice !!add this also
Q:who is ekapathni man?
A
ne who is not having relation with other,, lady when opportunity avilable,not because of not getting that opportunity
Q: who is honest person?
A: who is not taking anything which are lieing unclaimed or following rules even when no oneis toenforce it
with regards,
guruvayurappan
dearVR!
nice !!add this also
Q:who is ekapathni man?
A
ne who is not having relation with other,, lady when opportunity avilable,not because of not getting that opportunityQ: who is honest person?
A: who is not taking anything which are lieing unclaimed or following rules even when no oneis toenforce it
with regards,
guruvayurappan
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Words of Sober and Consolation, though not easy to spell out,
but it has its own effect in the long run.
Balasubramanian
Ambattur
Words of Sober and Consolation, though not easy to spell out,
but it has its own effect in the long run.
Balasubramanian
Ambattur
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Mummy goes with the flow. :bowl:
Daddy wants to control the flow. :hand:
So they make the daddy a dummy :loco:
and mummy very yummy!
A gang of free loaders!!! :mad2:
Daddy wants to control the flow. :hand:
So they make the daddy a dummy :loco:
and mummy very yummy!
A gang of free loaders!!! :mad2:
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