There is no one and only way in the journey of Self/God Realization.
Feel free to choose the multiple choice God has given us to realize HIM.
a) Advaitam(Non Dualism)
b) Vishishta Advaitam(Qualified Non Dualism)
c) Dvaitam(Dualism)
note: this is the only multiple choice question where there is more than one answer, no right or wrong,no negative marking ,you mark the answer paper yourself and you are both the student and the teacher.
Absolutely right. There is no single answer to the question and there are three correct answers. It is up to the individual to choose the path.
Personally each one of us follow the path already chosen by our parents. Mostly we don't change the path of our parents. It is just accidental and it is not our choice.
Then coming to my personal choice, I just share my experience.
I read several books from J.Krishnamoorthi to Swamy Vivekanandha to Paramacharyal.
I read Azhwar, Nayanmar, Thirumoolar, Pattinathar, Arunagirinathar and others.
Thirumoolar is some thing which is great. Thirumandhiram is a wonderful literature. Those who don't know Tamil can have English translation also in the website.
Late CNA adopted the words of Thirumoolar `Onre Kulam, Oruvane Devan' ஒன்றே குலம் ஒருவனே தேவன். It has appealed to a declared rationalist like Late Sri CNA.
There are several wonderful sentences like the above and one has to go inside and taste it.
Pattinathar is suppose to be an avatar of wealth God Kuberan but gave up all materialistic pleasures and wrote a poem with the following meaning.
"I have a small piece of cloth to wear as கோமணம் Komanam
I have some torn clothes to cover my body from bad weather
There are several platforms to sleep
There are rivers and water tanks were I can take bath.
I have a begging bowl to practice my profession.
When I beg in front of your temple, there are several kind hearted people willing to offer me my daily requirements.
I have every thing in life.
I only require a mind which always think about you".
When I read the above, I didn't know what to do. Why I am going after worldly pleasures. If at all there is something to be achieved, it is reaching the lotus feet of God only
The topic is quite interesting and I shall write more.
All the best