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Yagna for protection of female species

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Kama, krodha, lobha, mada, moha, matsarya seem to be as old as time itself.


Dear Mr.Biswa,


These are the inherent qualities of human species right from the time of their existence that our ancestors figured out, obviously.

Social Moral goodness/responsibilities, discipline and good code of conduct were emphasized from the long time since civilizations started emerging. Whether violators and victims were exposed to the society and IF punishments were rewarded to the rapists, upholding justice during those olden days is a different aspect altogether BUT for sure were never accepted and entertained to allow humans in the society to fulfill their fantasies with any one, in all the ways and means possible, overpowering others, without their consent.


A civilized societal behavior patterns starts right from home environment, provided by the parents in a family relationship with a sense of discipline and reverence towards each type of relationship.

This leads to the existence of healthy society and any variations/violations are subjected to legal measures

As well the drastic changes in societal behavior patterns, influenced by various other cultures are potent enough to change the living style and behavior patterns of individuals from disciplined family background as well.

The responsibilities lies on each of the humans irrespective of the geographical locations and cultures they belong to and ensure safety and dignity to each other.

Along with the changing times human race is also changing for both better and worst. Worst part of the human race is what detrimental to the existence of a safe and healthy society and any level of law and order/judiciary measures seem to fail in establishing safety to the vulnerable female human species.

As far as India is concerned and betterment of Indian society is intended, other than establishing strict law and order, imparting education and responsibilities etc..etc, Spiritual initiatives as well seem to be imperative to expect changes in the society for the better, when enormous rape crimes are taking place beyond control.

IMO, when Yagnas are performed in India, expecting Rain / Loka Kshemam, performing one such Yagna in expectation of achieving safety to the female species right from their form of fetus and expecting moral goodness and responsibilities in distorted Men is no wrong.

 
Even though I want to give the reply in Tamil - I am not aware of the settings required for typing in Tamil and hence this reply is in English only. "Magal Ninaivu" - if the fellow is having a daughter, he would not have dared to do such an act to a 4 years old girl. What sort of "Vigara Manasu" to think of doing such a crime. In my view more than 80% such crimes must be under the influence of Alcohol and the remaining must be due to way in which these people were brought up in their childhood.

Unless some severe punishments are given to these sort of people - within a short span of time - not after this fellow reaches the age of 67 - such types of crimes will continue.

Venkat K


He is a married man with a daughter.
I do not know the age of his daughter.
 
hi
modern days sexual offences more...but why...some of my thoughts...may be wrong...

1 modern life/food.....

2 women's dress code....

3 cinema/ tv culture....

4 lack human values/cultural set back...

5 money and lack of severe punishment....

6 some provactive hormone thoughts....

7 change of life style...

8 lust and excessive uncontrol sexual nature

9 modern medicines...like viagra....

10 yuga dharmam....

Surely you deserve a PhD for this detailed search and research Dr.tbs!!! :clap2:
 
I actually dont think sexual offences are more currently. Our epics and historical texts just glorify glowing deeds. Most negative actions (unless they result in some glorious action) are swept under the rug and conveniently forgotten. Can someone cite a study showing that people are more sexual than 500 or 100 years ago? In fact ancient India was generally known to be free from prudishness. After all, this is the land of the Kama Sutra.


My next project will be a series in which the rushis and sages behaved abnormally with women!!!
 

Why are women depicted so cheap? The ads of this perfume actually stinks!

Here is a sample - a decent one of the lot!! :dizzy:

AXE Body Spray Commercial

Shmt.Raji Ram,

These types of western advertisements seem to be not depicting women so cheap, as per western society where women are exposed with their instincts too without any hypocrisy.

As people say, morality and life style differs from culture to culture, I think, as an Indian we can not blame such advertisements in context to the expectations of Indians.

The revelation of basic Human tendencies/instincts/senses, whether that of male or female, seem to have nothing to do with its implications on the people of the society with a set of culture that are adopted in the specific geographical location.
 

Dear Ravi,

When these ads are telecast on our TV, I feel very bad about it. These will mislead the youngsters!

They think that women will come after them, just by using this spray! I can never digest such silly ideas.
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Dear Ravi,

When these ads are telecast on our TV, I feel very bad about it. These will mislead the youngsters!

They think that women will come after them, just by using this spray! I can never digest such silly ideas.
:mad2:


Very true!!!

There are many such ways by which our Indian Culture and life style are influenced.
 
Greetings.

I couldn't find anything wrong with that body spray commercial. It just says even if that guy is working with rubbish, still the spray fragrance is more powerful than the rubbish stench.

I use body sprays ( actually the same brand too). For some of the varieties ( not all of them come with strong fragrance) when i used them, at work other nurses ( mostly if not all female) commented in favour.. exact words were "you smell nice Raghy"... well, commercials are usually slightly exaggerating, aren't they?

Cheers!
 
Greetings.

I couldn't find anything wrong with that body spray commercial. It just says even if that guy is working with rubbish, still the spray fragrance is more powerful than the rubbish stench.

I use body sprays ( actually the same brand too). For some of the varieties ( not all of them come with strong fragrance) when i used them, at work other nurses ( mostly if not all female) commented in favour.. exact words were "you smell nice Raghy"... well, commercials are usually slightly exaggerating, aren't they?

Cheers!


Shri Raghy,


Grown up adults who know what is right and what is wrong can sense that commercials are exaggerated. BUT, the growing teens form their own impressions and fancies, no matter how hard you try to reveal to them, the truth.


They also develop a wrong idea that, girls would do all crazy stuffs unmindful of the presence of other guy nearby, having been captivated. And what she does out of attraction is perfectly natural and Fine!!
 
Shri Raghy,


Grown up adults who know what is right and what is wrong can sense that commercials are exaggerated. BUT, the growing teens form their own impressions and fancies, no matter how hard you try to reveal to them, the truth.


They also develop a wrong idea that, girls would do all crazy stuffs unmindful of the presence of other guy nearby, having been captivated. And what she does out of attraction is perfectly natural and Fine!!

Dear Sri. Ravi, Greetings.

That commercial was quite funny. That girl is the bikies girl friend... the bikie is waiting for her... bikie is a macho figure... girls love bikies and bike riding. I don't want to go in details about the reasons behind that in this forum.

That guy scavanging the rubbish is just a tramp. He sprayed the body spray and she couldn't resist him! Went and smelled him in front of her bikie friend! That ad is quite a bit exaggerated! Almost funny, really.

Kids here would just laugh at such commercials.

About girls doing crazy stuff.... They do it. There is no if or but about it. Matter of fact, in my observation, girls make the first move and are more dominant in most cases. In India I haven't noticed the 'conversation with their eyes'. But after coming here, I noticed it so many times.

Like you said earlier, this is a very different culture.

Cheers!
 
There was a king who had instructed his wife (wives???)

not to take bath when he was away and

(brace yourselves for what is going to follow)

not to change their undergarments till he came back from the wars.

He needed their body stench to switch him ON.

I used to hate the very concept.

But the newer concept is no better.

Humans become hounds running and chasing smells

and those weird smelly persons.

I prefer the smell of honest sweat to any of those smelly sprays!
 
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So in the future ...

Guys will look nice
(Thanks to the whitening creams and male beauty parlors)

Guys will smell nice
(Thanks to the umpteen body sprays in the market)

Guys will also taste nice
(Surely you know the navarasa naayagan)

Guys may try to sound nice with voice training.

Guys are always nice in their special field.

So guys will be pleasing all the five senses of the

advanced, uninhibited and liberated females. WOW!!!

Just like in the animal kingdom... the male enticing the female.
 
Crime rate against women

BIHAR has the lowest crime rate:
Statistics prove Raj wrong, Bihar ranks low in crime against women - Hindustan Times

As per National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) statistics, in 2011, Hyderabad stood at third place after Delhi and Bangalore among the list of 52 cities in the country for recording maximum cases pertaining to violence against women

Crime against women: Hyderabad not far behind Delhi - Times Of India

Rapists are getting away from with a ‘slap on the wrist’:



The Hindu : News / International : Rapists in UK getting away with a

In India, the conviction rate itself is very poor.

http://blogs.wsj.com/indiarealtime/2013/01/04/statistics-conviction-rates-for-rape-across-india/

Reasons for Rape

“There’s a tendency to assume the victims of sexual violence somehow brought it on themselves. In a 1996 survey of judges in India, 68 per cent of the respondents said that provocative clothing is an invitation to rape. In response to the recent gang-rape incident, a legislator in Rajasthan suggested banning skirts as a uniform for girls in private schools, citing it as the reason for increased cases of sexual harassment.”
The Schlifer Clinic | Rapes in India: Some Reasons For Rape Are International

Late night party cultures, discos, dating clubs, fashion shows and beauty contests have increased in numbers in the past 10 years. The satellite and cable TV channels have grown and are almost uncensored by any organized authority. Also, this decade has witnessed a huge increase in pornography materials both in CDs and on Internet. The Indian entertainment industry (national and regional) and media which have access nearly to every house, present bold scenes and nudity as fashion and symbol of higher lifestyle. The youths are heavily getting addicted to drugs and other intoxicant stuffs.

At the same time, it is regretful that Indian women have gone far away in following the western culture in terms of nudity, immodesty and fashionable lifestyle.

Increasing Rape Cases in India: Introspection is an urgent need | Sulekha Creative

Solution

Any numbers of Yagnas are not going to stop this crime.

Introduce strict penal codes for social crimes so that none dare to commit it.
Speedy trial and severe punishment will go as a deterrent to such crimes.

Women are recommended to wear modest clothes and not reveal their body and structure that may be sexually provocative to the opposite sex.

To get the society free from crimes, the spate of pornographic materials must be strictly banned. The media, TV channels and cinema which present and publish vulgar materials must be censored.

New generations need to be given more and more morals teachings and social values which are almost zero in our prevailing education system.
 
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As long as the third reel of many movies show that a beautiful girl loves a thug, whom she confronts in the first reel,

show in detail the bed room scenes and give the idea to molest a girl to get married to her, women can not be protected! :fear:
 
Raji mam,
I agree with you to an extent.
Films do depict life, and some times films leads social behavior.

I would like to show a similar topic but with different results.
Gun violence:
The same gory gun violence games are played in USA, Canada, Australia, and EU.
The culture of hunting is similar in these countries.
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One piece of this puzzle is the national rate of firearm-related murders, which is charted above. The United States has by far the highest per capita rate of all developed countries. According to data compiled by the United Nations, the United States has four times as many gun-related homicides per capita as do Turkey and Switzerland, which are tied for third. The U.S. gun murder rate is about 20 times the average for all other countries on this chart. That means that Americans are 20 times as likely to be killed by a gun than is someone from another developed country.

So the violent games alone can not be blamed for gum violence in USA.
Similarly we can not blame the movies alone for the rape culture in India.
I do not condone the vulgar ways of India Movies.
 
I am at an age where I do not know what I did yesterday leave alone months ago. I do not remember it.
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When the whole world is helpless in preventing the assaults on fellow beings why not seek the providence’s help. Let it be the “panampazham vizhundadhu” as the crow sat on the tree. The uncivilized tendency of the human mind can only be diverted by the providence. We are living in a worst yuga. Doing yagna does not mean we sit idle otherwise waiting god to take action. (Post # 3).

Pot # 21: Blaming alcohol is an outdated custom. Why do people want alcohol if they do not know what it does. All drinkers are not rapists either. But it is a convenient loop hole for some.
Post # 23 is a better analysis of some causes.

Post #25 We are not living in old days and the generations of centuries have fought to break free from old world’s unacceptable civilization. Organized and civilized living is not new. A life has various aspects which include nurturing, learning, looking after the needy, etc. Sports and Pastime included. Sex in the day is at retirement on a day. But alarming number of people are prioritizing their own choices. Wrong is wrong even if the Devas did; Indra did many things wrong which we cannot repeat. Those were lessons to be learnt or warnings to beware; not to adopt and follow faithfully so that we can become Devas. How come we have discarded many old things but cling on to a few undesirables.
Post # 27 has good points for the society.
Post # 35 India itself has different cultures. While according to some film/serial directors Tamil girls or ladies (ignore the few) do not want to act whereas the whole of India vie with one another for money or otherwise. I do not think they are dumb or shy. They are more matured.

Post # 36 Body sprays are now called gas cylinders and the users suffer worse at retiring time. Yes it is a protection for girls and ladies at times to blind out any assaulter.

Post # 43 Maybe the troublesome people are allover India and good people stayed back there as any others.

If yagna is not a solution, no other solution is at hand. Law can be improved to deter the cats on the walls. Give publicity to the crime perpetrator and bring out the accused’s whole family into public focus. Take interviews of the accused’s side and allow public to interview them wherever they want and telecast them officially (without commercials) so that others will be educated or subdued. Prevent private channels to spin these stories by any extent to achieve the cursed “TRP”. No death penalty to the rapist and he should be humiliated every day. Once confirmed as rapist, he should be off the HRC. Human Rights Commission talk for the wrong doers but they do not care for the victims or their rights before or after. Public sympathy and protest can go a long way along with yagna.
 
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