Sir,
I would like to know if after marriage Girls Gothra affect boy also if both Gothram is different. If Girl family is having some Dosham.
Thanks Sir,
As per our Astrologer the Dosham is from our Wife side but he tells because of brahmarakshas it effects both side, & i am in the family is most affected as told by you not having a good job and financial in very bad conditions. We are a Tamil Brahmin Iyer.
Thanks Sir,
As per our Astrologer the Dosham is from our Wife side but he tells because of brahmarakshas it effects both side, & i am in the family is most affected as told by you not having a good job and financial in very bad conditions. We are a Tamil Brahmin Iyer.
People, in their fascination, do a lot many things, and belief in astrology, with the proper approach, would be one way to get peace of mind, for some.Kili Josiem wallas opposite to Hot Chips in Pondy Bazar,T Nagar, Chennai , has always fascinated me; people pay some Rs 10/- to get some peace of mind.
I always believe 'avanindRi OraNuvum asaiyAdhu!'.......... A fish would not be able to control the waters it swims in...
PJ sir, what you have written about positive thinking is alright, but when a person is facing the drain in whatever he does, he seeks many avenues to quell his anxiety and restless mind. In such a state, one needs to have a fixation to get out of this low mood. Just as a child fixates on a parent figure (or grandparent or any other), one has to look up. Perhaps, that is why we have an all knowing God, placing trust on which we go about our work.
Astrology is one such support, the only requirement would be to treat it as a guidance and not as some sort of irrefutable word.
You said this in the kili josiem thread People, in their fascination, do a lot many things, and belief in astrology, with the proper approach, would be one way to get peace of mind, for some.
My only advice to the above gentleman, if I may say so, would be not to take astrology too seriously if it involves impractical solutions. Take it as a guidance, and for the worrying times, think of it as "karma kanakku" being done away with. Place your trust in good things, higher and lofty. Your only trouble is that you are unable to come up financially. Yes, this is a worry, but worrying about it would not solve. There are people who have money, but do not have a good marital life, or, are childless etc. I am not telling this to put down anybody but only that you have to, at some point, stop worrying about it and let go.
A fish would not be able to control the waters it swims in...
Renukaji, You are all absoluetely right, it is not fault of my wife or their family member, as a Husband i am doing my best to look after them well and the children and we are in good relationship and with their family members. I know one side it is my own Karma. We do daily prayers even my wife as per brahmin shastras, that is with daily cleaniness and pure mind. But then also there is always Anxiety,Fear,Stress going on in our mind but defienetly we get some peace of mind after pooja.
All are are superstitious i.e influnenceby Superstitionin one way or other otherwise we will never Surf this type Forums and so on so on....
Sir, Gone through all post, as a father for two girl children and as a Husband it is my responsibility to give them Good Education and happiness for that any father / mother would defiantly will not sit idle waiting for chance to come, only i my wife no how much effort / hardship we are doing for getting a Job, even i am trying for any type of job but that also i am not getting. Through my service earlier i know lot of people and the Owner of Big companies, they promise me to get job and finalize everything even interview goes of well and finally i dont know what happened the same person forget us and neither reply / take call, at least if he tells you are not eligible for this post then also i would get some satisfaction but a blank answer (turning away) with no response gives us more mental pressure. Like this there were 4-5 incidence all person are top most of the company like chairman, M.D, VP etc they them self offer me and suddenly afterwards they forget everything. What you will say about this.
Sometime i feel now only two way is left .........the circumstances makes the man to do. Since we are a very ritual person and from Brahmin family and i do daily Pooja with sandhyaavandanabecause of this at least we are having food two time and children are studying in good Engilsh medium school, by somehow with God grace i am getting this and thanks to him that my children are not sleeping hungry, only financial problem makes us mental agony.
I am sorry if this hurts you but this is what other people also say who know our situation, tell how come ? till know date nothing happened may be you are not doing or trying only we our self knows about it.
Sir, it is not fair to compare. Here, it is not a strictly validated system and people prefer anonymity. We may not even know whether a person is genuine or not, and neither about his intentions.Malayali Club members help each other in getting Job, give solutions to physical ailments, whereas, we in this site have not yet developed such positive approach; Here we criticize others post simply because of personal feelings towards that person irrespective of the goodness in his post.