renuka
Well-known member
Dear Renukaji
RRji has lost her balance after coming to know many TBs hug . she is shattered would be an understatement.
She is now giving up her demand regarding banning topless Mamas .
She might even invite them for get together organised in temples near her place.
do you know some TB girls parents are suggesting informal meeting of boy and his parents with prospective girl and parents at temples instead of homes.
a new trend in match making in chennai.
I understand girls do not like to be paraded before boys as in olden days in their homes
hence this arrangement.
Dear Krish ji,
I know the trend of meeting bride and groom in temples..it was there even in my "younger" days.
In fact some of my friends got married like that.
But for me I never left the home to be viewed by a groom.
I felt that if a groom wanted to view me he should make the effort to come to my house and view me and I wont leave my house to view him outside.
The reason is..he is a perfect stranger and not a boyfriend..so I prefer the traditional way of viewing at home.It maintains the dignity and respect of the girl.
I didnt feel as if I was paraded becos it was just like a meeting and I too sat and spoke with the grooms family.
With my husbands family when they came to view me the 1st time..I even played the piano for them.My father in law wanted to hear me play.So I played.
Its no big deal.