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nice songs!

manoharkumar said:
Idhu Oru Pon malai, is my favorite also... the way the music and the picturisation blends with the viewers heart.. Morning mist and the character just doing a jay walk... great choice while your heart is enjoying the evening... Cheers.
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Me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just Love this song, Sir..


[video=youtube;hymujdC0mlw]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hymujdC0mlw[/video]
 
IF you have an issue, raise it up with me in the complaints forum as indicated before. Otherwise if you are going to post messages here and there, expect me to reply, i am afraid its not going to happen. I do not read all the messages.>

Plz open a topic in the complaints forum with instances of where members have been rude to you. Otherwise i cannot do anything about it.. If an individual has an issue the forum, its member and def its owner has got nothing to do with it.

Take it however you want, but next time you have an issue, raise it up. Do not post messages here and there and expect a solution.
- Praveen
 
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AGAIN, if you have an issue, raise it up.

Do not keep posting about it. Unless you raise it up, i cannot do anything.
 
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Amirtha said:
Shri Praveen

It is very disappointing to note I am made unwelcome in this forum. I have not insulted anybody. I have not written any rude messages against anybody. But senior members in this forum are trying to make me very unpopular and also write lot of abusing messages indirectly and directly mentioning about me. I work in the medical field. Never in my experience even in the most acute situations any patient ever been this rude to me as I have experienced in this forum. All the members of this forum and as the owner of the forum yoursef should be ashamed of this behaviour.

This is the song for the whole forum. Insults towards me have gone far enough.

எதà¯￾தனை பெரிய மனிதனà¯￾கà¯￾கà¯￾ - Aasai Mugam - YouTube
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Dear Amirtha,

No one has insulted you in any manner.
Just like how you are free to voice your opinion about others we are also entitled to voice our opinions about how we feel.
No one has mentioned your name anywhere in any post.
So for all practical purposes and on technical grounds your complain has no grounds.

I wish you could understand that no one wants to hurt you in anyway.
You felt before that I was targeting you and Praveen reminded me in red ink not to do so and I stopped replying your posts.

But today I am replying your post cos I do not feel it is right for you to blame all members in forum if you are unhappy about anything.

I am sure you can just ignore what makes you unhappy and move on.

Being in the medical field is a good training ground for anyone (ask me about it..the types of people I see in my job have trained me so well that I could sign up to be a Navy Seal!LOL)

I know you are strong and sulking is surely not your style.

Be happy and I hope you refrain from blaming others.

take care
renu
 
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dear Amirtha !
i can understand your feelings . but at the same time i want you to be careful in usage of words in in the forum which has all generation s. you can directly address the member if you are hurt by his/her remarks to clarify your position . your choice of songs are good.
guruvayurappan
 
Amirtha said:
Shri Praveen

....... I have no intention of revealing my vagina to prove this forum I am a woman.
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Utterly irresponsible and disguisting statement!!!!! Kindly mind your words in future. If you can't respect forum members from age group of atleast from 30-75 years, thinking that the whole forum is sabotaging your participation here, what I would strongly suggest you is, to quit yourself from this forum.

Else try to be diplomatic in your approach and be responsible. This Forum and Forum's members have value, respect and dignity. Contribute your best to maintain the decorum of this forum.


Shri Praveen,

Kindly excuse me to butt in and passing on my comments. I know it's not my job to express my objections on behalf of this Forum. But, I coudn't resist myself being a long term member here and having respect towards this forum and all forum members.

Kindly excuse me.
 
Dear Ms.Amirtha,
I am disappointed at the posting of yours in 482. I have never seen or read anything like this in any forum. You may be hurt and expressing that in these words??????? Being in medical profession ... we have cherished members in this forum who are so diplomatic and even if provoked please read their posts.... members like Dr.ReNuka, Shri.Raghy, and others do have conflicts but they never let themselves down like this. I am sorry to read your post. Absolutely no Cheers.
 
Amirtha said:
Shri Praveen

I am Amirtha. I am a woman. I have no intention of revealing my vagina to prove this forum I am a woman.

Unnai Arinthal Nee Unnai Arinthal...... - YouTube

Kind Regards
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Dear Amirtha,

I had written a reply to this post of yours earlier but I deleted it after a few seconds becos I thought what I wrote was a bit harsh sounding hence I deleted it.

I had written that no one asked anyone here to reveal any organ to prove one's gender and further more we have no evidence too which body part belongs to which person cos anyone can post any image they wish too.

I am no angel myself.. in his post Manohar sir mentioned that "Dr Renuka and a few others in forum too have conflicts but do not let them down like this"..this I have to say that I have been a devil sometimes in forum and have written things sort of bordering obscenity too at times.

I just hope you understand that members might be angry with that line you wrote.
I too was shocked even though I am basically not a conservative person at all.
So I can imagine the rest of members who are conservative might feel real offended.

I just hope you understand that we members might vent out anger but none of us hate you.

May be we should all just try to forgive and forget and put this whole episode behind.

I have also been guilty commenting on your posts before and I have apologized for that so Amirtha I do not really know who you are but just hope we can all just move on and delete this whole episode in our mind.

I hope you agree with me.
We members do not want to let anyone feel unwelcome..please understand.
 
Greetings.

When Sowbagyavathy Amirtha was doubted whether she was a man or woman when she kept saying she is a woman, none of the members in this forum went to support her ( except Sri. Anand Manohar). It is an insult to a woman. ( I always address all the girls at work as 'man!' Some of the girls did say it was insulting in the beginning; but now after almost one year, I got the permission to address them like that. So I know the feeling). I liked the way she stood up for herself. If she used the "c" word, it would have been rude. But the 'vagina' is used in the medical world on daily basis, in usual discussions. Girls when they talk about their issues they do use the word 'vagina' to me. It is so common.

this forum pushed Sowbagyavathy Amirtha to even use that word 'vagina' by continuosly suspecting her sexuality. Secondly that word is not offending anyone. So, I don't see the reason for complaing.

Cheers!
 
Raghy said:
Greetings.

When Sowbagyavathy Amirtha was doubted whether she was a man or woman when she kept saying she is a woman, none of the members in this forum went to support her ( except Sri. Anand Manohar). It is an insult to a woman. ( I always address all the girls at work as 'man!' Some of the girls did say it was insulting in the beginning; but now after almost one year, I got the permission to address them like that. So I know the feeling). I liked the way she stood up for herself. If she used the "c" word, it would have been rude. But the 'vagina' is used in the medical world on daily basis, in usual discussions. Girls when they talk about their issues they do use the word 'vagina' to me. It is so common.

this forum pushed Sowbagyavathy Amirtha to even use that word 'vagina' by continuosly suspecting her sexuality. Secondly that word is not offending anyone. So, I don't see the reason for complaing.

Cheers!
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Dear Raghy,

I was the first one to have a doubt about Amirtha being a male or female cos one can make out with writing style the gender of a person.
So may be I was wrong and I did apologize for that too.

Once upon a time even using the word Urine in a valid post landed me in a lot of trouble with a group of people out here.

The problem here is the post was directed towards members as if we are all dying to actually see anyone's gender.

Believe me I am not interested to see anyone's gender..I see enough at my work and I am frankly sick of seeing it too.

I hope we can end this worthless debate.
 
Dear Respected Members,


Let me share my views against the views/opinions that justifies improper usage of words, that carries a very bad connotation against this Forum and Forum Members.


All the members should not be included in general as those lots, expecting to see some one's vagina to identify the person's gender.

Whether the term Vagina is used or "C" is used, the point is, seeing such a thing is not the intentions of "all" the members here, as fantasy, in the pretext of scruitinity.

Whatever may be the limits the person been pushed into challenges by questioning, a descent, well mannered and well composed person would not express such a cheap statement. Whether the person didn't like this usage for himself/herself, the point of concern is, such usage is not the thing that this forum and forum members in general fancy about.

We can't keep our eyes and ears closed, making justification on such irresponsible and disguisting statements just because some one was doubted with his/her identity or been challenged with counter orguments on certain controvertial topics, whatever the case may be.

When a person is challenged, questioned, doubted etc, that person at receiving end bears the responsibility to sort it out. The responsibility begins right from the person's way of participating, communicating, sharing, expressing etc till the person is been challenged for what been presented by him/her. In such a case the counter should be from that particular person only.

I expressed my complaint because, the rubbish statement was in general and it frowns upon the whole forum and all its members.

 
C RAVI said:
Dear Respected Members,


Let me share my views against the views/opinions that justifies improper usage of words, that carries a very bad connotation against this Forum and Forum Members.


All the members should not be included in general as those lots, expecting to see some one's vagina to identify the person's gender.

Whether the term Vagina is used or "C" is used, the point is, seeing such a thing is not the intentions of "all" the members here, as fantasy, in the pretext of scruitinity.

Whatever may be the limits the person been pushed into challenges by questioning, a descent, well mannered and well composed person would not express such a cheap statement. Whether the person didn't like this usage for himself/herself, the point of concern is, such usage is not the thing that this forum and forum members in general fancy about.

We can't keep our eyes and ears closed, making justification on such irresponsible and disguisting statements just because some one was doubted with his/her identity or been challenged with counter orguments on certain controvertial topics, whatever the case may be.

When a person is challenged, questioned, doubted etc, that person at receiving end bears the responsibility to sort it out. The responsibility begins right from the person's way of participating, communicating, sharing, expressing etc till the person is been challenged for what been presented by him/her. In such a case the counter should be from that particular person only.

I expressed my complaint because, the rubbish statement was in general and it frowns upon the whole forum and all its members.
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Dear Ravi,

I can understand your dissatisfaction but I hope we members including Amirtha can just forget whatever has happened and move on.

Lets all just forgive and forget since some of us have already written our feelings here about this whole episode.

Regards
Renu
 

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