Dear Renu,
I am a bit different! I have a tiny bench in my kitchen for the visiting mAmis to sit and talk to me while I cook.
If they enter my house in a short notice, I prepare fresh puris and coconut 'thogaiyal' and serve the fast food!
In fact, one of our friend mAmAs bought a puri press for his better half, after seeing the speed in which puris were ready!
:gossip: That mAmA had to make the puri dough into circles when mAmi made puris. So he was happy to buy a puri press,
which saved him from struggling with the rolling pin!! :dance:
:thumb:........ I remember when I was kid and got invited for any celebration at the Gurudwara.. ..I have seen old Punjabi grandmums making Puris without using a rolling pin..they just use their hands and shape the dough into perfect proportions and make tasty Puris at the Guru Ka Langar.
Then if good is on-going, bad is in the vicinity !I have a firm belief that when things seem hopeless then good times are actually in the vicinity ... So dangerous times come but only to better establish harmony.
I do enter the kitchen of my host/hostess, especially if informal get together and always ask if I can help, which I have taken after my mum. Nobody whatever their culture minds at all and always appreciate the gesture (some accept while many graciously decline, no harm done, at least I offered and they know they can take it). In fact some hostesses like you hanging around the kitchen to chat while their cooking and stuff! Many times I'm helping serve food/drinks and other guests are thinking that I'm a close friend or relative of the hosts when in actual fact I myself have been invited round for the first time. I think if we remember that everyone can do with a helping hand, then its easy to do it.Dear Renu,
I beg to differ! In the yesteryears, we could enter the kitchen of all our relatives and they were very happy to share
with us what ever they had prepared on that day. They did not need any prior notice! But now, we have to give a phone
call and make sure that they are free to receive us. In most of the houses, entry into the kitchen is banned!
And, I was mentioning that, in general, the good virtues in humans are on the decline. :sad:
Dear Renu,
I am a bit different! I have a tiny bench in my kitchen for the visiting mAmis to sit and talk to me while I cook.
If they enter my house in a short notice, I prepare fresh puris and coconut 'thogaiyal' and serve the fast food!
In fact, one of our friend mAmAs bought a puri press for his better half, after seeing the speed in which puris were ready!
:gossip: That mAmA had to make the puri dough into circles when mAmi made puris. So he was happy to buy a puri press,
which saved him from struggling with the rolling pin!! :dance:
If I am one of guests I hope the drink will be sufficiently spiked.... Many times I'm helping serve food/drinks .......
Dear Amala,Do you know if this puri press can be used for chappatis too? Mine are never always round. Mostly its hit and miss!
Amala is like me!I do enter the kitchen of my host/hostess, especially if informal get together and always ask if I can help, which I have taken after my mum. Nobody whatever their culture minds at all and always appreciate the gesture (some accept while many graciously decline, no harm done, at least I offered and they know they can take it). In fact some hostesses like you hanging around the kitchen to chat while their cooking and stuff! Many times I'm helping serve food/drinks and other guests are thinking that I'm a close friend or relative of the hosts when in actual fact I myself have been invited round for the first time. I think if we remember that everyone can do with a helping hand, then its easy to do it.