Suicide by Mahadevan, husband of singer Nityashree

[renuka]

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Women are always blamed somehow..

Here are the list of possible reason if anything happens...women are always at the receiving end:

1)Wife is not beautiful..so husband left for a more beautiful woman

2)Wife is very beautiful..so husband felt pale in comparison and left for a plain Jane..remember Charles leaving Diana for Camillia?

3)Wife is a housewife and too domestic and does not share similar interest..so husband leaves for a woman who shares same interest as him(Sindhu Bhairavi Syndrome)

4)Wife is too succesful in her career..husband feels insecure and leaves for a housewife types.

5)Wife is housewife types but husband feel a woman should have a career and be succesful..so he leaves her for a career woman.

6)Wife is intelligent..husband feels he is less intelligent to her so he leaves for a dumb female.

7)Wife is too dumb..so husband leaves for an intelligent female.

The list can go on and on..this only goes to show that humans are never satisfied with what they have..so that's why it is better to have a harem and have all the types of women..the bold and the beautiful..the dumb/dumber and intelligent..the good the bad and the ugly!

But even then there is risk that the guy might get bored of humans and start fantasizing about aliens from outer space..our puranas do have enough stories about hot and sexy apsaras up in heaven..so don't be surprised that some guy might want Urvasi/Ramba soon.

This post is meant to be a joke.
It is in no way promoting promiscuous behavior or polygamy.
Any dire consequences from the post above is totally not my responsibility!Ha Ha Ha

 

[tbs]

Sri. TBS, Greetings.

I did not say committing suicide is a courageous act. All I said was, the idea gets meditated long and hard. When a person feels helpless and hopeless, he/she doesn't think about children or anyone else. A person doesn't become helpless/hopeless overnight. It takes a long time. He/she screams for help and attention in the meantime.

We miss the human touch nowadays. Human value gets diminished exponentially. Life is stressful all the time. But everyone develops their own coping strategies. Some don't develop such strategies.

If someone leads a sheldered life all the time, they don't cope very well to stressful situations. Unfortunately they become vulnerable to suicide ideations.

We can't blame anyone for this. We can't blame the man either.... he couldn't cope; went bye bye... But his near and dear would have known well about his intentions. I don't really believe in vidhi or poorva janma karma etc. All I can think is, he was not supported well enough.

Trouble is, people are afraid of failures. So what if one fails? I failed so many times. There were few things I could never succeed in life.. they all stayed as dreams.. if we also consider the possibility of failures, we always prepare a plan 'B'. It seems, this unfortunate gentleman did not prepare a plan 'B'...

hi raghy sir,
you succeeded in love....finally got your choice....life is full of chances and choices...recently i saw a beautiful quote in an office...

it says.. boat should always move...either with winds or against the winds....should not be in harbor idle....i think life is also like

that....life is full of challenges....every day problems....and finding solutions....sometumes humans fed up with problem/solution

method...

 

[sangom]

Women are always blamed somehow..

Here are the list of possible reason if anything happens...women are always at the receiving end:

1)Wife is not beautiful..so husband left for a more beautiful woman

2)Wife is very beautiful..so husband felt pale in comparison and left for a plain Jane..remember Charles leaving Diana for Camillia?

3)Wife is a housewife and too domestic and does not share similar interest..so husband leaves for a woman who shares same interest as him(Sindhu Bhairavi Syndrome)

4)Wife is too succesful in her career..husband feels insecure and leaves for a housewife types.

5)Wife is housewife types but husband feel a woman should have a career and be succesful..so he leaves her for a career woman.

6)Wife is intelligent..husband feels he is less intelligent to her so he leaves for a dumb female.

7)Wife is too dumb..so husband leaves for an intelligent female.

The list can go on and on..this only goes to show that humans are never satisfied with what they have..so that's why it is better to have a harem and have all the types of women..the bold and the beautiful..the dumb/dumber and intelligent..the good the bad and the ugly!

But even then there is risk that the guy might get bored of humans and start fantasizing about aliens from outer space..our puranas do have enough stories about hot and sexy apsaras up in heaven..so don't be surprised that some guy might want Urvasi/Ramba soon.

This post is meant to be a joke.
It is in no way promoting promiscuous behavior or polygamy.
Any dire consequences from the post above is totally not my responsibility!Ha Ha Ha

Smt. Renukaji,

You have a point in the above post, imo. But, to conclude that the woman always gets blamed is also not correct. The old world norm, with which I grew up and have lived most of my life, is based on the premise that a human life is too valuable to be lost at any rate, and when such loss happens due to suicide, the living partner is blamed for precipitating the loss. If it is a suicide of a youth (one B.Tech student, and a very brilliant boy at that, who grew up in front of our eyes), committed suicide by hanging, and the entire society blamed both the parents for that. And people still carry the impression that they are a no-good couple!

If a married man is driven to suicide, usually the wife is blamed. This is so because, in the normal circumstances, it is the spouse who alone will know the deepest and most secret thoughts and worries, fears etc., of the partner and no one else. Similarly if an unmarried child commits suicide, both parents are looked upon as responsible for having precipitated such a crisis. That seems to be the social behaviour even today, according to me.

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Sangom Sir,

This question is for you, since you are well versed with the predictions by viewing horoscopes.

One astrologer from Kerala told to my younger sister NOT to proceed with one alliance because that girl's horoscope had 'GuLigan' in the

seventh place form Lagnam! He said that girls with such horoscopes will drive the husband to take the drastic decision of suicide, a few

years after the wedding! So, she did not proceed further, due to fear. Is this true according to you, Sir?

P.S: Though I wanted to be :tape:, I am posting this here, just to clarify my doubt.

 

[sangom]

Dear Sangom Sir,

This question is for you, since you are well versed with the predictions by viewing horoscopes.

One astrologer from Kerala told to my younger sister NOT to proceed with one alliance because that girl's horoscope had 'GuLigan' in the

seventh place form Lagnam! He said that girls with such horoscopes will drive the husband to take the drastic decision of suicide, a few

years after the wedding! So, she did not proceed further, due to fear. Is this true according to you, Sir?

P.S: Though I wanted to be :tape:, I am posting this here, just to clarify my doubt.

Smt. RR,

Gulikan in the 7th. house from Lagna, or Moon is likely to cause great marital discord because the said boy or girl will spoil the relationship by their nature and behaviour. But the horoscope could have had additional clear indications for premature death of husband/vaidhavya for the girl, and the astrologer, for obvious reasons did not refer to these indications.

Evil planets such as Sani, Mars, Rahu, Ketu and even Budhan and Shukran (in special cases), situated in the seventh house (from Lagnam/Moon) of a girl's horoscope is not good for a happy and peaceful marriage. Usually, when the girl's party consults an astrologer, they overlook this aspect and determine matching of horoscopes. The argument being "The boy's side should safeguard their interests, not the girl's side jyosyar." But if both parties consult the same jyosyar he may end up giving contrary decisions. I have come cross two such instances; in one case the alliance did not take place, while in another, the husband, now >60 is a perfectly hen-pecked one living in his own official world of power, authority and money - no voice at all in the house, he is just a mouse always saying "tathaastu" to whatever the wife says/decides.

 

[suraju06]

the husband, now >60 is a perfectly hen-pecked one living in his own official world of power, authority and money - no voice at all in the house, he is just a mouse always saying "tathaastu" to whatever the wife says/decides.

So the prediction has come true. He has committed "suicide" and has become just a mouse opening his mouth to say only thathaastu. Must be a very knowledgeable astrologer indeed. LOL.

 

[thebigthinkg]

Was shocked beyond words at the news of suicide by husband of musical genius Nityashree Mahadevan today..

I was wondering how this can happen in the life of such a renowned singer with mellifluous voice and perfect rhythm!

This suicide is cowardly act...In case of marital discord they could have got this resolved or at best gone for divorce!


This is unthinkable with 2 young daughters to be taken care

Nityashree was at the pinnacle of her career...

The music world is saddened by this

This incident has created a void in the December Carnatic Music season

May God give courage to Smt Nityashree to tide over the grief!

May her voice again rise like a phoenix and May she find solace in Music!

For long we have ill-treated the marriage institution as a Male-dominant institution, which is NOT the original spirit of marriage. Marriage is about friendship between the equals. Many males who have grown up in this society do not quite get this.

In the olden days, though at young age, men ruled/overruled their wives, I have seen them becoming totally 'dummy piece' as they age. Both poles are not required.

Saying thathastu to wife is NOT equivalent to committing suicide. Both young men and women should learn to say Thathasthu from young age to each other, so that neither gets to rule over period, nor they see it as suicide.

After all marriage is all about lifelong friendship between two individuals.

Hope u saw this..
http://www.tamilbrahmins.com/general-discussions/10750-vedic-marriage-ceremony.html

-TBT

 

[Raji Ram]

Thanks for you prompt reply Sangom Sir. So we need not generalize, just by seeing 'GuLikan' in the seventh place. eace:

 

[prasad1]

So the prediction has come true. He has committed "suicide" and has become just a mouse opening his mouth to say only thathaastu. Must be a very knowledgeable astrologer indeed. LOL.

I read Mr. Sangom's post#80 and came to opposite conclusion.
The marriage was successful, and happy (at least for one). LOL

 

[Raji Ram]

......... The marriage was successful, and happy (at least for one). LOL

Yes! It is a successful 'Madurai Atchi' ! :moony:

 

[venkat2206]

Yes! It is a successful 'Madurai Atchi' ! :moony:

Neither Madurai nor Chidambaram is good for happy life. It should be equal mix of both like Kasi where Lord Vishwanathan and Goddess Visalakshi are equally sharing the importance.

Venkat K

 

[sangom]

Thanks for you prompt reply Sangom Sir. So we need not generalize, just by seeing 'GuLikan' in the seventh place. eace:

Smt. Raji Ram,

I am not a qualified astrologer, only an amateur. What I wrote was that simply Gulikan in the 7th. house need not be taken as a sure indicator of the premature death of the husband. The 7th. house in a horoscope signifies the spouse (in a very general, overall way), the reproductive system including the external ones, moral character of the native, obscure debauchery, sense gratifications, type of inter-personal attitudes, etc. Hence Gulikan in the 7th. house may, if its evil effects are not adequately compensated in the horoscope by other factors, adversely affect one or more of the above aspects relating to that person. If the horoscope pertains to some one (boy or girl) in whom you have good interest, it is better to show such a horoscope to some credible and learned astrologer and act as per his advice ASAP.

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Sangom Sir,

The astrologer approached is very well versed and a senior! Since he did not tell what all aspects are negative and only

mentioned about Gulikan, our eyes start searching for Gulikan when we view any horoscope! It is good that horoscopes
cast in Tamil Nadu does not have Gulikan at all! eace:

 

[gnrao]

Our heartfelt condolences to Mrs. Nitya sree. and her family.
We wish her children to be having courage and fortitude and all the blessings of all elders and of the ever loving Great God. We wish Nitya shree to continue singing with her melodious voice and bring happiness and peace ,in turn she also gets the blessings from everyone to get Happiness and peace for her and for her children.

 

[Acharya]

When a man is identified by his famous wife,

when he basks in the borrowed glory of his wife,

he has to make some adjustment and compromises

for living happily and peacefully without ego struggle.

Otherwise he should marry an ordinary girl

who is willing to share his glory-if he has any!

Prince Phillip, husband of Queen Elizabeth, never suffered depression. There are many women celebrities whose husbands are not so popular yet remain calm, composed, normal.

 

[Raji Ram]

Prince Phillip, husband of Queen Elizabeth, never suffered depression. There are many women celebrities whose husbands are not so popular yet remain calm, composed, normal.

Dear Sir,

Most of the 'average Indian husbands' are not so!

Hence I wrote these lines in a poem 'விந்தையான சராசரி இந்தியக் கணவர்கள்….':

'.........................................

தனக்குப் பிடித்தவர் சாப்பிடுவதை சாதனையாக்கி மகிழ்வார்!
தன் கரம் பிடித்தவளின் சாதனைகளை “நக்கல்” செய்து இகழ்வார்!

வறுமைக் கோட்டுக்குக் கீழ் வாழும் ஏழை, தன் துணைவியின்
பெருமை பற்றிக் கூறிக் காவிப்பல் காட்டிடுவான்!

பெருமை மிக்க குடும்பத்தில் பிறந்த இந்தியக் கணவர்கள்
பெருமை மிக்க மனையாளின் அருமை ஏன் உணர்வதில்லை?

மனைவி அமைவது இறைவன் கொடுத்த வரமென அறிந்தும்
துணைவியின் ஏற்றத்தை ஏற்று, ஏன் புகழ்வதில்லை?'

 

[renuka]

Dear Sir,

Most of the 'average Indian husbands' are not so!

Dear RR ji,

It takes a very confident,capable man to be a husband of a famous wife.
You are right about the average Indian husband...they can be very insecure most of the times.

 

[sarang]

Both are the top of their life's achievement and cannot aspire for more. So the queen cannot push or goad or demand more of Prince Phillip.

That is the secret, perhaps.

Prince Phillip, husband of Queen Elizabeth, never suffered depression. There are many women celebrities whose husbands are not so popular yet remain calm, composed, normal.

 

[Iyyarooraan]

Shri Iyya,

I think you will agree that there is no 100% happy family and there is no 100% unhappy family.

In this case I am told that the Chennai papers are carrying a lot of news. It seems Smt NS is extremely rich and the jobless husband had, in the course of time, developed a lot of complexes and he used to depend on his mother for mental solace. Since the mother's demise, there was no one to whom he could turn for consolation. On the material date there was reportedly some serious quarrel between husband and wife after which the poor man just ended his life. Let us pray for solace (Shaanti) to the departed soul also.

I fully agree. The gentleman should have got over his complexes nor did he know his place in the worldbut took a short-cut. In spite of Shiva's omnipotence, Parvati kept doubting his quality and capacity. If you have the will philosophy gives perfect asylum wherein you are dead in spite of living. It happens and everything happens. I am sorry to join after a pause. My systems and limbs have been cement coated for the last 20 days because people have been renovating our dwelling. Happy 2013 and Pongum Pongal.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

மேதைகளும், பேதைகளும்.

வெப்பம் குளிர் போன்றும் பகல் இரவு போன்றும்

அப்பட்டமாக வேறுபடுபவர் மேதைகள், பேதைகள்.

வேறுபாடு இல்லாத விஷயம் ஒன்று உண்டு - இவர்கள்

வேறுபட்டு சொல்லார் / நில்லார் மனைவியிடமிருந்து!

சின்னச் சின்ன விஷயங்களில் கவனம் செலுத்தாத மேதை

தன்னைத் தொல்லைகளில் இருந்து காத்துக் கொள்ளவும்

இல்லத்தில் அமைதி நிலவவும் விட்டு விடுவார் அவற்றை
இல்லாளின் பொறுப்பில் அத்தனையையும் மொத்தமாக! :couch2:

பேதை அறிவான் தன் மனைவி தன்னிலும் சிறந்த ஒரு

மேதை என்பதை ஐயம் திரிபு அற மிகவும் நன்றாக!

பேதம் கூறி வேதனைப் படவேண்டாம் என்று எண்ணி

பேதை விட்டுவிடுவான் மொத்தமாக அத்தனையையும்.

நிராகரித்துத் தொல்லை செய்பவர்கள் எல்லோருமே :argue:

சராசரிக் கணவர்கள் என்னும் மெஜாரிட்டி வர்க்கமே!!!

 

[Raji Ram]

1. ........ மேதை ......... விட்டு விடுவார் அவற்றை
இல்லாளின் பொறுப்பில் அத்தனையையும் மொத்தமாக! :couch2:

2. ....... பேதை விட்டுவிடுவான் மொத்தமாக அத்தனையையும்.
..........

1. மேதையின் மனைவிக்கும் :ballchain:
2. பேதையின் மனைவிக்கும் :ballchain:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

பேதைக் கணவனுக்கு...:couch2:

மேதைக் கணவனுக்கு...:couch2:

சராசரிக் கணவனுக்கு ...:argue:

சராசரி மனைவிக்கு....:boxing:

இது எப்படி இருக்கு???

 

[Hari51]

I am an ardent fan of Smt. Nityasri. She has/will rise again ang sing to the delight of her fans.

 

[rishikesan]

Dear All, Theirs, especially that of D.K. Pattammal;s genius / inherited by this Grand Daughter


, well knit We all feel extremely SAD, God should give the much needed strength of mind & for
titude , We should wait for the day she comes out & ensure proper treatment in the society
Rishikesan

 

[biswa]

Both are the top of their life's achievement and cannot aspire for more. So the queen cannot push or goad or demand more of Prince Phillip.

That is the secret, perhaps.

Mr. Sarang, I am sorry, but this seems a bit naive. Any wife can always demand more from her husband, no matter how great a celebrity he is. To use an American metaphor, perhaps Prince Philip did not always take out the trash in time?