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[Visalakshi Ramani]

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I don't try to impress people anywhere.
I know it is impossible to impress all the people
or to make everyone happy.
I write mostly because I have something to say
and try to say it as frankly and fearlessly as possible.
I also know that
Yathaarthavadi bahu jana virodhi!
Most of the time it is me!

Unless we discuss about subjects we don't kniow about, how can we learn others point of views? That's my view anyway. As long as we are not judgemental, such conversations are nice anyway!

By the way, I was wondering, are you trying to impress anyone here? From my understanding, your messages don't sound like that at all; Renu writes here often, she doesn't try to impress anyone either. I know I don't give a hoot about what others think about my messages.. so trying to impress others is not in my agenda, ever.... Just wondered.. since you are the frequent contributor in this thread, i thought you may know.....

Cheers!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Good policy which everyone can start following!

In pharmaceutical (MR) parlance there is a sort of dictum: If you cannot convince a doctor (about the efficacy of the medicine) then confuse him!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Asparagus inspires gentle thoughts.:couch2:
Charles Lamb.

Some people have food but no appetite; opcorn:

others have appetite but no food; :hungry:

I have both. The lord be praised. :hail:

Oliver Cromwell.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

இல்லறம் இனிக்க 18 படிகள்.

5. கணவன் மனைவியையும், மனைவி கணவனையும்
மனதார முழுவதுமாக நம்ப வேண்டும்,
மனதார ஒருவரை ஒருவர் விரும்ப வேண்டும்.

6. வளமை கூட, அறிவு இணைய வேண்டும்.
வலிமை கூட, கரங்கள் இணைய வேண்டும்.
இனிமை கூட, இதயங்கள் இணைய வேண்டும்.
இல்லறத்தில் இவை அனைத்தும் இணைய வேண்டும்.

 

[renuka]

Today I had an interesting case.
One guy a foreigner from an African country had come to see me and he was telling me about his girlfriend who happened to be a local girl.
He was talking non stop about her saying how much they were committed to each other and how much he loved her and how much she loved him.

So I told him "That's good that means I expect you to be staying in Msia for a very long time since you are committed to each other"

Then came his reply "Doc none of us really know tomorrow"

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

தாங்கும் கரங்கள்.




முன்னேறுவதில் உண்டு இரு வகை;
முற்றிலும் அவை முரண்பட்டவை.

தட்டிக் கொடுப்பது அதில் ஒரு வகை;
தடுத்து நிறுத்துவது அதில் மறு வகை.

உரமிட்டால் நன்கு வளரும் பயிராய்
ஊக்கப் படுத்தினால் வளருவர் சிலர்.

வெட்டி விட்டால் வளரும் செடி போல
வேகத்தடை வைத்தால் வளருவர் சிலர்.

தானாக அனைத்தும் செய்ய இயலாதார்,
தாங்கும் கரங்களை நாடுவர் எப்போதும்.

தடைகளே வேகத்தை அதிகரிப்பதனால்
தடைகளை விரும்பி வரவேற்பர் சிலர்.

ஆடுகிற மாட்டை ஆடிக் கறக்கணும்;
பாடுகிற மாட்டைப் பாடிக் கறக்கணும்!

தடுத்தால் வளருபவராக இருந்தால்,
தாங்க வேண்டிய அவசியம் இல்லை.

தாங்கினால் வளருபவராக இருந்தால்
தயவு செய்து அவர்களைத் தடுக்காதீர்!

நமக்கு வேண்டியது வளர்ச்சிதானே?
நமக்கு இரு வழிகளும் நல்லவையே!

வாழ்க வளமுடன்,
விசாலாக்ஷி ரமணி.

 

[C RAVI]

Today I had an interesting case.
One guy a foreigner from an African country had come to see me and he was telling me about his girlfriend who happened to be a local girl.
He was talking non stop about her saying how much they were committed to each other and how much he loved her and how much she loved him.

So I told him "That's good that means I expect you to be staying in Msia for a very long time since you are committed to each other"

Then came his reply "Doc none of us really know tomorrow"

May be he mean to say that, his love, the local Malaysian girl may herself opt to leave Malaysia after marriage with mutual consent of her husband (this guy), to any other country, other than that of the guy's African country?

 

[renuka]

May be he mean to say that, his love, the local Malaysian girl may herself opt to leave Malaysia after marriage with mutual consent of her husband (this guy), to any other country, other than that of the guy's African country?

Ok here is the part 2 of the story.He didnt mean that cos I asked him that question that is she planning to follow you?
He still said "I dont know tomorrow so I only live for the present".
But he still went on and on telling me how much they both loved each other.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

While getting across a message,

if you are unable to CLARIFY

the next best option

is to "KILARUFY!"

Clarify

!!!:decision:Kilarufy :loco:!!!

(Kilarufy = kuzhpputhal/ kilarividuthal).

 

[renuka]

Dear Ravi,

Actually I felt that his way of thinking was kind of right too.
We sometimes spend time worrying about some trivial things in life without realizing that tomorrow is not even in our hands.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

He must be a philosopher of the highest degree.
He knows the uncertainty of human life.
He knows that the only time we can live is at present...
neither in the past nor in the future!
He is prepared for unexpected O.Henry twists
in his life and will accept them with calm composure.
While he lives, he will live well! :clap2:
While he loves, he will love well too!

Ok here is the part 2 of the story.He didnt mean that cos I asked him that question that is she planning to follow you?
He still said "I dont know tomorrow so I only live for the present".
But he still went on and on telling me how much they both loved each other.

 

[ozone]

How much did you charge him?

 

[C RAVI]

Dear Ravi,

Actually I felt that his way of thinking was kind of right too.
We sometimes spend time worrying about some trivial things in life without realizing that tomorrow is not even in our hands.

Dear Renuka,

Yes, spending time worrying about some trivial things in life without realizing that tomorrow is not even in our hands is useless or even senseless.

This is only for the future course of "TIME" that we are not sure about. BUT, we can be sure of "our self" and our sense of "true love", that can continue to hold each others hand and live with mutual love and respect through the courses of time.

"Where there is a Will, there is a Way".

"Time and Tide wait for no men" BUT, humans can remain human and true to their true self with true sense of love, respect and commitments, irrespective of the passage of time.

 

[suraju06]

He still said "I dont know tomorrow so I only live for the present".
But he still went on and on telling me how much they both loved each other

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Pheromones and harmones are very powerful and can make a guy or the girl affected think that he/she is walking on the clouds or flying with wings or even living in the moons.

 

[C RAVI]

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Pheromones and harmones are very powerful and can make a guy or the girl affected think that he/she is walking on the clouds or flying with wings or even living in the moons.[/COLOR]

True!!!!

It's only one's mental make up, perceptions and maturity that can prove if a person is willing only to walk on the clouds or flying with wings or even living in the moons OR he/she is just cherishing such magnificent mental stimulation out of Love and can well remain composed, committed and true to the feelings of Love and its challenges "ON GROUND" as well.

 

[renuka]

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Pheromones and harmones are very powerful and can make a guy or the girl affected think that he/she is walking on the clouds or flying with wings or even living in the moons.[/COLOR]

dear sir,

Both regions..the clouds and the moon have low oxygen levels.So no one can survive there for too long a time.
So after the initial waxing of hormones reaches the full moon state the waning of love begins.
The the descend to earth level starts and once we hit ground zero we will be seeing stars cos of the impact of the fall to one's mind.

So even love has Shukla Paksha and Krishna Paksha.

 

[renuka]

How much did you charge him?

Charged him Medication and consultation and he told me he was short of some money.
So I let him pay less after all I learnt a valuable lesson from him.

 

[ozone]

Charged him Medication and consultation and he told me he was short of some money.
So I let him pay less after all I learnt a valuable lesson from him.

so sweet ... Pocket empty, but filled with love

 

[suraju06]

Hi Renuka,

So after the initial waxing of hormones reaches the full moon state the waning of love begins.

That is great. Harmone and moon, waxing and waning, That is rhyming well. After reading your post I (like vadivelu) pointed my index finger at myself and said "Raju, you are becoming a poet. Whatever you say rhymes for people." Thank you.

Cheers.

 

[renuka]

Hi Renuka,



That is great. Harmone and moon, waxing and waning, That is rhyming well. After reading your post I (like vadivelu) pointed my index finger at myself and said "Raju, you are becoming a poet. Whatever you say rhymes for people." Thank you.

Cheers.

Dear sir,

Now you should gently remind yourself that in the film industry the person well known to be a King of Rhymes and Poetry is T.Rajendar!!LOL

The name Raju also does match with Rajendar.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Gravity cannot be held responsible for people FALLING in LOVE.
Einstein.

Pheromones and hormones can be held responsible
for people falling in love.
Suraju

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

I have heard that they seem to be witnessing a Supernova!

True!!!!

It's only one's mental make up, perceptions and maturity that can prove if a person is willing only to walk on the clouds or flying with wings or even living in the moons OR he/she is just cherishing such magnificent mental stimulation out of Love and can well remain composed, committed and true to the feelings of Love and its challenges "ON GROUND" as well.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Patient turned into a preacher...
and saved a pretty penny too!

Charged him Medication and consultation and he told me he was short of some money.
So I let him pay less after all I learnt a valuable lesson from him.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

His pocket may be empty
but his heart was full
and his head worked well.

so sweet ... Pocket empty, but filled with love

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Did you remember to stand in front of a mirror???

Hi Renuka,



That is great. Harmone and moon, waxing and waning, That is rhyming well. After reading your post I (like vadivelu) pointed my index finger at myself and said "Raju, you are becoming a poet. Whatever you say rhymes for people." Thank you.

Cheers.